Chapter 325: You Make Your Own Decisions
Chapter 325: You Make Your Own Decisions
"You should patiently explain to the other party that this is not your intention, and you have no choice but to do so." As long as you are willing to explain and the other person is willing to listen, then the misunderstanding between each other can be solved.
The premise is that they must be calm with each other, otherwise, this kind of thing is really difficult to solve.
So many years have passed, and now all of a sudden they are told that all this is just a misunderstanding, who wants to believe it? What's more, after all these years, I don't know if the girl has been waiting for him all the time, whether it is the same as what she thought at the beginning, in short, I can predict that the road of my grandson's future relationship is not so easy to follow.
No matter what, I will respect his choice and respect his wishes. From beginning to end, I firmly believe in such a principle, emotional things cannot be forced, it is mutual liking, believing in will, in order to be together.
At the beginning, I didn't want to match him and Li Yiyou wholeheartedly, thinking that they were childhood sweethearts, plus the right pair, if they could make a pair, it would be very good.
But what was the result, he didn't tell himself bluntly that he didn't like the other party, and this time he didn't have any plans to talk about feelings.
I have done this kind of thing once, and I know that he doesn't like it, so I don't feel that there is any need to force it, and he will do it by himself when he feels emotional, plus he also knows that he has a habit of cleanliness, if it is not the person he likes, it is impossible to live happily together.
I had thought about it before, and I wanted to match him with whom, but the result was not what I thought, but I got him with a straightforward answer.
Then she won't do such a thing in the future, after all, with the lessons of the past, it is impossible for her to continue to do these things, if she does this, it will only make her disgusted and disgusted with herself, and maybe she will not come to see herself again in the future.
He has lived to this age, and many things can be regarded as open, and he just wants him to have time, and if he is free, he will come back to accompany him as an old man, and he doesn't want to interfere too much in other things.
"I can't worry about so many things now, and I can only talk about it later, I don't know if she is willing to forgive after listening to me, but there are some things I should do, I will definitely do." Now it's not just this problem, she misunderstands herself, it's more that she even forgets herself, and even forgets that relationship a little.
The memories of each other are gone, I just know that I used to be with her. If you want to continue the relationship with her, you have to think of other ways, or look at the fate between yourself and her.
I really can't worry about the future now, and there are a lot of things in front of me now, and all of them are troublesome things, and they are all problems that make me entangled.
After all these things are completely resolved, let's think about other problems by myself, after all, for myself, I don't have so much energy, I don't have so much time, I can't worry about it at all, plus I still have selfishness, some things must be clarified before this.
"Well, just do whatever you want, grandpa will support you." He has always been a worry-free child, and what he says must have its own reason.
You shouldn't worry too much about his way of doing things, because I believe that he has grown up and will take care of himself and know what he wants.
I really shouldn't worry too much about it, and I believe that he can take care of himself. He has something to do that no one can support, including himself. On the surface, it seems that he listens to himself, but in fact, he is just filial to himself and has not disobeyed himself.
There are some things that he knows clearly, and he has his own ideas and opinions. Regarding these, I don't want to interfere, and I don't have the right to interfere, let him do it himself, after all, he is not a child now, and he knows what he is doing.
"Well, I should go to the United States today, so I won't go back to the old house to accompany you for a while, grandpa, you should be fine at home alone." He Yuhe knew that this matter would continue to drag on, because he knew that this matter was not resolved, and he was not in the mood to go to work at all, so these things had to be resolved as soon as possible.
Only after this matter is completely resolved, and after you think it out, will you be in the mood to go back to work.
"Don't worry, I'm fine at home, waiting for you to come back, when the time comes, I want to see a new you, I don't want to see you with a sad face." Either way, it's a thing of the past, and I don't want him to be affected by it.
I hope that after he comes back from the United States this time, everything will be better and he will change back to the original him.
Now he looks sad and sad, he is very distressed when he sees it, what he wants to see is still the smiling him before, he always has a smiling face when facing himself, no matter what happens, it is not a big deal for him, he can solve it, and his mentality is very relaxed.
"Hopefully." He Yuhe didn't dare at this time, and he definitely didn't dare, what guarantee to give.
Because he didn't know what kind of story he would hear and what kind of changes he would have in his heart when he returned to the United States this time, he couldn't give any promised grandfather at all.
When he came back, Grandpa would see a depressed self, worse than the situation in front of him.
"Grandpa, I believe you can handle these things well, don't put so much pressure on yourself, just let it be, sometimes you should be more considerate of them, they are really for your good, so they will impose that kind of idea on you." In any case, as a parent, it is all about hope and giving children a better place.
Therefore, we should also understand their feelings when they did this in the first place, and they wanted their son to become a dragon.
He Yuhe fell silent and did not continue to answer his grandfather's question. Let's talk about it depending on the situation, I'm in a bad mood now, so I can't give an answer to what my grandfather said, and I don't know if I can forgive them for what they did.
That's to be considerate of their feelings, but who is to understand their own feelings at this moment.
At the beginning, he insisted on bringing himself to the United States, but he didn't explain anything clearly, so he just said that he would leave, and he didn't think about himself from his own point of view.
Now I have to forgive them myself, and I have to say to myself that they have no choice but to do this. At this time, I really feel that my heart is not so strong, even if the other party is my parents, I may not be able to forgive.
Everyone has their own different position, they have their own position, they think that this is for their own good, but they ignore their own position, ignore their feelings, and never ask themselves if they want it.
If it's not what they want, but they just think it's good, then the outcome will be divided. For example, at this moment, isn't that what it is?
After a long while, He Yuhe, who had been silent, picked up his mobile phone and made a call to Lin Ya.
Let her book herself a plane ticket to the United States, the sooner the better. At this time, he couldn't wait at all, since he didn't go back to the company to work, so it was better to go back to the United States as soon as possible. It's better to figure out some things early, and dragging things out to the end will only make your mood more depressed.
He really doesn't want to drag things out, so he has to get back to you as soon as possible and deal with this matter as soon as possible.
After Lin Ya received such a message, she was also a little surprised, because she knew that his work arrangement had no plans to go to the United States today, so how could she suddenly let herself book a plane ticket.
Although there are a lot of doubts in her heart, this is the boss's order, and she can only do it and hide those doubts.
"At this time, you calm down and think about it first, don't think so much." He Lao considered that it takes time to book a ticket, and maybe there is not a place so soon.
What you can do at this time is to comfort him, don't think too much, and let his mood calm down as much as possible.
He Yuhe didn't speak, he looked at the blue sky and white clouds blankly, looking at the clear sky, the blue sky and white clouds, it was really beautiful, but his mood was quite bad.
Seeing this, I really wanted to go out on a trip with her. Talk and laugh with her along the way, but is there still such an opportunity, is there still such a possibility?
After she knows her true identity and who she is, will she still be willing to accompany her like this, will she still be willing to do so?
He Yuhe was not sure at all in his heart, he didn't know what his first love would feel after hearing this story. Will you forgive yourself afterwards, will you become strangers between yourself and him from now on?
All the promises made today don't count, and she doesn't even want to see herself again! Think about what you did to yourself as a bastard, and even you feel a little despised for yourself.
But even in the face of such an ending, I can only admit it, whoever let the other party be his parents and did such a thing behind his back, he can only bear such a result.
Lin Ya quickly replied, saying that the ticket would be an hour later, and asked specifically, is there anything you need to prepare?
As his secretary, this matter came so suddenly, and he could only ask one more question, if there was anything he needed help with.
He Yuhe simply replied with two words, no.
At the moment, what he lacks the most is this ticket, and everything else is over there, so he doesn't need to bring anything with him. Anyway, after living there for so many years, there is no shortage of daily necessities.
In the end, He Yuhe still didn't stay to eat, no matter what He Lao said about him, let him eat something before leaving, but in the end he still refused.
He was in a bad mood and tasted nothing, so in the end he refused. Probably single-mindedly thinking that time would pass sooner and that he would be able to get to the United States sooner.
(End of chapter)