(442) Mental defense
(442)
Yan Bozhai's move of ignoring Zhu's mother's life and death really broke Zhu's heart, and completely cut off the last trace of warmth between their husband and wife.
His actions are basically equivalent to telling the world that he doesn't care about their mother at all, and he can even say that he doesn't care about his wife's family
This is absolutely intolerable and unacceptable for the Zhu family, who has always been proud of her background, she thinks that she is a daughter of a famous family who marries a concubine like Yan Bozhai, or the marriage of substitution is already yielding, but he still doesn't take her seriously, which is bullying
Zhu is not from a small family, she is the daughter of a family, of course, she thinks more far-reaching.
The Zhu family understands that if their mother really has a long and two short, he can still be the eldest grandson of the Yan Mansion if he continues the strings. At that time, their mother was just two tablets in the Yan family ancestral hall, and if the descendants were powerful, then she and her children would not be enough to worry about at all
How does this make the arrogant Zhu accept it? She can marry her husband and follow her husband, virtuous and virtuous, but that is also a limit, okay?
Zhu's education since childhood taught her that as a wife, the limit of tolerance is that no one will be allowed to shake and threaten the status of her and her children, not even as a husband
This is something she desperately wants to keep, even if she wants to do something to hurt her husband for this, she will not hesitate to do it, because this is not only her own business, but also the honor and face of her son and her mother's entire family
Zhang Qingting knew that he had successfully moved her heart. She used to be a lady like the Zhu family, and she understood what the biggest taboo of being this kind of woman was, so she could accurately give her the most effective blow
Zhang Qingting's purpose is very clear, she knows that the Zhu family will always betray Yan Bozhai in the open, and she doesn't need her to betray him in the open to do something.
With Zhu's cleverness, even without Zhang Qingting's reminder, she would think of these things. What Zhang Qingting has to do is to help her accelerate her realization of this fact. And in the process, she can take advantage of the most vulnerable moment in Zhu's heart to form an alliance with her.
Sometimes, making friends around the enemy is one of the most effective attacks in itself.
Seeing that his goal had been achieved, Zhang Qingting at this time seemed to regret his speech, and instead patted the back of Zhu's hand, "Forget it, with all due respect, there is no way to meet such a person." Don't think about it anymore, just wait a few days and send you back. Even if you don't look at anything else, just look at the child, you have to grit your teeth and pass the day."
She got up and pretended to leave, but this time it was Zhu who held her hand and didn't let go. In a pleading and fragile tone, "Mrs. Zhang, I'm ...... You think I should? ”
She really didn't know what to do? That's a lie Zhang Qingting knew in her heart that the Zhu family had already made up her mind in her heart, but she couldn't say it, because it was not in accordance with the rules, she had to tell her heart through other people, as if she was instructed to do something, which was in line with everyone's beautiful manners.
Zhang Qingting stretched out his hand to caress her dignified and beautiful face, at this moment, it seemed that he had known her for more than 20 years, a close friend of his childhood sweetheart, his eyes were full of pity, "What else can I do?" Life is not a woman's body, and the bitterness and happiness of the year are left by others. Since it has happened, this is fate, and there is no law. ”
Her tone suddenly hardened, "However, you have to remember that you have a son, you are the wife of the long house of the Yan Mansion, and this child is the long house of the Yan Mansion Since ancient times, the mother is noble, and the mother is expensive, this is a fact that no one can change, as long as you have a child, even if the husband is not good, what can you do?" As long as you can keep your son, keep yourself, and keep the title in this Yan Shifu, in the future, all this honor will always be returned to you."
Zhang Qingting knew that everything else was nonsense, only the last sentence was true, and the Zhu family had been reluctant to stand up and speak, and the biggest thing she was worried about was that if Yan Bozhai fell and the reputation of Yan Mansion stinked, it would be a stain on her son that could never be washed away, not to mention that she would lose her hereditary title and honor because of Yan Bozhai's loss of power, and she still understood the truth that the feathered phoenix was not as good as a chicken.
So what Zhang Qingting wanted to tell her was, "Like you, no matter how bad he is, you still have someone to guard." But I ...... I don't even know if he is alive or dead, if Niu'er and her father are really gone, I ......"
She cut off her words and remained silent, letting Zhu think for herself.
The meaning of Zhang Qingting's words is easy to interpret. If the matter is resolved before it is brought to the table, it is the safest for Yan Fu. If it drags on to the end and forces everyone to jump off the wall in a hurry, then for Yan Fu, it will also be a trouble that cannot be gotten rid of
Because Zhang Qingting is not simply standing here alone, there is Yan Bo behind her, he is the concubine of Yan Mansion. Even if he is kicked out of the house, he is still a force to be reckoned with, not to mention, there is the Pei family behind him.
There is also Meng Zhan, which is one of the two largest forces in the dynasty. Even if the Zhu family didn't understand why it was Yan Bo who killed Meng Wei, Meng Fu still had to stand behind him, as long as she knew, it was enough for Meng Fu to be on their side.
Another one, that is the new colt Qiao Zhongda. Although Qiao Zhongda's business career was not glorious, the inextricably linked huge relationships he operated behind him were obvious to all the nobles in the capital. Once he became a princess, it would be even more inlayed with gold edges, which could not be underestimated.
And since the death of her in-laws, Yan Mansion has been at the end of the crossbow. Although Yan Bozhai is also a high-ranking official in the court and enjoys a lot of money, the Zhu family can see that the emperor does not want to give him the real glory. What does this mean? It shows that even the emperor looks down on him
There was no need for a fierce game, and Zhu made a decision in his heart. But she wouldn't tell Zhang Qingting so easily, she had to pretend to be reserved and appear more cautious, in order to highlight the importance of her answer, in order to conform to the meaning of her identity. This is everyone's beauty, and it is always the surface work above all else.
So, she could only persuade Zhang Qingting like this, "Don't be sad, how can you persuade me to come?" Although you are a girl at home, you are also the meat that fell from your mother's body, how can you not care about it? Mr. Zhao has his own natural appearance, and nothing may happen. ”
Hearing the overture in her words, Zhang Qingting let go of most of her heart, she also knew that the Zhu family would not tell her anything so easily, the words had come to this, and it was pointless to stay longer, "It's not too early, you should rest early."
Zhu didn't keep her this time, sent her out of the door, covered the door and began to think about what to say and what to keep.
Zhang Qingting returned to the room, only to show a deep sense of exhaustion. Looking at her daughter's pink and tender little face, she was full of only one head: Zhao Chengcai, I came to save you so hard, you must support me
The tiredness of the past few days finally pressed Zhang Qingting to fall asleep with his head next to the pillow. But in the dream, I still couldn't sleep steadily, and even my brows were furrowed.
Zhao Wang's illness for a few days, Yan Yi gradually improved, but not fully recovered, this night at midnight dream, somehow, suddenly dreamed of the little granddaughter.
She saw that Xiniu was smiling sweetly, and she was happily reaching out to hug her, Xiaoni suddenly looked at her and cried, she was in a hurry, Zhang Qingting rushed out, snatched the child, and looked at her coldly, "Didn't you say that my daughter is not valuable?" Let's see what she does. ”
I didn't say that, didn't I mean that? Zhao Wangshi was so anxious that she was sweating profusely, and she was about to defend herself, but it was like a thousand catties of boulders pressing on her chest, and no matter how much effort she tried, she couldn't say a word
This made Zhao Wang's aggrieved suddenly, and he woke up suddenly. When I opened my eyes, I realized that it was Nan Ke's dream. But on the forehead and back, it is already sweaty.
After settling down, the scene in the dream is still vivid, as if it had just happened. She was so panicked that she couldn't fall asleep after tossing and turning.
After tossing a few times, Zhao Laoshi also woke up and asked in a daze, "What's wrong with you?" Feeling uncomfortable again? ”
"No" Zhao Wangshi didn't want to say, but he was really unhappy, so he chatted with his wife, "I just had a dream, I dreamed of Niu'er and her mother"
Zhao answered honestly, and squinted for a while before coming back to his senses. When he's older, his sleep is shallow, and he wakes up anyway, so it's just right to chat with his wife, he has long wanted to find an opportunity to persuade his wife.
"Well, you're thinking about them too, aren't you? Alas, after a few months, I don't know what Niu'er looks like now? ”
"No matter what she looks like, our granddaughter can't recognize it?" Zhao Wang remembers clearly, "She has just turned five months and one day, she should be a lot older"
"Hehe, that's what you said. But this doll will come back again, I'm afraid it's all us."
Zhao Wangshi was a little depressed when he thought about this, thinking of the situation in the dream, he was really a little worried in his heart, "You say, will the child blame me when he grows up?" ”
Zhao Laoshi listened inexplicably, "What do you blame?" ”
"That's it."
Oh, Zhao honestly thought about it and understood, "Are you still thinking about that?" Xi Niu is just a little bigger, what can you know? ”
"But her mother remembers, have you forgotten what she told me to look like that at the time? I look at her, I want to remember a generation" Zhao Wang couldn't help but worry.
Zhao Laoshi felt that he had to say something fair at this time, "This, I can't complain that Chengcai's daughter-in-law is angry with you, it really hurts, but Chengcai's daughter-in-law is not that ignorant person, Chengcai said at that time, no one is allowed to mention this stubble in the future, you will be kind to Niu'er in the future, won't it be fine?" ”
Zhao Wang's mouth pursed, she was not so optimistic
(It's been hot lately, and I'm preparing a new book, and I haven't been updated for a few days.) It's raining today, it's a little cooler, it's a little bit more yards, and Gui is still very diligent)