Chapter Ninety-Seven: Rigid and Soft

Qin Huaiyuan said slowly, methodically, and seductively: "You are my daughter, I naturally understand what you are thinking and resentful about now, you are smart and keen, and you can see through many things at a glance, but you are too impetuous, and you will not forgive people if you see it through, and you have to distinguish right from wrong in everything."

"I know that when you argue or do something in this house, basically no one will stop you, but what about outside? If you really meet a practitioner, you just have a little more strength, what can you do to others? What's more, you are now relying on the identity of your daughter-in-law, and no one in this family will hurt my daughter, but outside, even if you don't take the initiative to provoke, there will still be people who harm you, Sister Yi'er, is this what you said for your father? ”

"That's exactly what my father said. The daughter knew that she was wrong. Qin Yining lowered her head in shame, "My daughter is indeed too serious, and sometimes when she sees some injustices, she can't help but be impulsive." ”

Qin Huaiyuan smiled, "I understand your feelings, but you have to remember that filial piety comes first, even if the old lady does things wrong, she is my mother after all." If you want to change your mother's situation, my father believes that you don't only have a head-on conflict, your powerful skills can be used on Qin Huining, but you can use it on Lao Taijun, but you are disrespectful to your elders. What's more, with your elders, what can you do if you win? It's your mother and daughter who will suffer in the future, right? ”

Qin Huai is far more in the outer house, except for greeting the old lady, he rarely sets foot in the inner house, and he will analyze the people in the inner house so thoroughly, which makes Qin Yining admire it very much.

"The father is right, in fact, the daughter also regrets it. At that time, my daughter only thought that the old lady didn't hurt me anyway, what I said and did, she still didn't love me, and if she wanted to be cold to my mother and me, she would not be less than usual, so she let go of everything. ”

"But you actually have a tactful way, but you can't hold back when your head is hot?"

Qin Yining blushed and nodded, looking well-behaved, like a little milk cat who knew that he had made a mistake and begged his master for forgiveness.

Qin Huaiyuan laughed: "You are a child, it is not a big mistake to be reckless and impulsive. As a father, I also feel that we can't blindly endure as a person, but must be both strong and soft. Being a father does not mean that you are not allowed to be 'rigid and soft', but you also have to distinguish the object, and for the person you can't collide with, 'rigidity and softness' may be more appropriate. ”

"Yes." Qin Yining looked at Qin Huaiyuan with admiration, his eyes were shining: "Father was like this just now, I don't know how many people blushed when they said 'hiding a knife in a smile'. Father, when will my daughter be like you! I think you're amazing! It's not noisy, it's not noisy, you don't need to raise your voice, you can suppress people in a few words! ”

Being looked at by his daughter with such admiring eyes, Qin Huaiyuan was very satisfied in his heart.

The big hand couldn't help but touch Qin Yining's head, "The means are one thing, but the more important thing is because of the identity of the father." ”

Qin Yining blinked, and his eyelashes flickered to understand what Qin Huaiyuan meant.

Her father was telling her that only by standing in a higher position and being relied on can she be awe-inspired.

And only "in his position" and "seeking his own affairs" can people be convinced, otherwise it is deviant and will be criticized.

Qin Yining nodded heavily: "My daughter knows, she will definitely be filial to the old lady in the future." ”

"None of this is a big deal, and Father believes you have handled it well. However, there are still many suspicious things about today's Immortal Gu Temple. Speak to your father. ”

Qin Yining knew that Qin Huaiyuan would definitely ask, so he did not hesitate to tell the story, and when it came to Yao Zhixi, Qin Yining did not tell the truth, but used the words to deal with Xu Mao.

Qin Huaiyuan didn't doubt such a half-truth, but said: "That Yao Gongzi, although he is acquainted with Zhong Da's shopkeeper, but his father's eyes and spirit don't look like ordinary people, you should order someone to heal him, but it is also a safe way to stay away." ”

Qin Yining thought back to what had happened since he met Yao Zhixi, and also felt that this person was unfathomable, so he said obediently: "Father, don't worry." ”

Seeing that his daughter did not hide herself at all, Qin Huaiyuan was very satisfied, nodded and said, "You look at it, for my father, I believe that you have your own code of conduct." There's one more thing you have to be aware of. ”

"Father, please command."

"Now that the city has twice dispersed the Great Zhou documents, the emperor has concluded that the spies of the Great Zhou have gone deep into Kyoto, coupled with today's Xiangu Guan incident, Lord Xu thinks that it is the Great Zhou people who are suspicious, and the emperor is afraid that he will be panicked when he learns about it. If the emperor is uneasy, what do you think he will do? ”

Qin Yining thought about it, and then said bluntly: "The emperor must try his best to make peace, soften his posture towards Da Zhou, and slash down on those courtiers who are loyal to him to calm Da Zhou's anger." ”

Qin Huaiyuan was choked by Qin Yining's straightforward statement.

Seeing that Qin Huaiyuan was silent, Qin Yining asked with a smile: "Father, is what my daughter said wrong?" ”

"You're very incisive." Qin Huaiyuan coughed and said, "Now that our family has become in-laws with the Cao family, and I have become a brother-in-law with the emperor, we can be safe for the time being, and it is difficult to say about other families." So if someone has a flower viewing party recently, don't even go to it, and I'll explain it to your grandmother when I get back. ”

"Yes. Daughter remember. ”

"Also, ...... your mother" Speaking of the Sun family, Qin Huaiyuan frowned and sighed: "This time, no matter what the reason, after all, I can't stand your mother, you have to take care of her more." ”

Qin Yining nodded obediently.

Seeing that Qin Huaiyuan felt guilty about the Sun family because of his order to take a concubine, his heart was also mixed, his father was forced to do so, and his mother's resentment was actually not wrong.

All this, in the end, is because of the emperor's various practices, which has mixed up their peaceful life.

There was silence in the study, and after a long time, Qin Huaiyuan said: "Now that Xi Huacheng Dazhou has changed the coach, I don't know if the war will be eased." ”

"Changed the manager?" Qin Yining said in surprise: "Isn't that little prince the boss?" ”

"Xiao Zhixi was unruly, refused to obey the command of Emperor Zhou before the battle, and was stripped of the position of Generalissimo of Pingnan by Emperor Zhou in anger, and now the new Generalissimo of Pingnan of Great Zhou is Lian Shengjie, the secretary of the Ministry of War."

Qin Huaiyuan showed a mocking smile on his face: "This Lian Shengjie has average ability to lead troops, and he is lustful and greedy for money, and he is a person who is used to camping." Our spies came to report, saying that Xiao Zhixi was robbed of the power of the boss, and he was dissatisfied, and he fell out with Lian Shengjie in only two days, and left the barracks in a rage on horseback, and now he still doesn't know where to go. And Xiao Zhixi's Tiger Ben Army refused to listen to Lian Shengjie's command at all. If Da Zhou continues to make such trouble, our crisis may be solved. ”

Xiao Zhixi?

When Qin Yining heard this name, he immediately thought of Yao Zhixi.

However, the words of the two happen to be the same, so there is nothing strange about it.

Qin Yining didn't think much about it, but said: "If they make infighting, it will naturally be good." ”

Qin Huaiyuan also said: "Now it depends on how they arrange it, and we can also take the opportunity to breathe." ”

Qin Yining listened to Qin Huaiyuan's tone, and knew that on the side of Da Zhou, even if it was not for Xiao Zhixi to lead the troops, their chances of victory in Da Yan were not great.

Even if there is little hope, Qin Yining hopes that they can pass this year peacefully.

**

The thirty-fifth year of Dayan Qinglong and the third year of Dazhou Shengchang came under the faint flavor of the year.

Qin Yining and the Sun family wanted to keep filial piety for the male of the Sun family, not to mention that they were dressed plainly, and they did not participate in the banquet or inviting the opera troupe to sing in the hall at home.

Miss Six was grounded by the second lady last time because she helped Qin Huining, but because of the Chinese New Year, the grounding was lifted.

But Qin Huining was ordered by Qin Huaiyuan to think about copying the "Book of Filial Piety" a hundred times behind closed doors in Sydney Courtyard, but she didn't finish copying it immediately for some reason, and she also stopped extraordinarily throughout the New Year.

The most surprising thing is Qin Huaiyuan's attitude towards Cao Yuqing.

Such a tender beauty, Qin Huaiyuan has never been able to see the general, only offering her delicious food and drink, and has never been to her yard.

Qin Huaiyuan's attitude made those people in the mansion respect the Sun family a lot.

Except for the old lady.

"Aren't the Sun family and Sister Yi going to be filial? Naturally, you can't eat big fish and meat, so the kitchen will make some vegetarian dishes and send them, how to do it simply! It's too exquisite, how can it show Sun's filial piety! Also, Sister Yi'er's bird's nest porridge is free for her, doesn't the bird's nest need silver? Keeping filial piety is still so extravagant, who gave her face! ”

The old lady took two puffs of the brand-new brass cigarette pouch, feeling that the new cigarette holder was not as good as the original one, and she couldn't help but be angry again.

Mama Qin persuaded a few times, but she didn't dare to say it too bluntly to make the old lady suspicious, and in the end, she could only ask people to send meals such as boiled vegetables to Xingningyuan.

In Xingning Garden.

Sun held the bowl, looked at the brown rice in the bowl, and then looked at the rotten yellow vegetable soup cooked in a jar of vegetable leaves, and his whole body was trembling with anger.

"What is this doing! It's the one who bullied me for not having a father! Even if I am not good, I am still Qin Meng's wife, is this how they treat Qin Meng's family in the house! ”

Sun was so angry that he was about to throw the bowl.

Qin Yining's eyes were quick and he saved the poor white porcelain bowl.

I don't know how many times they have broken in the past few days, and the money for the broken dishes alone is worth more than the vegetable soup they eat.

"Mother, you are calm. Do you remember what I told you earlier, that you have to endure hardships to win people? Besides, although the food they sent was so careless, we actually ate not badly. ”

Qin Yining smiled: "Do you think the vegetarian dishes in Guangyuan Building are good?" The daughter asked someone to buy it again? ”

Sun's tears rolled in his eyes, "We are a long house, there is a fixed number of cases every month, the big kitchen sends this kind of food box, we eat worse than the next people, where is all the silver?" I sent someone to ask, they said that we should keep filial piety, eat more plain, eat delicious and drink without a long room, Aunt Cao, and your father's original four aunts also divided our share of the silver equally, old lady, this is Shengsheng slapping me in the face! ”

The tears could not be held back, and finally fell.

Seeing this, Qin Yining was helpless, coaxing and persuading, and the words of persuasion were all said before Sun stopped crying.

At this moment, there was a coquettish voice in the courtyard.

Mother Jin's face was very ugly and replied: "The eldest lady Aunt Cao, Aunt Hua, Aunt Li, Aunt Qian and Aunt Chen, as well as Miss Huining, have come to greet you." ”

The voice fell, and before Sun could say anything to refuse, the door curtain was raised, a gust of fragrant wind blew in his face, and a group of flowery aunts walked in first.