Speaking of this meal, I ate quite awkwardly, I was not Gao Wenbai's girlfriend, and it was not easy to lose his face, the most important thing was that I heard the conversation between Gao's father and sister, and I was even more sure that there was no future between me and Gao Wenbai.

In fact, Gao's mother is very good and easy-going, the most important thing is that she has been pulling me to talk about long and short, talking about the world.

From the time Gao Wenbai was a child to go to college, he talked about a lot of interesting things, even Gao Wenbai was embarrassed and a little shy and didn't dare to look at me, but only Gao's father has been sitting opposite with a serious expression, no matter what he talked about, he seemed to bow his head to eat and not participate in any topics.

Although Gao Wenbai's sister will interject two sentences in the middle, she only occasionally interjects when talking about Gao Wenbai's original mate selection criteria.

"Actually, my brother is handsome and has a good job, so there are a lot of girls chasing him, and there are also many girls with particularly good family conditions, he chose you, I think you must have a unique place to attract him, otherwise he wouldn't give up so many good girls."

This doesn't sound like much, like a compliment to me, but I didn't feel too happy when I heard it, I just felt that something was pressing on my heart, making people feel heavy and uncomfortable.

It wasn't until more than one o'clock that Gao's mother answered two phone calls in a row before she was ready to end the meal.

When Gao Wenbai got up to check out, Gao's mother went to the bathroom together, and there were only three of us left in the whole private room.

I didn't have time to breathe a sigh of relief, when I heard Gao's father say with a straight face: "Miss Li, with all due respect, we are a serious family, Wen Bai's marriage should be stable in the future, and the object should also be a person with a formal job, maybe what I said hurt you a little, but for the sake of the family and my children's marriage, I have to tell the truth, you two are not suitable." ”

I was slightly stunned, I didn't expect Father Gao to say these words so straightforwardly.

In fact, Father Gao didn't need to say this to me at all, I knew the future between me and Gao Wenbai from the beginning of this meal.

Back then, I had the lesson that my relationship with Xu Zhizhou could not end well, and I naturally knew how sad it was to get a marriage that was not approved by my parents, so it was even more impossible for me to take risks again and do such an uncertain thing.

I'm not stupid, I see a lot of things clearly.

I can also see that in Gao Wenbai's family, his father is the head of the family, so he has the absolute right to speak.

Although Gao's mother talked to me eloquently, sometimes when it came to Gao Wenbai's feelings, she would peek at Gao's father's eyes, and when she found that Gao's father's expression was cold, she would almost change the topic.

Therefore, the opinion of the high father is more important than any other person.

Probably Gao Wenbai's sister saw that I didn't speak, thinking that I didn't agree, and specially added a few words: "Actually, my parents have introduced a girl to Wenbai, her family is the same as ours, and the girl is the same as Wenbai, both are masters, and the two are not strangers, they are classmates, so there will be more topics for communication in the future." ”

I didn't say anything more, just nodded, and replied to Father Gao with a smile on my face: "I understand, I have never liked reluctant relationships and marriages, so I think we are indeed not suitable." ”

When I was separated from Gao Wenbai's parents and sister, Gao's mother seemed to be very reluctant to let me say that "wait for the next time Wenbai takes you to the house to sit as a guest, and then Auntie will cook a lot of delicious food for you, such as sweet and sour pork ribs, boiled fish, and chopped pepper fish head, these are Auntie's specialty dishes, Wenbai loves to eat them very much, I hope you like to eat them too." ”

Although I knew that the ending was impossible, I still nodded to Gao's mother and said, "Okay auntie, I will like it, I believe it must be delicious." ”

After saying that, Gao's father drove away with Gao's mother and sister, leaving me and Gao Wenbai.

After seeing the car go away, Gao Wenbai also started the car and was about to send me back, he asked with a puzzled face: "I went to check out just now, what did my father tell you?" ”

"They are all boasting about you, and you are a flawless son and brother in their hearts."

Gao Wenbai smiled a little triumphantly: "That's right, they can be proud of me, when I was studying in the police academy, I got the first grade every year, and even a serious person like my dad rarely praised me in front of his colleagues." ”

I just smiled lowly when he said that, "yes, your father looks really serious. ”

"It's not just serious, I've only been afraid of him since I was a child, sometimes one of his looks makes me scared, don't look at me at thirty years old, but I'm still very afraid of him."

So it turned out that as long as his father did not agree with the feelings, no matter how much effort would be in vain.

So when Gao Wenbai finished saying this, I no longer hid it, and said directly to him honestly: "Officer Gao, you are really a very good man, your family is also very good, your parents and sisters are very good, but I am not suitable for you, we should not interact with each other in the future." ”

Gao Wenbai looked at me stunned, and then stopped the car suddenly.

After almost a moment's pause, he looked at me and asked, "Why?" Is it because I didn't consult you in advance that I brought my family to meet you? ”

I shook my head: "Not really, I'm not such a vexatious person, and your mother is so kind that it has nothing to do with it." ”

Gao Wenbai's appearance was a little anxious: "Why is that?" ”

I don't like to go around in circles, so I put it bluntly: "The most important thing is my own reasons, you also know my past by watching the news, I can't forget the past, and I can't start anew." Another point, your father does not agree with me and you, no matter what aspect you look at, there is an insurmountable gap between us, I once had a relationship that was not blessed by the family, and it ended in an end, so I would rather not start with you, so that you will not get hurt. ”

Gao Wenbai pinched the steering wheel, the sound of the pinch was a little squeaky, and after a moment of silence, he turned his head to look at me: "I can imagine what my dad said, he is a very traditional person, although he is very strict, if you promise me, I can be responsible for convincing him." ”

I looked intently at Gao Wenbai's face and into his sincere eyes.

I believe what he said, he will convince his father, but I am not a child anymore, although Gao Wenbai is really a very good man, but I can't change my family background and identity as I have worked in the entertainment industry, I can't match his family, and in the end I can only say that I will break up.

It's like that relationship that was so beautiful for me that I can't forget.

I smiled distractedly, and then told Gao Wenbai: "Actually, we haven't known each other for a long time, maybe you like me, but I know that it's just liking, just like a man likes cars and red wine, it's not that you have to get that feeling, so when your parents oppose it most fiercely, you may choose to compromise, and then you will still say that you like me?" Probably not. I can tell you that there was once a man who promised me a marriage when I was most bruised, he loved me for many, many years, and could do anything for me, or he could wait for me for many years, but in the end he couldn't survive his mother's opposition and married someone else, and the reason for the opposition was only because the door was not right, and I could not bring any value and benefits to his son's marriage and would be abandoned, so in my eyes, this relationship can only be considered perfect if I get the blessing of my parents. ”

Gao Wenbai listened to my words, a little dumbfounded, and seemed to be unable to say a word.

He just nodded as if agreeing with my words, but rubbed his face as if he was unwilling, and he suddenly raised his head and asked me, "I want to know a question, is it that no matter what my dad says, you are not ready to accept me as your boyfriend?" ”

Since he asked so bluntly, I answered him bluntly: "Yes." ”

At this moment, Gao Wenbai was very calm, as if he had thought of something, and suddenly he seemed to laugh a little, and his eyes fell on me, and he never left.

"You just said that you were bruised all over your body, is it the man surnamed Tan mentioned in the news? And you don't accept me, is it because you can't let go of him in your heart? ”

I lowered my head, lowered my eyes, and felt very calm.

"I don't know if I still have him in my heart, but what I do know for sure is that he has been holding my heart all along. I gave him a chance, but he didn't cherish it, so I almost couldn't be with him anymore, but it was as if no one but him could walk into my heart anymore. ”

I pointed to my heart and whispered with a slight trembling voice: "It seems that there is no love here, and it has lost its so-called temperature, it is already cold." ”

In fact, my heart had no temperature before I met Tan Yiyang.

The environment in which I have lived since I was a child has made me never love someone at all, but when I meet Tan Yiyang, the whole world is different, I know what love is for the first time in my life, the feeling of worrying about loving someone, and even the heart-wrenching pain that I can't love, are all what Tan Yiyang can give me.

But it seems that he made me into a predicament all of a sudden, even after a long time, I look sunny on the surface, but the scars in my heart are indelible, there will always be a scar that will be reopened, and all kinds of things about the past will be brought to the eyes again.

So I smiled and persuaded: "Officer Gao, I have said so much, I just hope that you can have a particularly precious and warm relationship for you, for you, your life and family are all proud of you, you have never failed, just like you said that the exam is always the first, so you also need a tsundere woman to match you, obviously I will not be such a woman, I believe you will meet." ”