(217) When you should marry, you should not marry
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At dinner, Zhang Qingting felt more and more that something was wrong. Zhang Xiaodie, who usually chatters the most, is silent today, and after eating, she went to the back kitchen to stay, stirring the pot of mung bean soup that had just been boiled and was still hot, and fanning the wind vigorously, obviously venting her sullen feelings.
"What's wrong with this girl?" Zhang Qingting was inexplicable and made an inquiry.
"Who knows! Maybe you're thirsty and anxious to drink mung bean soup, right? Zhang Jinbao is a rough one, and he raised his voice and shouted, "I said Fluttershy, you fanned hard, I can't wait, don't you want to take a bowl out of cold water first?" ”
Zhang Xiaodie glanced at her brother and fanned harder, "I'm happy to slap you, can you handle it?" There's that nonsense to eat, and I'm still waiting to wash the dishes! ”
"Did this man choke on the medicine?" Zhang Jinbao's kindness was not reciprocated, so he bowed his head and said nothing.
As soon as Zhang Qingting heard it, he knew that there must be something wrong here, and asked Zhang Facai in a low voice, but they all said they didn't know. She thought about it, ate and went to Fang's house.
The family had just finished eating. Xiaoqing was collecting the bowl, and when she saw her coming, she was busy pouring tea, Zhang Qingting waved his hand, "What are we polite?" ** of it! A-Li, are you feeling better today? ”
"Thank you, it's much better! The doctor said that he would be fine after taking these two pairs of medicines, and he would be able to come back to help then. Yan Bo had been sick for a long time when he was busy working in the heavy rain, but he kept holding on without squeaking until the water in the racecourse receded and someone came to answer him, and then he fell. This time he was not lightly ill, and he really recuperated at home for several days.
"If it's okay, I'll have to rest at home for a few days before I go! There are still many places for you to contribute in the future, but don't be quick and collapse your body! Zhang Qingting looked at Fang Dehai and smiled, "Master Fang, you have to watch people." ”
Fang Dehai said with a smile, "Don't worry, you must raise him to be strong before letting him go out!" And you too, don't keep talking about others, you don't know how to feel sorry for yourself. There aren't many big things in the racecourse now, just let Mingzhu watch them, you can worry about it at home, but you are not allowed to contribute! ”
Zhang Qingting responded with a smile, and Fang Mingzhu pulled her, "Eldest sister." Let's go! I'll tell you what happened in the racecourse today, and when I'm done, you might as well go back and rest!" ”
The little girl is now in charge, although she is still a little immature in her words and actions, but she is very serious and responsible, and she can indeed help a lot. As soon as she has a lot of things, she doesn't have so much time to stick to Yan Bo, plus Zhang Qingting knocks and knocks from time to time, a few words, Fang Mingzhu gradually knows how to pay attention to the proportion between men and women, which saves everyone a lot of heart.
Zhang Qingting entered the house with her, and first listened to her talk about the big and small things in the racecourse, and sorted out with her whether it should be done or not.
After the conversation was done, Zhang Qingting asked, "What's going on with Fluttershy today?" Don't tell me that you don't know, I know that you two are the best, what she wants, she won't hide it from you, tell me quickly! ”
Fang Mingzhu heard her ask, but he first went outside the door to see that there was no one, and then he bolted the door and said sneakily. "Someone is laughing at Fluttershy today!"
Oh? Zhang Qingting was slightly stunned. Fluttershy isn't a small person, and if it were a normal thing, she would have had a fight with someone and then just give up, what is it that makes her sulk? "Could it be that it's because of the overboard?"
Fang Mingzhu picked up the thumb brother and was full of admiration, "The eldest sister is really smart!" I'll just say I can't hide this from you, so she might as well talk to you directly. You see, isn't it a guess? ”
It turned out that Zhang Xiaodie was rescued by He Yufeng last time, and the two were trapped overnight, but at first it was fine, but after a long time, some rumors arose, saying that she was a big girl with yellow flowers, and she spent a night alone with a young man, and there must be some unclear things.
At this level, in fact, when Zhang Xiaodie was first rescued, Zhang Qingting had already thought about it, and he felt that something was wrong in his heart. It's just that at that time, everyone was busy with disaster relief and rescue, and they didn't have time to take care of it. She was still thinking at the time, and she didn't mean to do this, it was all about the flood, maybe everyone sympathized with them because of this, and she also revealed this festival, but she didn't expect it to be remembered. This time, it's not easy to clean up.
Zhang Qingting asked first, "What does Fluttershy think of herself?" ”
"Angry!" Fang Mingzhu replied cheerfully. "I almost quarreled with someone, I stopped her, this kind of thing, eldest sister, you taught it before, it is getting darker and darker, anyway, we are sitting upright, where are we afraid of people talking?"
This crowd is at stake, no matter how innocent you are, you can't stand such rumors, Zhang Qingting felt a deep headache, and was thinking about countermeasures there, but saw the girl Xiaoyu coming to report the news, "Uncle He is here!" ”
Zhang Qingting hurriedly got up and went back, He Yutang was already waiting in the hall, and when he saw Zhang Qingting, he made a salute first, "This matter should not wait for you to come to me, it should be our family who takes the initiative to come to the door." It's just that our family has a lot of troubles, and after the flood, we are really busy, so we have been delaying until now. I hope forgive my sins! ”
As soon as Zhang Qingting heard this, he knew that he had misunderstood, "Uncle He, what are you talking about?" The grain stock of our horse farm was destroyed in the flood. I would like to ask you to help introduce a few grain merchants, give a fair price, and solve this urgent need. ”
She deliberately didn't mention Zhang Xiaodie's story first, wanting to hear what he had to say. If he stops here, then he has no intention of getting married, but he is forced by the pressure of public opinion, so he has to express his attitude first. If he goes on, then you have to listen to what he has to say before you can draw conclusions.
This marriage event is not a child's play. Zhang Qingting would not marry his sister casually for a few gossips from others, even if the object was the He family. That won't work either! has already learned a painful lesson like Zhao Yulan, Zhang Qingting doesn't want Zhang Xiaodie to follow in her footsteps. Even if the He family sincerely asked to marry, she had to think about it before she could make a conclusion.
He Yutang was stunned, I don't know if Zhang Qingting is pretending to be confused or really doesn't know, since he is talking about the right thing, then let's solve the business first, "There is no problem with the grain, it just so happens that our family also wants to purchase a batch, Mrs. Zhao, you see how much, directly report the quantity to me, and then we will go to inspect the goods together." ”
Zhang Qingting said with a smile, "Uncle He's work must be reliable, if you are decided, just let people send the goods to our racecourse!" I'm going to be lazy again, how much deposit do you think is appropriate? ”
He Yutang shook his head, "This doesn't have to be!" We have an agreement with the grain merchant that we will deliver the grain first and settle the bill when it is used up. Although the price is a little more expensive, they don't dare to short a catty, and every time they give the best goods. In this way, it is worth it. Mrs. Zhao, since you bought it with us, you will also follow our rules. Keep the money you have and get the horse farm done first! ”
Zhang Qingting thanked him, He Yutang thought about it, and said bluntly, "Mrs. Zhao, I know that you are a cheerful person, so I won't hide it and sell it." Last time, my second brother saved Sister Ling, and both of them were innocent, but they were chewed on the root of their tongues by some people. According to my meaning, it is better to let the two of them get married, which can be regarded as a good achievement! Of course, this is not a casual decision, Ling Mei is simple and hearty, if I can marry her, it will be my second brother's. I just don't know what your family thinks? If it is accepted, our family will set a good day. Send the matchmaker to the door and let it go first. The two of them are not very old, they can wait for next year or the year after next to officially marry, what do you think? ”
Zhang Qingting nodded secretly when he heard this, the He family was not so flustered, and in order to cover people's eyes and ears, they married people and entered the door, but first engaged to marry, delayed the work of one or two years, and then married when they were ready, which showed sincerity. She can't wait to take it lightly, "Thank you Uncle He for taking care of everything, it's just that this marriage is a major event, not to the side, you still have to ask your parents what they mean." Would you like to postpone the reply for a few days? ”
"Of course, then we'll wait for good news!" He Yutang agreed with her that as soon as the matter of purchasing grain was negotiated, he would immediately send someone to report the news, and then bid farewell.
As soon as the door was closed, the family meeting was held upstairs at the bedside of Zhao Chengcai, and Zhang Qingting said the matter, "Our family is not happy, no one has the final say, everyone can calculate and calculate, can this family affair be concluded?" Don't be ashamed of Fluttershy, it's about your life, don't marry someone in a fool's way and regret it later! ”
Everyone was silent after hearing this, frowning and thinking separately.
After a while, Zhang Jinbao spoke first, "According to me, this family business is good. The He family is not comparable to the side, we all know each other, and we can be regarded as knowing the roots. Although He Yufeng is rich, he doesn't have those bad problems, and everyone can see him when he comes to our horse farm to help with the work. If Fluttershy marries, she will fall into a nest of blessings, and her life will be better! ”
"Everyone knows that!" Zhang Facai was more worried, "It's just that although our family is relying on your eldest sister now, the days are better." But compared to the He family, it is still far behind! If Fluttershy marries, first, it's not a small amount of money just to get married. ”
"I'll do this!" Zhang Qingting interjected, "Although I don't dare to say that I won't lose to the He family's dowry, but if we don't want that dowry, we can always prepare a decent scenery for Fluttershy." ”
Zhang Facai shook his head, "Even if the dowry is solved, there is still a case, their family did not come to ask for marriage, there is a antecedent here, if it is not overboard, will people come?" ”
This is indeed the main concern. But Zhang Luo said, "Maybe this is the fate of marriage?" Or maybe it's just a coincidence that Fluttershy falls into the water and the man comes to her rescue? ”
There is some truth in this, maybe the two of them are destined?
Zhang Facai is still worried, "But after all, we still have a shallow foundation." Fluttershy marries and understands the rules of their big family? Don't be annoying! ”
Zhang Qingting disagreed with this article, "The rules can be slow, their family is just a little rich, and it is not a big family, a scholarly family, nothing more than a businessman, no different from us." ”
If that is the case, wouldn't this family affair be decided?
Zhao Chengcai didn't say anything for a long time, but when Zhang Qingting looked at him, he asked, "Fluttershy, what do you think of yourself?" ”
Fluttershy pouted her mouth and sat on the ground with her hands on her cheeks, and said sullenly, "I don't know! ”
"How can you not know?" The whole family looked at her, "This is your life's event, but you can talk about it, what do you think?" ”
"Oops!" Zhang Xiaodie was half ashamed and half didn't know how to describe it, "I just think it's weird!" ”
Zhao Chengcai continued her words, "If you ask me what I mean, it's actually a little weird like Fluttershy. Of course, if it is from the He family, it is naturally good, that is, He Yufeng, that guy is also very good, and it can be regarded as an ideal destination. It's just that getting married like this inevitably makes people feel a little bit of a match, but they just happened to bump into it! However, from the perspective of a bystander, I think that this family affair can be settled, and the family is not difficult to get along, and if Fluttershy does marry and is a wife, the rest of the day should be better. ”
This is said very objectively, and everyone feels reasonable. Although some doors are not appropriate and the households are wrong, the He family is not the face of the Sun family, and the Zhang family is not the original Zhao family, your family has a horse farm, and my family also has a horse farm, and it can barely be regarded as an equal on this level.
But should this family affair be concluded or not? Zhang Xiaodie was not polite anymore, and asked directly, "Sister, you haven't said what you mean!" ”
"Fang Caigong is right, if we look at it from the sidelines, this family affair can not only be concluded, but also quite satisfactory. It's just-" Zhang Qingting's words changed, "Do you like He Yufeng?" Would you like to marry him? It's up to you to decide. ”
Everyone nodded their heads when they said this.
Zhao Chengcai said, "It's hard to buy a good heart!" No matter how good we look at others, it's useless, this day is for you to go by yourself, only if you like others, you can live well. Fluttershy, think for yourself, if you're willing to marry someone like that, then we'll just help you prepare. If you don't want to, don't care about the gossip of others, if it's for a few words from others, burying your own life's happiness, it's not worth it, it's not wise! Don't worry, think about it, tell your eldest sister when you've thought about it, and we'll help you plan again. ”
Zhang Qingting said, "Do you want me to give you a few days off?" Thinking about it at home? ”
Zhang Xiaodie immediately shook her head, "The horse farm is almost busy!" Where is there still time for holidays? I'll just think about it at night! She took the lead and went out first.
So let's do it first! And all the people dispersed, and each pondered in his heart.
Zhang Qingting sent them back and bolted the door, and Zhao Chengcai saw her come in and asked, "Do you disagree?" ”
Zhang Qingting smiled, "Actually, you don't agree with it!" ”
Zhao Chengcai, "I think this thing ......"
"I'm in a hurry!" Zhang Qingting and him said their opinions in unison.
"The He family is good, but we Fluttershy don't want it, so why hang yourself on that tree?"
"And look at Fluttershy's mind, it's not on that at all! Although she is at this age to talk about marriage, I always feel that she is still a little younger. ”
"It's a bit of an unenlightened feeling!" Zhang Qingting was really reluctant to say it, "I still want to keep her for two more years, at that time, she is also older and her mind is calm, no matter where she marries, she can really rest assured!" ”
Zhao Chengcai agreed, "Don't talk about Fluttershy, like Jinbao, you don't need to be in such a hurry." Let's find them slowly, and when they have their minds set up in another year or two, it's not too late to get married. Chengdong is not angry! Otherwise, I will have to pick up some of his good students, but he is like this now, it would be good to have a girl from a good family willing to marry him, where can he choose? ”
When he said it, he was angry again, and Zhang Qingting took the opportunity to propose, "If you want to ask for this, there are a lot of candidates." It's not that we can't afford it now that we have two dollars, it's true that our family's life is passable, and it's still easy to find a poor girl. Chengdong's daughter-in-law, everything else is secondary, the most important thing is to behave properly and be able to run a family. It's not like I'm talking bad about him behind his back, Cheng Dong, it's really a little frizzy, and the Liu family is even more impressed, their family must have a stable and generous person, take care of it! ”
If Zhang Qingting's mind is a little worse, let Zhao Chengdong marry a woman like the Liu family, who is easy and hardworking, and cares about everything, then their family's life will be lively, Zhang Qingting snickered in his heart when he thought about it.
But if that nest can't hold up the wall like mud, then they will definitely have to go back to trouble them, then they must be annoyed. It's best to find someone like Zhao Wang's spicy, and then the family will have a point, even if they lose something by themselves, so that they can also have a stable income, as long as someone can be a home, then it will no longer be about their brother and sister-in-law's side in the future.
Although Zhao Chengcai sounded a little uncomfortable, Zhang Qingting's words were correct, and his evaluation of Zhao Chengdong was already very pertinent, "Actually, what I think in my heart is similar to you, good or bad looks are secondary, this wife should be virtuous, if Chengdong can marry a virtuous and generous return, it will be his blessing." ”
Zhang Qingting asked, "Then when are you going to choose a daughter-in-law for Chengdong?" In my opinion, the sooner the better. If this Liu family can't get it, they are pregnant, can they let the family marry in and be a big mother? ”
Zhao Chengcai squinted at her and smiled, "I don't know what you're thinking about?" Don't rush! I know what to expect! ”
Zhang Qingting raised her eyebrows, she knew it, and she wasn't afraid that he would know! I went to wash myself with my little chin upright.
The money is earned by my hard work, if you want to talk about credit, Zhao Chengcai does have a lot of credit, but how much credit do you Zhao Chengdong have, why do you rely on the identity of a younger brother to share it with us? If that's the case, then why can't Fluttershy be divided? It doesn't make sense!
Regardless of whether the marriage of the He family is successful or not, it has reminded Zhang Qingting that if his younger brothers and sisters want to marry in the future, they must have something in their own hands to harden their waists.
Zhang Xiaodie returned to her room at night, and thought about her life's events for less than a cup of tea, so she went to meet Zhou Gong. When I got up early the next morning, I announced refreshedly, "This girl won't marry!" ”
She also has her little reasoning, "The two of us are nothing, if we become relatives because of this, doesn't it make people think that there is really anything?" I can't marry him anymore! ”
Zhang Qingting's eyes lit up when he heard it, what this girl said is good! "That's right! This pure person is self-purifying, so why do you have to care what others say? ”
Zhao Chengcai also agreed, "There is nothing in this world, and mediocre people disturb themselves!" Since it's nothing, why make a hasty decision for your life for a few gossips from others? Brother-in-law supports you! ”
Zhang Xiaodie nodded unashamedly, "What I originally planned was to marry a showman in the future and be a showman like my eldest sister." Marry He Yufeng, wouldn't there be no chance? ”
I'm not ashamed! Zhang Qingting took a sip of his sister, "That's just here, if you dare to go out and blow nonsense, beware of coming back, I cut your tongue!" ”
Zhang Xiaodie smiled, "Cut my tongue, no one will talk back to you, aren't you boring!" ”
Zhao Chengcai couldn't hold it anymore, and laughed straight down, "I only know today what it means to be blue!" ”
Zhang Xiaodie pouted at her brother-in-law, "Don't keep saying things I don't understand, don't think I don't know that you're helping my eldest sister make fun of me!" Hmph, I'll find a husband who can play tricks on Ming'er, and I'll talk to you to see who is better than whom! ”
Even Zhang Qingting couldn't stand the laughter and had a stomachache, so Zhang Xiaodie went to the racecourse proudly.
"Look at this girl, where does she look like a man who can marry? Let's hide it first! ”
After Zhao Chengcai smiled, he reminded her, "The He family is going to go to Haosheng and said, they are also kind, even if we refuse, don't hurt people's face." ”
This Zhang Qingting knew about it, and when he restrained his smile, he made a list of the food he wanted, and went to Aunt Niu again, asked her about the things that her family urgently needed, added them together, and personally sent them to the He family.
She apologized to He Yutang for a long time, thanked him for his family's kindness, and only said that her sister was stubborn, so she was shallow, and her family background was thin, and her parents also wanted to keep her little sister for a few more years, but they really didn't dare to climb the clouds.
Zhang Qingting's words were tactful and decent, and He Yutang listened very comfortably, but humbly said that he didn't have this blessing.
In fact, when it comes to this marriage seriously, the He family is not very satisfied, but it was only because of the rumors of others that they made a hasty decision. Since the woman was not afraid of criticism and generously refused, then their family simply spread the word.
In this way, some people who want to chew their tongues have nothing to chew, and if there is really something, then the woman must not hurry up and agree? It must be nothing, that's why people refuse. It can't be said for a while, and when this gust of wind passes, it will pass.
However, Zhao Wang's family heard about it later, which was a pity. Such a good family affair has been missed, so what kind of relationship can you get in the future?
Zhao Chengcai took the opportunity to mention Chengdong's family affairs to her, and asked her to pay attention to choosing a capable girl from a poor family. Zhao Wang's family is gradually a little disdainful, our family is having a better time, why don't you choose a good one, and marry such a poor relative? The mother and mother disagreed, and the matter dragged on.
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