Chapter 420: The Root of Suffering

Dust smiled and said, "Do you want to hear my old story?" ”

"Uh-huh, yes."

"When I was young, I loved it too!" Dust smiled and asked, "Do you think I have a good temperament right now?" ”

"Yes, the teacher's temperament is very good, especially good!" Tang Qianyu said sincerely.

"There's something I want to share with you!" Dust pricked a piece of cantaloupe with a toothpick, and she said, "This sentence is, those who love deeply must have pleasure, those who have pleasure must have harmony, and those who have harmony must have grace." ”

Tang Qianyu nodded seriously, she really likes this sentence!

She silently read it in her heart, and she suddenly understood why the teacher had a gentle aura all over her body, because a person's cultivation is really from the inside out.

Dust laughed again and said, "Everyone has been young and crazy, and so have I. After all, it's a pity to not have a crazy youth! Back then, I was in love with a man who had an ex-girlfriend......"

Tang Qianyu was suddenly stunned, and the sensitive words of her ex-girlfriend made her body stiffen.

She couldn't help but look at Teacher Dust, and wondered how the teacher handled it when she faced her ex-girlfriend?

"Of course, I want to make it clear that I am not a third party. It wasn't until half a year after they broke up that I met the man. It was I who took the initiative to confess, because I have always been a person who dares to love and hate, and I think that when I meet the right eye, I must seize the opportunity. After I confessed, the man accepted me and we confirmed our relationship. In the process of falling in love, I love deeply, and he loves shallowly, so more often than not, I hold him.

He didn't like me going out to eat a lot, and wanted me to be at home, so I secretly read the recipe and learned how to cook......"

Tang Qianyu was shocked when she heard this, how could it be so similar to her situation?

Teacher Dust glanced at Tang Qianyu and said with a smile: "The story of love is always similar, we used to think that the vigorous is called love, and after really love, we know that the ordinary days of the long stream at home are called love." For the sake of the people we love deeply, we women are willing to do more. We are willing to cook, do laundry, clean the house, we are willing to have children and take care of children, and we are even willing to give up our jobs to be a full-time wife. Accompany the child's growth at home every day, and look forward to the man he loves coming home. Give him a loving hug the moment he steps through the door!

We enjoy such a peaceful beauty, but we are also afraid that there will be something external to break this beauty, so we become cautious and trembling, and we will magnify it in this way, and the contradiction will arise. We love each other, but we think in different channels.

When we first fell in love, we were very sweet because we were both free and easy.

Later, we became withdrawn because we all cared too much.

After that, we start to feel that the other person is unreasonable because of our various perceptions. I gradually discovered that it was not enough for two people to be together, just love. ”

"What more?" Tang Qianyu couldn't help but ask.

Dust smiled slightly: "All kinds of positive energy are also needed. Such as believing, such as tolerance, such as understanding, such as selfishness. ”

"Selfish?" Tang Qianyu was surprised.

"Yes, selfish! In the world of love, people can be selfish. I selfishly wanted to get 100% of that man's heart, and I couldn't tolerate a speck of sand in my eyes. Because of this, we almost parted. Dust said.

Tang Qianyu looked closely at the teacher, because her situation was really similar to her own situation, maybe as the teacher said, in love, many people's stories are similar.

Dust went on to say, "Ex-girlfriends are really annoying creatures. After separation, why do you think that others will still stand still and wait for you? ”

Tang Qianyu frowned.

Dust said: "What's even worse is that the man I love really has a part of his mind on his ex-girlfriend. ”

Tang Qianyu felt that his heartbeat was faster, and he didn't know if it was the result of nervousness or emotion?

Dust looked slightly angry: "I knew at the time that when he went to solve the trouble for his ex-girlfriend, invited her to dinner, gave her money, and sent her home, my lungs were going to explode." ”

Tang Qianyu frowned, and she asked, "What happened later?" Why? Do you know what he thinks? ”

"I thought, for whatever reason, he shouldn't have bothered with his ex-girlfriend, why?" He went to mind his ex-girlfriend, where did he put me? If he didn't have his ex-girlfriend in mind, how could he care about her? I was so angry that I packed up my things and left, so I left him a note and broke up! ”

Tang Qianyu's heart was astringent, their experiences were so similar, and their thoughts were so similar. She did think the same way, she felt that Yan Mofeng loved Li Manqing in her heart, so she lied to her, which was the source of her pain.

She can't be as free and easy as Teacher Dust, she is a tangled person, and she has hated herself for this, but it seems that people's temperament is extremely difficult to change after they are teenagers. Every time I persuade myself to be free and decisive, when I really encounter something, the tangled problems are still there. She was helpless against herself.

"And then?" She asked.

Wondering what happened next, her hopeful eyes seemed to be waiting for a light to guide the way.

"The first thing I did when I left was to cut my long hair short," Dust said, "Doesn't he like women with long hair. I'm going to cut it into sizes, and I'm not going to be the guy he likes. I don't go to the kitchen anymore, I order takeout every day, I don't get up on time to eat on time, I have to work and rest irregularly, I want to do what I want. I didn't go out in the rental house for three months. I don't know how he found me? When I saw him, my first reaction was not surprise, but surprise, and I wondered how he found me.

I saw him look haggard, and the first thing he did when he saw me was hugging me. Maybe we were separated for too long, and I missed him too, and I didn't even push him away. I calmed down a lot, I listened to him, he told me that he sent his ex-girlfriend home, it had nothing to do with love, and in that case, no matter who it was, he would send it. A woman, who was robbed of her bag and was already frightened at the time, helped her, took her to the police station for the record, and then gave her a little money and sent her home, just out of humanitarianism and had nothing to do with feelings. ”

"Don't you mind such an explanation?" Tang Qianyu asked.

She thought that if it were her, she would not be satisfied with such an answer. If Li Manqing was robbed of her bag and asked Yan Mofeng to help, Yan Mofeng went, and contributed money and effort, she would mind, she was not so generous.

Dust snorted: "I don't mind, I pushed him out on the spot and slammed the door." When I was young, I didn't have the good cultivation and temper I have now. ”