Chapter 209 will choke to death from dog food one day

"Yes, most of the time, people's low self-esteem is directed at different aspects. For example, if someone writes well but has a bad voice, he will be more willing to choose handwriting work and reject speech work. When he writes, he will be confident, and once he is asked to speak, he may hold the microphone and start shaking, and he will feel like he is facing a great enemy, as if he will die if he speaks. Roze analyzed.

"What an exaggeration!" Gu Bing said.

"No, that's perfectly normal. Most people have mental illness, but many people's psychological problems do not affect their normal life, so everyone ignores them. Roze said.

"You continue to talk about the situation of the eldest brother!" Gu Bing reminded.

Luo Ze continued to analyze: "Inferiority complex and self-confidence are relative, some people are obsessed with self-confidence, self-confidence beyond imagination, that kind of person, maybe ugly to the sky, she dares to stand on the stage to write in public, because of psychological self-confidence, she will not feel ashamed." And people with extremely low self-esteem, unless they really have outstanding results in some aspect, they dare to show their side in front of others. ”

Gu Bing was stunned when he heard it: "You just said that people's inferiority complex is only manifested in some aspects, and now you are telling me that people with inferiority complex and self-confident people ......."

"Everyone is different," Roze said. Some are self-confident as a whole, some are inferior as a whole, and some are self-confident in some aspects, and inferior in some aspects, this kind of person will be more difficult to guide people who are simply confident or inferior, and the eldest brother belongs to this kind of inferiority complex in some aspects. The eldest brother is confident when dealing with work or study, because whether it is work or study, he will do his best, and he will become more and more courageous until he is invincible in the end.

But for feelings, the environment in which he lived since he was a child created his lack of feelings and inferiority. Just imagine, there is a child, who has no father since he was a child, and lives a poor life with his mother, and when he walks to school when he is studying, a group of children surround him and point fingers at him and scold him for being an illegitimate child, calling him cheap, and scolding him that no one wants to be abandoned by his father...... If it were you, would you have low self-esteem? ”

A distressed look flashed in Gu Bing's eyes.

Luo Ze continued: "When you grow up a little bit, you lose your mother, his only love is lost, you haven't experienced it, you can't imagine how much the loss of his mother by his eldest brother hurts his emotional world, the whole world will be bleak, the last straw in his hand is gone, and he will really feel like his heart is dead and loveless." I think that at that time, the only thing that supported the eldest brother's life was probably the last words of the eldest brother's mother. ”

Luo Ze's tone became heavy, and the atmosphere became heavy, and Gu Bing's eyes couldn't help but turn red.

Luo Ze continued: "Why does the eldest brother like Li Manqing? ”

"Why?" Gu Bing asked.

"If it were you, would you like Li Manqing?" Luo Ze asked.

"Of course not, a hypocritical woman!" Gu Bing was disdainful.

However, it was this hypocritical woman who broke into the heart of the eldest brother. The eldest brother is an extremely emotionally lacking but self-enclosed person, he will be different from the face that many people see, what we see is Li Manqing's hypocrisy, what he sees is Li Manqing's roundness. Because he wears the shackles of affection, he is particularly envious of Li Manqing, the kind of person who can be flexible and handle life very smoothly. ”

"I see!" Gu Bing suddenly understood.

"At that time, the eldest brother was also young, and he was not as calm as he is now." Roze said.

This time it was Gu Bing's turn to roll his eyes, and he said unceremoniously: "Calm fart, calm won't be unable to control your emotions." ”

"These are two different things! The eldest brother's previous personality was not like this, because of various experiences, it will become what it is now. ”

Gu Bing frowned: "Yes, the eldest brother used to laugh very much. ”

Luo Ze sighed lowly: "Actually, although he loved to laugh at that time, his heart was still bitter. He just wants to use a smile to keep himself optimistic and positive all the time. At that time, he had to take care of the company and Li Manqing, and it was very difficult to carry out business, and he desperately wanted to give Li Manqing a happy life, and the psychological pressure was very great. ”

"I didn't think about it so much before!" Gu Bing said more and more distressedly.

Luo Ze stretched out his hand and patted Gu Bing's shoulder: "Don't worry, although the eldest brother is more likely to have emotions now, it is actually because he has paid his feelings, he has begun to care about returns, and he has begun to worry about variables." will slowly get better, the eldest brother and Tang Qianyu will definitely be happy, Tang Qianyu is the most suitable person for the eldest brother. ”

"I'm worried about the variables when you say it." Gu Bing said worriedly.

"You're going to see a psychiatrist too." Luo Ze couldn't help laughing, "Given that your psychological problems are not as serious as your eldest brother, and you are not as rich as your eldest brother, the consultation fee is 60 (percent of the percentile) of the eldest brother, how about it?" Second brother is okay with you? ”

"Shameless! Master go pee! Gu Bing walked into the bathroom.

Walking in and turning back: "Is there anything we can do for Big Brother?" ”

"Less of a light cannon, you share more work for the eldest brother, so that the eldest brother can free up time to fall in love. The longer the eldest brother gets along with Tang Qianyu and the deeper the relationship, the more secure the eldest brother will be, which is a benign guidance! Roze said.

"Grass, squeeze me in disguise, my master I have five plus two white and black, and if I share more work, I will simply cultivate immortals." Gu Bing scolded and walked to the bathroom.

"Haha!" Luo Ze laughed twice and walked in as well.

……

When Luo Ze and Gu Bing returned to the small furnace, they saw the three small furnaces surrounded by each other, and the two looked at each other and smiled. This kind of family-like warmth can only be understood by the two of them who have the same experience of being kicked out of the family.

Gu Bing immediately sat down and picked up chopsticks to pick up the fish.

Smack-

Yan Mofeng knocked directly over with chopsticks.

"Do what?" Gu Bing had a resentful look on his face.

"Have you washed your hands?" Yan Mofeng asked in a deep voice.

"Of course I washed it!" Gu Bing said.

"Go wash again!" Yan Mofeng frowned.

So, Gu Bing pouted and went to find a stall owner with a basin of water and squatted not far away to wash.

Luo Ze also crouched over.

The two of them whispered.

Gu Bing pouted: "The temperament is getting more and more eccentric." ”

Luo Ze lowered his voice and snickered: "Actually, I don't want the two of us to be light bulbs, we have to be conscious." ”

Gu Bing couldn't help laughing, he put his hands in the basin and rubbed them, glanced sideways at the stove, and his eyes were bright: "I really hope they will be like this for the rest of their lives, and the master is willing to die of exhaustion." ”

"Tsk, where is this? I didn't sleep all night last night, I analyzed the experiences and personalities of the two of them one by one, the personalities of the two of them are simply perfectly complementary, one is cold, one is warm, one is rigid, one is soft, both of them have the experience of falling out of love, and both have the experience of losing their parents, both have encountered scum relatives, this kind of emotional similar experience, can make them sympathize with each other. As long as the eldest brother overcomes the psychological barrier, one day, we will choke to death from dog food! ”