348 Didactic
"If only you figured it out." Mrs. Lin touched Lin Yijia's hair and said with emotion: "You are also a mother now, your heart must be tough, understand?" I remember what my mother told you, we live in this world, and we can't satisfy everyone. Occasionally, for the sake of oneself and one's loved ones, and hurt the interests of others, there is no way to do it, and there is no need to have a psychological burden at all...... Did you make a note of it? ”
Lin Yijia nodded.
After listening to Lin Yijia tell the reason, Mrs. Lin's anger almost disappeared.
After talking a lot about her experience with Lin Yijia, she talked about Lin Songjia: "...... I met her in Baoding. She looks pretty good, and her mentality is quite good, much more stable than when she was a little girl before. Aunt Fu has been fasting and reciting Buddha for several years, and she has finally paid off. ”
Lin Yijia nodded: "I heard the color painting say that the fifth sister has really figured it out, and she has some plans and preparations for the future." ”
"Your second uncle is not a ruthless person, as long as she has a correct mentality, of course your second uncle will re-plan for her. Needless to say, it's still okay to marry into a wealthy squire's family. She is still young, and she may not be able to have children and a happy family in the future. ”
"My mother still said that only when you have a correct mentality can you live a good life." Mrs. Lin hugged Sister Fu and teased, and said: "You can't get pregnant within three years, this is a very important thing, and you must not compromise or do other inappropriate things for any internal and external reasons." ”
"I understand, mother." Lin Yijia paused. said: "Actually, it's okay if I can't give birth for the time being, in the future, the eldest son of the next generation of the Yang family will be in the line of the queen of Xingguo, and it will be much better." Although Chisato is no longer hiding his clumsy recently, he is not keen on power...... Last time, His Highness said that he should seek a position in the military department, but I didn't look at him very enthusiastically. ”
"Men act outside, we as women must not ask three questions, but we can't ask wide. Qianli is a capable person, just ask for it, don't think about planning for him. Say what's going on for him, what's good for him, and so on. Mrs. Lin admonished.
Lin Yijia's face turned slightly red: "Hmm." ”
The mother and daughter talked about Lin Shiqing's rise and fall by the way: "...... Your father didn't think anything of it, but he joked with me, saying thank you for giving birth to a few good daughters for him, and I was a little embarrassed......
For example, he Lin Shiqing can only rely on a few sons-in-law to seek a high position.
"How could Daddy be so awkward?" Lin Yijia didn't believe it.
Mrs. Lin smiled and nodded: "I'll ask him: Is the daughter I gave birth to bad?" He was so stunned that he didn't speak...... Hmph, he dares to say that it's not good......"
At this time, Lin Shiqing was also saying similar things to Yang Guangbei: "...... Such acts. Somewhat deliberately. If you are young today, your heart will definitely be strong. You have united the Liu family to act like this, I am afraid that Your Majesty will feel embarrassed in your heart. ”
Yang Guangbei didn't think so.
He respectfully said to Lin Shiqing: "The little son-in-law thinks that it is precisely because His Majesty is young and competitive that he must understand early that he can't do whatever he wants as an emperor. Be the emperor. There must also be co-optation, compromise, and even concession...... His Highness recognized this early on. Only then can we adjust our mentality earlier and be an enlightened master. ”
"Father-in-law, do you think that's so?" Yang Guangbei asked Lin Shiqing.
Lin Shiqing was silent for a moment and sighed: "You said it so clearly...... Alas. ”
As an emperor, of course, you can't do whatever you want.
However, at this point, the real power is always bolder. As a scholar of the imperial examination, Wenchen will be more cautious.
Lin Shiqing patted Yang Guangbei's shoulder and said, "Thousands of miles." You will tell me all aspects of Shengjing. ”
Weng and his son-in-law are talking about family and country affairs, and the mother and daughter are talking about their parents' shortcomings.
Lin Yijia said: "...... At the beginning, Qianli especially wanted to split up, and he didn't hesitate to add fuel to the fire in order to split the family, stirring up many things between several relatives. She mentioned Yang Guangbei's "efforts" to separate the family, and said, "...... After the eldest princess recovered from her illness, she finally thought about it a lot, and after she came to her senses, Wuxing Houfu moved out smoothly. ”
"But I was pregnant at the time, and the eldest princess said that she would not mention moving until the child was born, and she also had the intention of caring for the juniors, so we couldn't refuse, so we had to postpone it. And now, Sister Fu was born, but she got the eyes of His Royal Highness, and she cherished it very much, and she wanted to take a look at it every day. ”
Lin Yijia said in a low voice: "I'm afraid that after I finish sitting in two months, the eldest princess will not be able to leave Sister Fu, and we will mention moving again......"
The eldest princess had already had an illness last time, and Lin Yijia really couldn't overestimate her ability to bear it.
What if she can't figure it out again and gets sick again, what if this makes them a family of three?
Or, if she made the eldest princess unhappy and proposed to put Sister Fu by her side to raise her, wouldn't this be tantamount to Lin Yijia's life! And this request, if the eldest princess is really unhappy, she will definitely mention it!
Hearing this, Mrs. Lin nodded her head in sympathy: "You are very right to be worried. Like His Highness's heart disease before, with the first time, there is a second time. In case she falls ill again, the world will know the reason, and they will have to accuse you of being unfilial. Originally, the matter of separating the family, Qianli did not consider it thoroughly. ”
"What do you mean?" Lin Yijia said suspiciously: "Qianli really wanted to split up at that time!" To be honest, in the past, the Shimmer Academy, in this family, was really alienated and indifferent to everyone else. As the saying goes, noisy and noisy family...... Qianli is too detached and polite with them, and it doesn't look like a family at all. ”
At that time, Yang Guangbei was desperate to split up, but in fact, he desperately wanted to have a family and warm home. For example, a home like the Lin family.
And every time she thinks of these, Lin Yijia always feels sorry for Yang Guangbei.
"Mother doesn't mean that Qianli's desire to split up is not strong enough." Mrs. Lin sighed: "It's just that he is the eldest grandson of the eldest princess." The Wuxing Houfu family can be smoothly separated, that is because Wuxing Hou is a concubine - it is a common practice to divide the descendants of the concubine early. And how many families are completely separated between relatives and bloodlines when there are elders? ”
"In the past, Yang Guangbei was white, and it was inevitable that living in the house would inevitably feel like being under the fence, so the eldest princess left Wuxinghou and the family to live with Yang Guangbei; Now that Yang Guangbei has a knighthood, he can hold his head up and live in the mansion, and he lives above board, so the eldest princess let Wu Xinghou's family leave...... And you, you missed the moment when you left with Wu Xing and them, and then mentioned moving, and you have a different feeling about the meaning of the eldest princess. ”
"Especially when she sees Sister Fu in distress, how can she be happy that you will move and take Sister Fu away, so that she will not be able to see Sister Fu?" Mrs. Lin shook her head.
"What should I do?" When Lin Yijia heard this, she felt that what Mrs. Lin said was reasonable, and she was a little anxious in her heart - no matter how meaningful the residence in the Shimmer Courtyard was, how could it be compared to the comfortable and casual living in the house that belonged to their family of three?
What's more, so many things have been done, and the family property has been divided, so why can't it be done in the end!
Mrs. Lin thought for a moment and said, "That's it...... Isn't there a custom to stay at the opposite door? After you got out of the double confinement, you used this excuse to move to your mother's house with Qianli and Sister Fu to live for a while. ”
"Besides, isn't the prince of Xingguo about to get married? When the bride enters the door, she is different from you, and she will inevitably behave in front of Your Highness. At most, when a new child is born in this house, it will be difficult for His Highness to keep you anymore. After all, the rumors of your Yang family's separation have long been released, and the family property has been divided, so it is reasonable that she can no longer keep you. Mrs. Lin comforted Lin Yijia.
Lin Yijia was still a little frustrated.
After all, they have done so much in front of them. It turned out to be the way it is.
Seeing this, Mrs. Lin poked Lin Yijia's forehead unhappily, and said angrily: "When other people's families get married, they all have aunts and concubines who want to get along and fight, but you are just detached and polite here, what are you not satisfied with!" Lack of greed! ”
Lin Yijia had nothing to say, so she could only bow down and listen to the training.
After that, the mother and daughter inevitably talked about Liu Shenzhi again.
Mrs. Lin said: "I didn't agree with your choice back then, because he suffered a lot when he was a child, and his heart was uneven, and his idea of making contributions was too strong. Once people have this kind of mentality, it is inevitable that they will change their inner persistence again and again for the sake of interests, and compromise with the status quo in order to seek better development......"
She sighed: "How much resentment he had against Old Man Liu back then, and how much he insisted on never entering the door of Liu's house...... It's only been a long time now, haven't they all given up? Maybe he thought that he just had to borrow the Liu family as a pedal, and he would inevitably become independent from the Liu family in the future...... I don't know if he'll do that when the conditions are right, I just know that once the white cotton cloth has been in the black ink, it will never be as white and clean as it was at the beginning. ”
Mrs. Lin looked at Lin Yijia: "My mother knows that he has saved you several times, and there is a lot of trust between you...... Mother just wants to say that since he has chosen not to be a pure healer, you and Sister Fu should stop bothering him to take care of his body. You owe him affection, let Qianli go for you, you are a woman in the house, don't be too casual in front of him. If he has a wife in the future, you will have another relationship with his wife. ”
Lin Yijia nodded: "Qianli and I think the same way." ”
"If you married him at the beginning, think about it, you will have to go back to the Liu family with him now......" Mrs. Lin glared at Lin Yijia angrily, and said: "When the time comes, in the face of the rights and wrongs in the Liu family's mansion, see if you can bear it." (To be continued.) If you like this work, you are welcome to vote for recommendation and monthly passes, and your support is my biggest motivation. )