Well, if I have a baby or toddler, I will install a child safety seat, and I will install it in my uncle's car in a few days, and when I get home, my brother will be able to use it. ”

is more careful than his heart, Xiao Hei has never lost.

Qian Mo saw these scary-looking sapper shovels and other objects at his feet, grabbed a shovel and gestured twice, "When did you buy it, it's so handsome, if this is a shaved ice digging pit, okay?" ”

"Hmm..."What Xiao Hei wants to say is that not only is it easy to dig a pit, but it is also good to scare people.

In the car, the eldest lady was frightened, patting her heart in a cold sweat, and the second aunt was similar.

"Did you see that kid? Emma, holding the murder weapon, what is he going to do, shoot us to death with a shovel, and then pull it to the deep mountains and old forests to bury it? ”

The eldest lady nodded like pounding garlic, yes, we don't dare to say, we don't dare to ask, it looks like that.

"Forget it, the son-in-law of his family has been here for the past two days, let's not go over and touch the mold, and we will go over when his son-in-law is gone."

The second lady was a little unwilling, and said sourly.

"Isn't it just having a baby? She is also noble, and she has gone to live in this kind of dead and expensive place, as if a woman has never given birth to a child, and my daughter-in-law there has just given birth, isn't it just as good, no one has come to this kind of place, the local housewife..."

The second lady's face was full of bitterness.

She also has a confinement daughter-in-law at home, and she just throws it at home if she doesn't care about it, isn't it okay? Isn't it natural for a woman to give birth to a child, as for such hypocrisy?

"I think at the beginning, we didn't even go to the hospital when we gave birth, so we squatted and shouted at home along the edge of the kang, and my mother-in-law was afraid that I would stain the kang mat and didn't let me go on the kang, so I squatted and gave birth, didn't I live the same life until now?"

"But isn't it, if a woman gives birth to a child, let her Mu Mianmian be hypocritical, when she cries, I don't believe that Lao Wu can always spoil her like this, and sooner or later I will see her spending money like running water." The second lady said with her eyebrows fluttering, as if her mouth had been opened, and she was unlucky when she said that Mu Mianmian was unlucky.

It's very cool to say, she will have an accident when she gets home.

These Qian Mo didn't know, she and Xiao Hei went in to say goodbye to Mu Mianmian, and were about to leave after speaking.

Mu Mianmian's face was flushed, after giving birth, her weight did not rise and she lost a little, she looked much healthier, she didn't have any anger that her daughter-in-law would suffer during the confinement, and she was comfortable for more than ten days, just because the days were too comfortable, she still felt a little guilty.

Pulling Qian Mo's hand and talking to her, "Why do I think I'm living too well." ”

"Maybe it's because you don't have a mother-in-law and a big sister who doesn't worry about your heart." Qianmo humor.

Xiao Hei immediately sat and looked at her, and his little eyes were still a little aggrieved.

Qian Mo hurriedly corrected, "I'm not saying that all mothers-in-law and eldest aunts and sisters-in-law in the world are not good, there are always reliable ones like my master and Sister Nuonuo, but there are some... Well, it's indescribable, hey, is the daughter-in-law of my second mother's family also confined? ”

Mu Mianmian nodded, isn't it, the due date is about the same.

"Your second aunt is a real chicken thief, the little daughter-in-law in the next room is a neighbor with her son, it is said that your second aunt eats fried rice for her every day when her daughter-in-law is confined, and her daughter-in-law cries during confinement."

Mu Mianmian shook his head, listening to it was really worrying.

When a woman is fragile in confinement, if she doesn't take good care of her at this time, she will be hurt psychologically.

"What's wrong with fried rice?" Qianmo didn't know much about these confinement things.

Without waiting for Mu Mianmian to speak, Xiao Hei spoke gently.

"Although from the perspective of nutrition, pregnant women can eat steamed soft rice in confinement, but local customs believe that eating fried rice in confinement to return milk, and some places think that it is not good for teeth, in short, you should eat nutritious broth food in confinement, only eating fried rice is not nutritious, and there will be a relatively big blow to the hearts of some mothers."

Mu Mianmian was pleased, looking at Xiao Hei like a friend of women.

"Silently, are you still a woman? I don't know this, but fortunately, it's less reliable, and I understand everything. ”

Blackie is modest.

In order to take care of his goddess, he knew the popular lipstick number, and he knew the menstrual period recipes, and he had already read the books of confinement with children, and in order to have a common language with her, he read all kinds of philosophical books.

"Why don't you say that you are a model of a successful man? I have been confined for the past few days, and I have pondered myself, some people are willing to spend tens of thousands of dollars to buy breeds of dogs, but they are reluctant to feed dog food for leftovers, and they will be gone after a few years of life, and it is the same for men to marry wives? If you don't maintain your marriage home, who loses? ”

Qian Mo was speechless, although it sounded like that, but marrying a wife and raising a dog... Is that an appropriate analogy?

"Since ancient times, when a woman gives birth to a child, she walks around the ghost door, and although her mother-in-law is not obliged to serve her daughter-in-law, how can she say it... Now that you have a feud, what should you do when you get old in the future, your second aunt is short-sighted, and when she cries when she is old. Her son can't carry it clearly, and he doesn't protect his daughter-in-law at this time... Ay. ”

Mu Mianmian shook his head, feeling that the family was hopeless.

Thirty years of seeing the mother-in-law, thirty years of seeing the daughter-in-law, treating the daughter-in-law harshly and being complacent, really getting old and lying in bed and not moving, the daughter-in-law takes care of it is the duty not to take care of it, and the son blindly does not talk to the daughter-in-law, which hurts the feelings of the husband and wife and affects the marriage.

According to the law, the daughter-in-law has no obligation to support her in-laws, but only plays a helping role.

Mu Mianmian felt that the second sister-in-law didn't understand this simple truth, and she was so old in vain.

"Your second aunt is going to be a demon like this, I think her daughter-in-law is going to have postpartum depression."

Qian Mo was in awe, "Mom, you all know about postpartum depression, we didn't spend this money in vain." ”

Mu Mianmian was quite proud, "There are training lectures in the confinement center, I let your father listen to them, and not a single class will be missed!" ”

The money has been spent, so naturally I can't let go of the opportunity to brainwash my husband.

The traditional belief is that it is very easy for women to have children, and that women have children is the only way, and no one is educated about the risks involved.

Irreversible damage to the body, postpartum urine leakage, hemorrhoids, breast sagging, breast diseases, etc., not to mention, let's talk about postpartum psychological problems, postpartum depression is high but not taken seriously, and even people will be called hypocritical.

In this environment, Chen Baichuan also felt so at first.

Isn't it just a child, everyone gives birth like this.

Qian Mo did psychological construction for Mu Mianmian in advance, and tried to let Chen Baichuan see the pain of childbirth, and let Chen Baichuan listen to all the maternity care courses in the confinement center, no matter how busy he was, after a few times, Chen Baichuan's thoughts were different, and it was better for Mu Mianmian.

It just so happened that the confinement lady brought back the child who had returned from swimming, and Chen Baichuan followed happily.

"Why are you talking so happily?"