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He Yuhe really doesn't take those so-called relatives in his eyes, for him, he is the same for his relatives, there is no need to be too grand, when the time comes, just notify and inform him.

I don't have that much time, I don't do it, I don't take her to visit every relative. Before, it was impossible, there was only one possibility, and when they got married, they might invite every relative to be there, and that's it.

Anyway, except for my grandfather who is my own parents, even if it is my own parents, I never thought of such a grand meeting, and it will only be good when the time comes.

"Can it really be done, as simple as you say? I'm not as optimistic as you think. "I always feel that it is not as simple as he said, he thinks all this is too simple, and he says it too simply.

In his opinion, all this is so simple, he can ignore his relatives, but from his own point of view, can he do this way? The answer seems like no?

Just because he can do this doesn't mean that he can do it himself, and if he does, people will think that they are particularly rude, and they won't do it.

"You should think like this, everyone has those so-called relatives, three aunts and six mothers-in-law and the like, if everyone wants to be so polite, then when will this marriage be married? When will these relationships end? Have you ever thought about it. "Take their Ye family as an example, the family is naturally a lot of relatives, if according to what she said, every relative should be so polite, and when will they be busy when they meet.

In addition, they usually have to go to work, and they are so busy, so they may not be able to see each other for three or five years, so there is really no need to do this, but the due politeness still needs to be there, and when the time comes, make an appointment with them, and then come out to meet, isn't this okay?

Anyway, their opinions are not so important, they will only be informed, and there is no need to think too much about the rest.

I've always had a simpler idea, and I don't think about it so much, in short, it's best to be notified, and I don't have to pay attention to the rest.

After all, marriage is a matter of two people, and if there are so many relatives involved, there will always be people who oppose it, so should this marriage be married?

As long as you like each other and want to be together, it's enough, and you can have other politeness, and you don't need to be too polite.

"What you said is also quite reasonable, after all, so many people, it is impossible for all of them to see their families like this, otherwise, when will they be busy, and they will usually be busy with work, and they will not have so much time at all." Originally, it was a very small thing, seeing the parents is the most important, and everything else is secondary.

After listening to his words at this moment, Shu Yixin also felt that it made sense, if he visited relatives one by one according to his previous thoughts, how much time would it take? And there isn't that much time either.

Just meet a few important people, and the others make an appointment to tell each other, their opinions are not so important anyway.

"Don't worry, our family doesn't have as many relatives as their Ye family, on the contrary, our family doesn't seem to have any relatives, you don't have to worry too much about this problem, even if there really is, rest assured that it will all be handed over to me, and I will deal with it." He Yuhe felt that at this time, it was necessary to reassure her and tell her that her family and her family were different, at least her family did not have so many so-called relatives.

Don't be afraid when you hear these things at this time, you feel that you have so many relatives in your family, and it will be a troublesome thing to see them one by one at that time.

At this moment, He Yuhe has a bad feeling in her heart, and she always feels that after she knows these things, she will have a certain impact on herself, and she will even be afraid to face herself. At this time, he had already told her that his family was not so complicated.

After all, there will be a little shadow in her heart, and if she hears too many things, she will naturally have an impact in her heart, will she feel that seeing her family will be particularly complicated and troublesome when the time comes?

Thinking of this, I am also a little distressed, in fact, when I talk about getting married, I know that I want to meet my parents, and I want to see his other relatives, but what kind of form is it.

"Although there are not as many relatives as theirs, there are always relatives, but it sounds difficult." Shu Yixin didn't worry about anything, after all, he and he really loved each other and really wanted to be together, but if their identity was infinitely exaggerated by them, what would it look like for you when the time came.

After all, their identity is there, and when they see themselves, it is impossible for them not to ask about their identity, if they honestly explain to them that they are an orphan, they don't know how they will laugh at themselves at that time, and even laugh at him for finding such a girlfriend.

I don't feel anything when I am laughed at, but I don't want to affect him because of my own affairs, after all, this matter has nothing to do with him, and I don't want to be an orphan, and I want to have an ordinary normal family like them, but at present, I don't have it.

"Anyway, compared to them, the pressure is not so great, and the difficulty is not so great, you have to believe me, I can handle these things for you." Anyway, these are not big things, she can do it for her, so she doesn't have to put so much pressure on herself.

He Yuhe didn't want to put too much pressure on her because of such a thing, and he could tell her very clearly that this kind of thing could be handled by himself.

She really doesn't need to put too much pressure on herself because of such a thing.

"Well, it's good to have you, you will do everything for me, which makes me worry a lot." Shu Yixin is sincerely grateful to him, having him by his side really makes him feel really at ease, and he always feels that he has saved himself a lot of trouble.

Maybe he was a problem in the first place, but because of his appearance, he solved those troubles for himself.

"You're my girlfriend, the person I love the most, I don't help you, who do you think I'll help?" He Yuhe didn't feel that there was anything wrong with helping her at all, on the contrary, he felt that he should help her and it was reasonable.

Who made her the person he loved the most, and did he still want to create a new family with her and give her the happiness she wanted? So at this time, you must also need to work hard.

"It can only be said that these things are mutual, and we should all help each other to achieve the goals we want." However, if two people really have such thoughts and want to be together, then they should help each other and understand each other to reach the point of win-win.

"Well, we will definitely work together and create a happy life that belongs to us." Happiness depends on one's own efforts, and it is also in one's own hands.

Now I will no longer be as stupid as before, and now I know these things clearly, and I need to rely on my own ability, and I don't think about how lucky I am to have something.

This kind of thing is no one can help themselves, only by their own efforts, only by themselves will there be room for development, get everything they want.

"It's really good that you can think like this, I'm really a little worried, you don't want to make progress yourself, and it's even more impossible to rely on others." He Yuhe was really glad to hear her say this at this moment, at least she had thought about it, relying on her own ability, not the same as before, she didn't even have such an idea.

Although the ability may not be very good, at least there will be such thoughts, there will be such actions, even if in the end nothing can be accomplished, at least they have done their best, rather than really doing nothing.

After all, if you have such thoughts, if you have such thoughts in your heart, then it is possible to do them towards these thoughts.

In the past, she didn't even have such an idea, let alone do such a thing, so hearing her say these words made her feel quite moved.

"I have learned so much from you, I can't say that I haven't learned these things, everything has to rely on my own efforts, it is impossible to rely on others, and it is also unreliable, even if it is reliable, it is impossible to rely on a lifetime, in the final analysis, it is ideal to rely on yourself." After Shu Yixin went through some things, he could be regarded as having seen through a lot, and he also knew that he could only rely on himself, and it was useless to rely on others.

After all, I have really experienced a lot of things over the years, and I have slowly seen through a lot of things in the process.

If at this time, I still haven't seen through these things, I can only say that I am too stupid and deserve to be bullied.

I was really stupid and bullied before, and I didn't know how to fight back in the end, but that was just my former self, not my current self. Those are all in the past, and I am no longer the same self I used to be.

"You, sometimes you are too independent, you choose to rely on yourself for everything, in fact, after I appear by your side, you don't have to think about being so strong, you can rely on yourself for everything, you can rely on me." He Yuhe doesn't want her to carry everything by herself, after all, the present is not the same as the past, and it was necessary for her to be strong in the past, because she still has to live. I want to talk about "No First Love, There is a Secret Love" with more like-minded people, and pay attention to "Youyue Literature" on WeChat, talk about life, and find a confidant~