Mrs. Shizi is from a family, and after getting married, she teaches her husband and children, where do you know that.

Le An explained it to her, and didn't dare to say more, just said that some thin horses were specially trained to speak like this.

Mrs. Shizi thought for a while and said: "Ask the grandmother in the palace, this is not easy to inquire, you go back and ask your mother-in-law, just say what I said, how Mingzhu talks to her mother, it is her left family, she will find a way." ”

Le An was puzzled: "If the mother-in-law knows, why didn't she mention it?" Xiao Xia's family is not in the Hou Mansion for a day or two, and Mingzhu often goes to the front yard. She can't hear it? ”

"So how do I know? Just go back and ask. ”

"Okay, I'll go find Xiwan first, sister-in-law will help me see Mingzhu, and I'll talk to Xiwan."

The two of them went out, and Xiwan took Mingzhu to show her the embroidery patterns and various embroidery threads in the east wing.

Mrs. Shizi took Mingzhu to the courtyard to see the flowers, and Le An sat down and said: "Xiwan, I'm here to talk about the Cai family, your mother doesn't know what you think, if you are not satisfied, it is still too late, this will not be embarrassed, or afraid of embarrassing the family." There are many people who are dissatisfied with each other on blind dates, and it is better than marrying and not being satisfied, which will harm them for a lifetime. ”

Chen Xiwan said calmly: "Auntie, I'm not dissatisfied, I believe my mother, and my mother just says it's okay." ”

Le An was anxious and said, "Regarding your life's events, why do you listen to your mother's everything?" ”

"Auntie, don't worry, it's about my life's events, my mother only thinks more than me, she will only plan for me, she won't harm me, she always has to inquire clearly in all aspects. And the little lady wants to like it or not, how do you like it? What if you don't like it? I also read it, some of them are married by the little lady personally, and there are not many good ones, and most parents are in charge of each other. ”

Le An was awkward and embarrassed, her previous two marriages were all married by herself, and they were all messy, is this what scared her niece?

"Auntie, after looking at others, I want to understand why this is happening, because I am full of joy to marry in the past, and then I will be very disappointed if I am a little unsatisfactory, disappointed in others, complaining to my in-laws, expectations before marriage and disappointment after marriage, so that my heart is unbalanced, so I can't calm down and live. My father and mother helped me choose, and whoever I marry is the same life, so why should I embarrass myself and give myself an expectation that I am destined to be disappointed in the future? Auntie, I'm an ordinary little lady, and I will be the same as an ordinary little lady, so I'd better avoid it. ”

Le An asked, "Why didn't you tell your mother?" ”

Chen Xiwan blinked and smiled at Le An.

"I said a little, my mother still thinks I'm shy, and I believe in my aunt, my aunt understands what I say, if I say it too clearly, I'm afraid that my mother will have to worry more."

Le An smiled bitterly, because he was the kind of person his niece said, full of joy before marriage, and extremely disappointed after marriage.

"Have you seen Cai Jiaerlang?"

Chen Xiwan shook her head and said, "I haven't seen it." ”

"That son-in-law is not good-looking, just based on his appearance, he is not worthy of Xiwan."

Chen Xiwan thought for a while and said: "I am an ordinary little lady, I must have the love of beauty of a little lady, after my mother told me, I also wanted to secretly inquire about it, but I was afraid that people would have ideas, so it was better not to see it." ”

Le An was puzzled: "Then you will see things the same, but it is too late to be dissatisfied at that time." ”

Chen Xiwan shook her head and said, "That's different, maybe it's the same for others, it's different for me." ”

Le An didn't understand what her niece said differently, and thought to herself, no wonder you said that your mother couldn't understand your words, and I couldn't understand either. ”

"Auntie, don't worry, after seeing each other, my mother is willing and I am willing."

It's the same sentence again.

Le An stared at her niece vigorously and asked, "Xiwan, you tell your aunt, I won't tell your mother, are you someone you like, someone who will definitely disagree with your family?" ”

Chen Xiwan pursed her lips and smiled, "I know my aunt will think so, aunt, I don't ......"

Just wanted to say that he was not so stupid, but he remembered his aunt's old things, took it away, and said: "Auntie, even if we are royal women, we are also women, there are too many helpless women in this world, why bother to embarrass yourself?" Auntie, I only told you, to my mother, for fear that she would worry. ”

Le An looked at the smiling little lady in front of her as if she didn't know her, she didn't fake anything, she was frank, and she didn't look like she had someone in her heart.

She greeted her mother's nephew and nephew kindly, and gave no less gifts for the New Year's holiday, first, she is not a stingy person, her mother's family has given her only daughter in her generation a lot of marriages, and she has been married three times, and Le'an is not stingy with her mother's family.

There is also for the sake of her daughter, I always think that in the future, she will be gone, and her mother can take care of her daughter for her sake, so she will keep it for her daughter, and she will be generous to her nephews and nephews.

But that's just it, there was not much contact, only this time when she married into the Hou Mansion, she had more contact with her sister-in-law, and often went back, so she paid attention to this little niece and thought it was good.

But who knows, it's a little scary. Le'an said that I didn't understand it until I was almost forty, and my niece was only fifteen years old. Who has such a girl who will also worry about it, is it good or bad to understand too well?

Le'an, who took decades to understand, didn't know the answer to this question.

Le'an couldn't do it, so he went back and asked people to go out with Mingzhu and said to his sister-in-law: "Xiwan said that her sister-in-law would think about it for her, so she didn't have to think about it." ”

Mrs. Shizi said: "I asked her, and she said so, I was most afraid of which person she liked, and I felt that the family did not agree, so it was like this." When I was a child, I had a girlfriend who was like this, who took a fancy to a poor scholar, knew that his family was unwilling, he was disheartened, and he married anyone, and he still couldn't pass the level in his heart. Others are forced to take concubines for their husbands, but she takes the initiative and is not happy for the rest of her life. I'm afraid of Xiwan. ”

Mrs. Shizi looked at her sister-in-law, when she married for the second time, she fell in love with a poor scholar, but Shizi objected, and she persuaded behind her back, but she also remembered the matter of her best friend. But who knew that the sister-in-law married a scumbag, relying on the county king's mansion, the family ate the sister-in-law's, drank the sister-in-law's, and had a deep relationship with the cousin.

Le An hurriedly said: "I asked Xiwan, she said no, I don't know anyone, where is there someone I like?" She said that the words of the matchmaker of her parents' orders are to marry quietly. ”

Mrs. Shizi was not relieved when she heard this, but even more unassured.

"Sister-in-law, who is Xiwan like? My eldest brother didn't do the same. ”

Mrs. Shizi said: "Or I will let you speak in front of Mingzhu, Xiwan was able to understand adults when she was a child, and then she became more and more like an adult, and now I have discussed many things in the family in the past two years, and I have listened to her more thoughtful than I thought, so I tried hard to pick a marriage for her, afraid that she would suffer in the future, and people who understand too well are tired." ”

Le'an suddenly understood, he was a person he didn't understand, although he was like that before, but he was not tired.

She also understood why her niece said that she listened to her father and mother, saying that she didn't think about who she liked, that is, she didn't want to live too tired.

Because she said that she was an ordinary little lady, she would have the idea of an ordinary little lady, and in order to put an end to the possibility of such thoughts, she simply let the family affairs be handed over to her parents.

Why bother yourself?

Here are the words of the niece.

Le An thought, yes, why bother yourself, when I encounter something in the future, I must think about whether I will embarrass myself and bring trouble to others.

"Sister-in-law, now that I know, I might as well be happy, and I'm ashamed to listen to her. Sister-in-law will listen to Xiwan herself in the future, she will not embarrass herself. ”

The sister-in-law chose a date and set a date to go to the Luguo Mansion to meet each other.