Chapter 281: Be Kind to Yourself

"Okay, I admit that what you said is indeed right, after all, the current you are indeed different from the past you, and I also admit that the current you have changed a lot from the past, so what you said at this time, I tried to believe it slowly." Ren Xiaoou actually found that her good sister was not the same as before, and she had slowly changed, so she should also believe her.

It should be changed, not the same as in the past. I have always hoped that she can change, be kind to herself, and not be so critical and stingy with herself.

After all, only you know what is best for you, and you can't always think about others in your heart, and never think about your own life and future.

In the past, she only thought about other people in her head, thinking about the orphans in the orphanage, but rarely thinking about herself. Sometimes I think it's too stupid for her to think like this, and I want to be angry with her, but I know that it's useless to be angry with her, because that's how her personality is.

Unless she has changed herself, she has figured it out by herself, otherwise, no matter what she says, she will not be able to listen to it. Fortunately, there is no need to say more about herself now, she has really changed, and she is quite happy to see such a situation.

"At that time, I may have been kicked in the head by a donkey, and I couldn't figure out a lot of things, but now when I think about it, I really think that I should be kind to myself, and I shouldn't be as stupid as I used to be." Shu Yixin didn't know that his current self was really different from his past self, and he only thought about others in the past, but he didn't think about himself, which was really unfair to himself.

Therefore, she must get better and better in the future, so that she can be worthy of herself. In fact, it's just a little better for yourself, and the rest hasn't changed much, those things are still the same, and you will still help if you need to help.

I can only say that being kind to myself is the only change in myself, and the rest is still the same, I am still the same as before, and I will still be enthusiastic about helping others.

"Since you want to be kind to yourself, let's go and give yourself a better chance." Ren Xiaoou has always hoped that she can be kind to herself, and this idea has never changed, so take her out for a walk at this time.

"Okay, whatever you say, I'll do it, anyway, my time today is all for you, okay." It's rare that the coffee book house is not open today, so I don't have anything to do when I go back, it's better to go out with her, and now I think about it for a long time, I haven't had such an easy shopping.

Before, I always felt that there were too many things to be busy, and I didn't have the leisure and leisure, let alone the time to go shopping.

I didn't even think about giving myself a vacation before, and I guarded my coffee book house all day long. Thinking that I have to work a little harder to make more money, so that I can help those orphans who need help.

"Don't worry, I will never let you go back in the middle of the night, so before that, you should be mentally prepared, don't say that I haven't explained anything to you." Ren Xiaoou felt that she was very necessary, and at the beginning, she wanted to say hello to her and tell her that there was such a thing.

"You won't be so cruel to me, you won't let me go back until midnight." Shu Yixin was really a little frightened by her words, could it be true, don't let herself go home until midnight.

Although I say that I rarely go shopping, it doesn't mean that I haven't gone shopping before, so it's really good to treat myself so cruelly at this time? Anyway, today is the time to rest, so you should let yourself go back to rest early.

I rarely have a day to rest, do I have to spend it with her in shopping like this? In this way, it is not more tiring than going to work, so it is better not to rest.

I feel a little scared when I think about it, if I knew it earlier, I shouldn't have said this, and I shouldn't have given him so much expectation. Now she really wants to accompany her to go shopping until midnight, so she can only accompany her.

"It's rare to ask you out, so I didn't plan to ask you to go home so early at this time, and you don't have to think about being able to go home early, understand?" I don't know when I will be able to go shopping with her like this next time, so I must seize the time this time.

What's more, the time will pass quickly, go shopping, drink something, and then take a walk, in fact, it really doesn't take much time, you will find that it will soon be the middle of the night.

So at this time, I really feel that time will pass very quickly, anyway, I have nothing to do when I go back so early, isn't it good to go out with myself? It's rare to relax, it's rare to be able to make yourself crazy like this, and I think it's pretty good.

Well, Ren Xiaoou felt that all she lacked was this feeling, before she wanted to ask her out to go shopping, she always said, no time, no time and so on.

Now at this moment, it is rare for her to seize such an opportunity, how can she give up so easily?

"Well, since you've said so, then I can only do it, as if there is no other room for justification." She said so, what else can she justify? In the end, she would reject what she said, but what she said did make sense, after all, she had been busy with other things before, and she hadn't thought about being nice to herself at all, so every time she asked herself to go out shopping or something, she would refuse.

At that time, I just thought that business was more important, and I could go shopping anytime. As a result, I haven't been shopping a few times in the past year.

It was her previous practice that left roots in her heart. Therefore, it is rare to catch it, and it is naturally impossible to let go of herself easily when she goes shopping with her.

Then the two women went shopping like this, and did not return until the middle of the night, which was indeed similar to what she said at the beginning. When I went back, it was really the middle of the night, which was really unexpected.

Even when Lin Ya heard it, she felt a little unlikely. Shu Yixin's character, she is too clear, and at this time, she suddenly told herself that she went out for a whole day before coming back, how could she believe it?

I have known her for so many years, and I have never seen her so crazy, and today I told myself such a fact, even I feel that the woman in front of me is different from the one I know.

And the other party did tell herself with practical actions that what she said was true, not false, because from the large number of things she took back from her hand, it could be seen that she was indeed out shopping.

"So what you told me just now is true, you did go shopping with Ren Xiaoou today, and these are the trophies you went shopping today, right!" Although I don't want to admit this reality, I have to believe all this in front of me.

Shu Yixin looked at her, nodded slightly, and said lightly, "Yes, all this is true." "Even I feel a little incredulous, but I have to deny that all this is true, and I did it to myself today, and I did it a little impulsively.

Thinking about it from another angle, it's not as bad as I imagined, and the appropriate self should also change, and it can't always be the same as in the past.

In the past, I have always shown myself that image, and now I want to change my style. If it weren't for him, and if it weren't for him, would I have such a change, would I have such thoughts? Now that I think about it, his influence on himself is really quite large.

If it weren't for the words he said to himself, if he hadn't reminded himself, for himself, there would have been no such thoughts, and there would have been no such change, it can only be said that all of this is because of him, he has changed a lot, and he has changed his original thoughts.

I have to admit that he still has a certain place in his heart, although he can't believe it, but all this is true, which even feels a little strange to himself, why do he care so much about what he says, and be so disobedient?

However, in the face of this problem, I don't want to dwell on myself for the time being, because I clearly know that it is useless to dwell on it, because I can't change anything.

"Now I have a feeling of being impressed by you for three days, and I really feel that you are very different from the past." Lin Ya had to admit that she was really different from her in the past, so she felt a little strange in front of her.

I don't know what kind of reason can prompt her to have such a change today, to the person in front of her, she feels very strange, not the one she knows.

Recently, I have been busy with work and rarely paid attention to her, or because of other reasons, she has really changed a lot. How to feel more and more unclear about yourself, what the girl in front of me thinks. Is she still the one you know? Why did it change so much all of a sudden.

When Shu Yixin looked at her and smiled, he said softly, "You can't always be the same as in the past, you have to change a little." "Didn't you understand this too? Now that I understand this, I also feel that I should say goodbye to the past and create a new self.

Lin Ya heard her say such words, she really felt very relieved, pulled out a smile, and said lightly, "It really makes me feel very relieved to hear you say this, and it also makes me feel that you are really different from the past, you have changed, to be honest, I am quite happy for you, after all, I also have such awareness." There is a saying that he is still right, people can't always be unchanged, they always have to look forward.