Chapter 190: For the sake of the future
Ren Xiaoou does not deny his ability at all, on the contrary, he is still very sure of his ability, if his good girlfriend can learn from him for a period of time, it will definitely be of great help to the future.
He is willing to teach himself, but whether he is really sure of this interest and can he learn well
Shu Yixin's heart was still a little confused, worried that his ability was not enough, worried that he would not be able to keep up with his progress, and in the end he would dislike himself, in fact, he really wanted to learn more from him.
From the words he usually communicates, he can see that he is actually quite capable. If I really have the honor to learn these things from him. It is indeed very helpful for my future.
Maybe it's because I have too many worries in my heart, worried that I won't study well, or worried about something else, so I can't make up my mind at this time.
"I'm a little interested, but I'm worried that I won't be able to do well in the end, you also know that I don't have a high degree of education, and I don't have much professional knowledge, and I don't know if I can keep up with this kind of professional (sexual) knowledge." It's not that Shu Yixin doesn't want to learn, it's not that he doesn't have this interest, but he just feels that his professional level may not be enough to keep up.
In my heart, I clearly know that I don't have any higher education, so I'm worried that I won't be able to keep up in this area.
If you have a higher education like them, or if you have studied abroad, you don't have to worry about this.
It's because he doesn't have much education, and he is worried that he won't be able to keep up, and it will be very difficult for him to teach himself when the time comes. After all, I also know that he doesn't have so much time, and he is usually busy with work (quite ting), if he is allowed to waste time to teach himself like this, will he delay his life and work.
This is his own worry, after all, he doesn't want to cause him any burden, he can call himself unconditionally like this, he is already very grateful, but he can't drag him back and make trouble for him.
"I think you should think about this, although you don't have a higher education, it doesn't affect your ability to understand, doesn't it" Ren Xiaoou didn't feel that she didn't have a high degree of education, so she didn't feel able to accept this new knowledge.
I'm just worried that if the two of them get too close, will something else happen, but I'm worried that if the matter comes to the end, she will be hurt, can He Yuhe's family accept a person like her
This is the only thing she is worried about, and the rest of me is not worried, every time she says something to her, just a casual reminder, she can understand, so I believe that learning these professional knowledge, she should be able to understand it soon, don't worry, it will not be able to keep up with anything else.
Her low academic background does not mean that her receptivity is not good, but from another point of view, learning the knowledge of business management is not anyone's academic qualifications. The most important thing is to look at the individual's ability to understand, and another point is whether it can be applied in practice.
If you just learn the theory, but it is useless, in practice, in fact, it is useless, the important point is to use it flexibly, to be able to apply it in real life, so that you can know whether you have learned it or not.
"That's what I said, but I'm still a little worried in my heart, you know he's a busy man, I'm afraid that when the time comes, he'll drag him down a lot, and in the end he'll feel impatient." Will people think that they are a particularly troublesome person, and one who can't be taught no matter how they teach?
Shu Yixin has always been unwilling, creating a burden for him, always feeling that he can help him, he is already very grateful to Dade, as for the other self, he is really unwilling, let him know the pressure and burden.
After all, he clearly knows in his heart that he has no obligations or responsibilities, and he must do this.
He helped himself entirely out of his own and the part of his acquaintance. You can completely ignore yourself, don't have to help yourself with ideas or anything like that, but he is very good to himself, and tries his best to make himself learn and enrich himself more.
He is so good to himself, how can he bear to cause trouble and burden to him, this point has to be considered more. is worried that he will be too stupid and will not learn anything, but will delay his affairs (qingqing).
"You should give yourself more, please believe that you can, don't deny yourself directly at the beginning, it is not a reason for you to deny." Ren Xiaoou felt that if she had the opportunity, she could learn from it.
If he is willing to teach himself, maybe he is willing to learn, but it is a pity that he can't get his special treatment, he can't treat himself like this, even if he knows that he will inherit the family business one day, he won't treat himself like this, he is in his heart, he is just a person he knows, and he has a special meaning.
This difference is the biggest difference, Ren Xiaoou knows his position very clearly, and it is impossible to look at himself differently.
Shu Yixin looked at her with puzzled eyes, and said word by word, "Do you really think I can I, I'm really not that stupid" Well, I really don't have that much confidence in myself.
Ren Xiaoou looked at him with affirmative eyes and said, "You should have more confidence in yourself, believe that you can, not to mention that this opportunity in front of you is rare, if he is willing to teach me, maybe I want to learn more." It's a pity that he is not her, so he can't teach himself so deliberately.
Shu Yixin was silent, and after a long while, he said lightly, "Let me think about it, I always feel that my heart is too chaotic, and I don't know how to choose." Let yourself think about it later, after all, he didn't want to answer him immediately, and he promised that he would give himself time to think about it.
When the time comes, I'll talk about it after I think it through. At present, my heart is too chaotic, I may not know how to take the next step, I have always felt that I am very satisfied with keeping my own small coffee house, but I have no plan for my future.
For myself at that time, how could I think about my future, and how could I have any kind of planning, just thinking that it was good not to starve to death.
Since I was a child, my son has always been very poor, and when I grew up, I changed a little bit since I stepped into society. Therefore, if you can live a good life intuitively, the life in front of you will be good, not to mention others.
In Shu Yixin's view, she doesn't dare to have dreams, not that she doesn't have dreams.
Because I always feel that it is too difficult to realize those dreams, so I keep telling myself to live realistically, don't always live in dreams, because it is too unreal, and it is quite difficult to achieve, so it is better to think about the current life than to waste my time and energy.
I have always thought that I want to live realistically, and I can't always think about those unrealistic, after all, for myself, reality can make me live better, and those dreams can only exist in dreams, because it is impossible to achieve, and in the end it will only hinder my life.
It's not that I don't want to have dreams, but I know that those dreams are not so easy to achieve, which will only waste my time and waste my youth. So in my opinion, if you have time, you might as well do more useful things (ๆ qing).
"Well, that's okay, you can think about it yourself, these should also be for the sake of your future, are you just guarding this little coffee book house for the rest of your life." Ren Xiaoou talked to her seriously, wanting her to think about her future.
The past is something that I dare not think about (Qingqing), it does not mean that I will not dare to think about it in the future, and now she should slowly think about her future.
I can't say that I have been here with her all the time, guarding this small coffee and book house, in fact, I have such an idea, but I don't know if I can achieve it in the end, after all, I have such a (body) share, many times (body) can't help myself.
In the end, if your family forces you, many times you have no other choice but to follow your family's opinions.
From a rational point of view, I feel that she should be able to take that step, and of course she has to learn it if she has the opportunity, regardless of whether she can use it in the future, it is always beneficial to learn more about defense.
"Well, I see, I'll definitely think about it." How could Shu Yixin not know that they all wanted to be good for themselves, wanted their own future, and lived a better life.
It's not that I don't know, but I'm worried that my ability is not enough, which will cause them trouble, so if I can, I will refuse, not that I don't want to learn, in fact, I also want to learn more, enrich myself, maybe I can use it one day in the future.
"Okay, don't talk too much, go back to your job, there should be a lot of guests coming by later." These things that are still uncertain (qingqing), you can think about it slowly, it's not so anxious, and now, you have to do a good job of the things in front of you (qingqing).
Shu Yixin looked at her, smiled, didn't say anything, turned around and left the kitchen.
The topic discussed by the two of them can only end here, and the rest is your turn to think about it alone, let yourself think clearly, and do it for a few more days in the future.
What Ren Xiaoou said is not unreasonable, at this time, you have to do what you should do (qingqing). The things in the future (qingqing) can only be realized slowly step by step, and now, you have to do a good job in the things in front of you (qingqing).
When Shu Yixin went back at night, Lin Ya happened to be there, and he said a few words to her by the way. I want to talk about "No First Love, There is a Secret Love" with more like-minded people, and pay attention to "Youyue Literature" on WeChat, talk about life, and find a confidant~