Chapter 662: The Troubles of Admiration
Jing Xi was not displeased by being interrupted to speak, and patiently explained to Jing Yangyan: "Don't ignore him, there are so many children of the upper officers of the Xiyao Legion, you just ignore him, as the adopted daughter of the chief, this behavior and habit has a very bad impact." In the future, face him, keep an eye on what to say and what not to say, and have a bottom line in your heart. ”
"Forget it, I'm a person who doesn't work hard, I'm afraid that I accidentally say something I shouldn't say."
Jing Yangyan shook his head violently, saying that he would draw a clear line with Zhu Jiacheng in the future.
"Everyone makes mistakes, as my adopted daughter, you have the capital to make most mistakes, learn slowly, after a long time, you will know what occasions, to whom, what to say, what not to say, don't be afraid, with what you know now, their father and son can't inquire about useful information, I tell you this, just to let you know some things, don't be coaxed."
If she wants to mix in the legion in the future, she needs allies, and among these second-generation children, she is her first choice.
Determined the status of Jingyangyan, whether the people below are intentional or unintentional, their parents will let their children have a good relationship with Jingyang.
Therefore, in the next few months, Jing Yangyan was very open in the Star Lord's Mansion.
One day, she went out happily and came back with a weeping face.
"What's wrong?" Jing Xi stepped forward and asked.
"Mother, I don't want to play with them anymore." Jingyangyan said, tears couldn't help but flow down.
"Who messed with you?"
"Zhu Jiacheng is very good to me on the surface, but they do say bad things about me behind my back."
Jing Yangyan thought of Zhu Jiacheng, who usually praised her in the sky and nothing in the ground, since she laughed at her for being stupid and stupid, she was just a dog raised by Jing Xi, she felt very sad, no one here likes her and looks up to her.
Jing Yangyan's situation has long been reported to Jing Xi by the people who followed Jing Yangyan to protect her, how could Jing Xi not know what happened to them.
This little girl is forgetful, Zhu Jiacheng casually said a few good words to her, but she forgot to guarantee Jing Xi, and forgot that Jing Xi told her about Zhu Jiacheng's father's identity.
"Didn't you say ignore Zhu Jiacheng? Why did you ignore him again? ”
Hearing Jing Xi ask this, Jing Yang's eyes seemed to have done something wrong, and he was caught by Jing Xi and said the word "I", and he couldn't speak.
"He's very good at figuring out your mind, he's easy to get along with, isn't he?"
Jing Xi's words came to Jing Yangyan's heart, and she had thought about it well before, and decided to stay away from Zhu Jiacheng, but every time everyone was together, only Zhu Jiacheng took the most care of her, so she fell into it unconsciously.
"Why do you use him, do you know in your heart?"
"He is very sociable, and only when I am with him can I not feel embarrassed or cold."
"So, you fancy his communicative skills and want him to help you open up your social face, right?"
Jing Yangyan nodded hesitantly, and Jing Xi continued: "Since you want to use him to help you open up your social scene and better adapt to the current environment, why are you sad?" ”
"But I really think of him as a friend."
"His father's position is destined for him to have no friends here, Zhu Jiacheng knows it very well in his heart, so he uses you as an introduction to make friends with everyone, and belittles you to please others behind his back, this is the reality, Zhu Jiacheng did a good job, and you fouled."
Jing Xi's words made Jing Yang's eyes dumbfounded, she didn't expect Zhu Jiacheng to be good to her, since the truth is like this, is there no real affection between people?
No, her biological parents of this body, Jing Ling and his wife are true love.
"It's not like this, he didn't use me as a shield to socialize with everyone, everyone doesn't like me, why does he need me to socialize with everyone."
Jingjingyan doesn't feel that he has so much value.
"It's true that those people don't like you, if it weren't for your attendance, Zhu Jiacheng wouldn't have been able to gather so many people alone."
I don't like why she came, and I was confused.
"No, they don't come."
"Those people don't like you, but when they get an invitation, their parents will definitely force them to participate. Because you are my adopted daughter, they don't want to bear the impact of offending you and your bad words in front of me on their family, so at least on the surface, they have to get by. And Zhu Jiacheng is very good at dealing with people, they all know his situation, Zhu Jiacheng can't have a deep friendship, and he doesn't have to offend him, everyone, hello, I want to maintain a superficial face. ”
Jing Yangjing disagreed with Jing Xi's words, and asked rhetorically: "Since you want to maintain a superficial face, why do they still say bad things about me behind my back?" ”
"It's just a group of immature children, and there are always times when they can't control their emotions. If someone is reluctantly invited to a boring party, you can't let them whine in private. ”
"However, not all of the recent meetings were initiated by me."
Seeing that Jing Yangyan couldn't figure it out, Jing Xi patiently explained to her.
"You didn't initiate it, but you participated. If you don't attend, there will definitely be people who don't come, and the format is the same. ”
"Since people don't like me, and I can't make good friends at the party, why do you want me to attend?"
At this time, Jing Yangjing understood that many gatherings were meaningless activities, and he couldn't help but feel a little discouraged.
"I'm asking you to increase your knowledge, not letting you make friends, there are many kinds of friends, some friends are only suitable for eating and drinking, on the surface they are friends, but in fact, they are just a playmate......"
After listening to Jing Xi's explanation, Jing Yangjing reacted.
"You asked me to go to their parties more often, just to familiarize me with the rules of high-society gatherings, and on the surface I can mingle with everyone, not let me make close friends?"
"That's right, in life, it's lucky to have a knower, don't force it if you don't have it, this kind of thing is hard to come by."
Ordinary friends become friends because they need each other, and they come and go more. Once there is no need and contact is lost, the two will quickly forget each other.
Such friends, only two people with the same status and mutual benefit can become long-term "friends", which is also the kind of friend that exists the most in our lives.
Jing Yangjing had no one to teach her like this before, she always thought that she was not good enough, but she didn't expect Jing Xi to tell her that she had done a good job, but society is like this, no one is behind her back and is not told by others, so she doesn't have to pay attention to those people.
Don't care too much about what others think, in the future, she just needs to go to the party with her own purpose, as long as she can get by on the surface.
Participating in various banquets is just a preview for a noble lady for Jing Yangqing, and her real battlefield is to enter the army or the political arena, where she can exert her true strength.
Jing Xi described her grand cause to Jing Yangjing, Jing Yangjing didn't know that she would be so powerful, she could do it.
"Can I really live like that?"
"Of course you can, it's just up to you if you're willing to do it."
"I want to do it, but I'm afraid I won't be able to do it."
Who wants to be a natural wreck, not to be a dominant, admirable hero.
Jing Yangyan was said by Jing Xi to be enthusiastic and high-spirited. Firmly believe in Jingxi's belief: heroes are destined to be lonely.
Thinking about it this way, Jingyang's mood is much better.
understands that those people say bad things about her behind her back, but they are jealous of her, and if they can't get it, they can only say some sour things to hide their ugly hearts.