351 How to do it
Gao Wenlin saw that his father-in-law said this, so he said what he wanted to say directly.
"What my father-in-law said is that some scholars are more important to their reputation than their lives, and they also have more requirements for their daughters-in-law, take me as an example, I choose a son-in-law for Zhao'er, and check all the people in the county, some of the people who study are exquisite, and they are very harsh on their daughters-in-law, what are the rules to serve their in-laws, and serve their husbands, if they are concubines, they must also treat their concubines well, otherwise they are not virtuous, if I let Zhao'er marry such people, I am reluctant, although I marry a daughter from a high door, and marry a daughter-in-law from a low door, but the high door is not so easy to marry, In the future, her daughter will definitely be wronged, and it doesn't matter if this high-ranking family doesn't marry. β
Jiang Jitong naturally understood the meaning of his son-in-law's sentence, which meant that his granddaughter married into a scholar's family, and people were willing to find fault with you, you were a divorced person, can you have a better life?
He said: "The son-in-law is right, Juan Niang is blessed to marry into the Gao family, and never picks on her, this has to be a different family." I don't know how to look down on our peasant family, so I want to thank my son-in-law. β
Gao Wenlin said modestly: "I am blessed to marry Juan Niang, my eldest sister has said that Juan Niang is a great hero of my Gao family, and she gave birth to four to my brother's family, and my son-in-law is grateful to my father-in-law." β
The Li family also understood, and immediately let the Jiang family go to Gao Zhao's house with her.
"Little sister, tell me about the situation of the Wu family."
Jiang said the big picture, and she didn't know as much as Zhao'er did.
Li asked Gao Zhao: "Zhao'er tell your aunt, this is related to your cousin's life, the previous one is unlucky, this time you have to inquire carefully, not only people, but also other people in the family should be clear." β
Gao Zhao said: "Uncle Wu's in-laws have passed away, the elder brother of the Wu family has an uncle in Xuanqing Mansion, a sister married to Xuanqing Mansion, and a younger brother is one year younger than me. At the beginning, the Wu family opened a martial arts hall in Xuanqing Mansion, helped a neighborhood, offended people, and went back to the ancestral house, and then bought a house and lived next door, I and Xing Yangrong followed Wu Boniang to learn kung fu for two years, Wu Boniang has a cool temperament, treats people well, I treat the Wu family brother as a brother. β
Li Shi listened to it satisfied, Zhao'er can praise people will not be wrong, she is not a person who has been with others for two years easily, and if she doesn't like it, she will look affectionate on the face at most, but she will not go deeper.
"Zhao'er's words are true, if I can't find her, then I must be in the Wu family, and sometimes I still rely on other people's houses to eat." Jiang also explained with a smile.
"Then I'll listen to our father, if it's okay, it's best if the coral and the Wu family can go to the plug hairpin, and some people in my coral are in a hurry to ask for marriage."
Gao Zhao had an idea and said: "Auntie, just let Sister Coral spend time at my house, if the people in the village want to ask, they will say that my mother took it, then no one knows, and then the date is booked, and it is okay to marry from my house." β
Of course Li is willing, she looked at her sister-in-law, and Jiang said: "As long as our father agrees, my master will not say much." β
"If my coral has half of the blessing of the little sister, I will be satisfied, and after the Wu family comes back from Beijing, the little sister helps the sister-in-law to take care of the coral, and it is also fate, so I live next door, and then let the coral often come to the little sister to say goodbye."
The more Li thought about it, the more he felt that it was appropriate, his daughter was under the nose of his sister-in-law, and Aunt Gao was a warm-hearted person, Coral would only have a good life in the future, how dare the Wu family treat her badly.
Gao Zhao listened to her aunt's words, as if she had already decided, and she asked her aunt, haven't you seen anyone yet? Also, I haven't asked my cousin about this, I don't know if my cousin can take a fancy to the Wu family's brother.
Li Shi also smiled: "Zhao'er said yes, then you can't be wrong, your aunt believes you, and your cousin must also believe you." β
At the other end of the main house, Jiang Jitong also asked about the situation of the Wu family in detail, saying that he would meet in the afternoon, and if he was a good person, it would be decided.
Gao Zhao arranged lunch, and after the meal, the Wu family came after receiving the letter, and this time Wu Quan also came, and the whole family changed into new clothes, and Wu Zhongbao looked more energetic than when he came yesterday.
Jiang Ji was more satisfied after meeting people, the two families said that they would make up their minds tomorrow, the Wu family would give a dowry gift, and the day after tomorrow on the twenty-sixth in the Gao family would give Jiang Coral a curtain, and Wu Hai's family would personally insert a hairpin for the coral, and then set the marriage date after the New Year.
Gao Zhao was surprised when he found out, how did he feel like a dragon service, or a speeding dragon.
Jiang Shan was even more confused, and before she could recover from the boredom of being divorced, she was packed and taken to her aunt's house to tell her that she was going to get engaged again.
I learned that my fiancΓ© was Wu Dalang next door to my aunt's house, and I didn't have any impression, it seemed that there was such a person, but I don't remember what he looked like.
When Gao Zhao introduced that this was Brother Bao, Jiang Shan remembered that as soon as that cousin was called Brother Bao, he blushed and peeked at her Wu Jialang, she thought it was because her cousin was joking with him.
Gao Zhao blushed when he saw the two of them, and Wu Zhongbao was even more at a loss, making an excuse to let him out.
"Cousin, how's it going?"
Jiang Shan lowered his head, the red rhyme on his face had not yet dispersed, Gao Zhao said: "Brother Bao, you know each other, better than strangers, you will live next door in the future, tell Brother Bao, my mother's house is next door, the background is hard, and I will walk sideways at my mother-in-law's house in the future, but Uncle Wu will not be an evil mother-in-law, Brother Bao also wrote a letter of guarantee, in my mother's place, I will let my mother help you collect it." β
The daughter who Li personally went to pick up had already told her how the marriage came about, and it was the eldest man of the Wu family who took the initiative to marry and wrote a letter of guarantee, and Jiang Shan knew that the letter of guarantee was the kind that his cousin said at the earliest.
The happy Li family told her daughter the benefits of this marriage one by one, and finally said: "Think about it, it's good to study, then you have to be like your uncle's family, being a daughter-in-law is worry-free, if there are a bunch of people up and down, then it's not a comfortable life, the Wu family is good, there are few people, and there are not many people in the clan, they are helping the clan relatives in Beijing, and they still have to return to Wucheng County in the future, and your aunt will be neighbors, where to find such a suitable relative?" My mother also saw it, the eldest man of the Wu family is not ugly, he is upright, and your grandfather said that he is a son with a good body. β
Jiang Shan didn't know what to say in front of his mother, the two fiancΓ©s before and after were the masters of the family, and he didn't have that kind of favorite feeling, he just had a good impression of Zhang Jiaerlang's dislike, which he listened to in front of his cousin for a long time before asking: "My cousin asked him to write?" β
"It's not me, I don't even know that Brother Bao likes you, that writing a guarantee is not what I said nonsense when I was talking nonsense with Sister Wu and Jia Xibei before, and then Sister Wu told Brother Bao, let him write a letter of guarantee and then ask for marriage, and said that what I said, I liked the little lady to show sincerity, Brother Bao was initially afraid that his cousin would not look down on him, it was Sister Wu who gave him this idea, but it is none of my business, Brother Bao is sincere to his cousin."
Saying this, Jiang Shan blushed even more, which little lady doesn't like someone to take you to heart.
After Gao Zhao finished speaking, Brother Bao, he remembered that Senior Brother came, if he also wrote such a guarantee, then what should I do?