(496) Promise or not to agree [two more!] ]
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I heard that Zhang Qingting was going to put forward conditions, and this time not only Zhao Wang's family, but even Zhao Chengcai pricked up his ears.
Zhang Qingting's conditions are actually very simple, there is only one sentence, "In the future, I will have the final say on the affairs of the family, and you have to promise not to find those awkwardness for me again"
This one...... Zhao Wangshi was stunned, she didn't expect Zhang Qingting to bring it up to her so blatantly.
Did you say she didn't expect it at all? That's right, after fighting with Zhang Qingting for all these years, Zhao Wang's family has more or less felt the strong "threat" of this daughter-in-law, and she has also felt some taste, but she has never been willing to think deeply.
A family, no matter how small the family is, there are many things and few things, but the person in charge should be one person. In this way, it will not make a lot of confusion, the public says that the public is reasonable, and the mother-in-law says that the mother-in-law is reasonable.
Of course, it is necessary to discuss, but the decision should be in the hands of one person. And this person, according to common sense, should be a mother-in-law. How else to say that a daughter-in-law who has been a wife for many years? It refers to their absolute authority in the family.
But this is just common sense, Zhang Qingting is unwilling to let this rule shackle to death. She thought very clearly that if she wanted to reunite with Zhao Chengcai, the biggest key was not the order that the emperor was going to promulgate, but a promise from the Zhao Wang's family.
After all, no matter how good the emperor's order is, those who can't carry it out are also in thousands of households, and you can't hold this law as a reference in the future, you still have to convince the people.
Zhao Wang is a very strong person, and he is not weak. If she and Zhao Chengcai don't solve this problem before they get back together, there will be disputes among the parents in the future, and Zhao Wang's family will nag and make trouble again, and it will be a peaceful day for the family.
It's not that Zhang Qingting thinks people badly, but the reality is like this. Easy to change, nature hard to change. Even if Zhao Wang's family can endure it for a year or two in order to take her into the door, can it guarantee that she can endure it for decades?
And this kind of deliberate forbearance is not the atmosphere that a family should have. Therefore, Zhang Qingting must have a guarantee from her, to promise not to interfere in the affairs of the family indiscriminately, and to promise not to get along with her at the key point, so that she can really marry Zhao Chengcai with confidence.
Although Zhao Wangshi is tough, he is a very committed person. If she could say this, she would have reminded herself to abide by it. Even if you have to break some small rules, you won't get over it.
Originally, Zhang Qingting wanted to wait for Zhao Wang's family to figure this out and take the initiative to put it forward. didn't expect that being here today would force her to break it in public.
She knew that Zhao Wang's family could take the initiative to mention this, but it was a little disrespectful when she said it. Which daughter-in-law is so bold as to dare to say in front of everyone that she wants her mother-in-law to obey herself? It's strange not to be poked in the back and scolded to death
But Zhang Qingting is not afraid because she is a person who has been divorced, and the reason for divorce is well known, that is, the discord between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
If she said this today, so that she would be pointed at, then she also admitted it, because the day is for herself to feel, not for others to see. This is like a fish drinking water, knowing its own warmth and coldness. You're doing well, are you still afraid of what anyone will say?
And Zhang Qingting can guarantee that if Zhao Wang's family can really agree to her request, she will definitely take good care of her mother-in-law and let her enjoy her old age in peace. If Zhao Wang's family refuses to agree, then to be honest, she can't marry Zhao Chengcai. Otherwise, I won't be able to live in the future
Now it's because they're not together, so Zhao Wang's family will remember her well, and he will think about how to get her back is the first priority. But when they really live together again, especially when the Zhao Wang family is getting older and has to eat and live with them, all the trivial things in the town may become the fuse and cause one thunder after another.
So Zhang Qingting she had to say, and when she said it in public, she also implied a point in her heart, testing whether Zhao Wang's family sincerely wanted to take her home. If it was, she would definitely say yes, and if it wasn't, there would be nothing more to say.
However, with Zhao Wang's love for faces, if she really agreed in public, Zhang Qingting would not be afraid that she would regret it. So now, she gave this choice to Zhao Wang, her former mother-in-law.
If you want to be my mother-in-law again, I'm sorry, I have to be in charge of this family
At this moment, Zhao Wang's heart was really confused.
In the past, when Zhao Chengcai forcibly took away the power of the house from her, the Zhao Wang family had already experienced a huge blow.
For a person like her, who has her heart and managed her for a lifetime, what could be more uncomfortable than denying her ability?
And last time, although Zhao Chengcai took over the management of the family's major affairs, Zhao Wang's family was not unable to manage anything at all. The little things at home are still in her hands. There are really some things that Zhao Chengcai did that made her dissatisfied, and she was a mother, and there was nothing unspeakable. Just like Zhao Chengdong's separation, it is always difficult to make trouble with him, and it is always better to disobey her.
But Zhang Qingting is different, she is a daughter-in-law, which is destined for Zhao Wang's family not to treat her as a daughter-in-law. On the contrary, once she agreed to let her be in charge, she had to respect her opinion more politely and obey her decision.
To put it bluntly, isn't it true that Zhang Qingting can control her in the future? How can this make Zhao Wang's affection embarrassing?
She wasn't worried that Zhang Qingting would deliberately embarrass her and abuse her or anything, but this just wanted people to know that she was a mother-in-law of the Zhao Wang family, and her daughter-in-law was in charge of it, so where would her face go?
Zhao Wang really didn't want to agree
But if she didn't agree, her daughter-in-law's words would be put here, and she would not enter the door of the Zhao family. And according to the hotness of this daughter-in-law, maybe in a fit of anger, she will really talk about marriage with someone else. At that time, can she make her son? What about her granddaughter?
Zhao Wang's family is entangled here, she just made a lot of noise when she was noisy, and now when the wind blows, her brain is calm, and she regrets it in her heart. Why did you pick such an inappropriate time to talk about such an inappropriate topic?
Zhang Qingting naturally knew the reason for the hesitation in her mother-in-law's heart and the difficulty in making up her mind. In fact, if Zhao Wangshi didn't think about it, she agreed to it, but she didn't have a bottom in her heart, which proved that what Zhao Wangshi said was just drunk words, and it couldn't be true. But Zhao Wang's thought about it for a long time, which proved that she was drunk and thoughtful, and she was thinking seriously, so what she said really had weight.
Zhao Chengcai also knows the awkwardness in his mother's heart, in his opinion, the metabolism of a family is an inevitable law. Zhang Qingting is indeed very good in all aspects, if she is allowed to be in charge, then she really has no worries, and she can devote herself to the construction of the academy. Men, they always want to make a difference. Now it's a good time again, and they have already explored a preliminary plan these days, which will take forty years to build the Zhalan Academy into one of the most famous academies in the country
There are a lot of big things waiting for him to do, if Cheng Ri is entangled in the conflict between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and is busy mediating, then Zhao Chengcai will not be able to do things with peace of mind.
From Er's standpoint, although he felt that it was a bit impolite for Zhang Qingting to make such a request in public, he was absolutely not wrong with this family, and it was time to hand it over to her.
But he couldn't say. He could neither publicly support Zhang Qingting, nor persuade Zhao Wang, because after all, this was a matter for his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. If you go further, it is also Zhang Qingting's condition for re-entering the house and for his future mother-in-law.
Whether Zhao Wang is willing or not, she has to be given the right to choose. If he said anything, it was the sacrifice made by the Zhao Wang clan for him. In the future common life, Zhao Wangshi can still complain, "Look, I listened to your words and agreed to it for you." ”
So he could only quietly make his own decision with his mother.
He couldn't speak, but there was one man who could. Zhao Laoshi thought for a long time, and seeing that everyone was silent, he began to move the elm pimple head.
He didn't have as complicated thoughts as Zhao Wang's, so relatively speaking, it was relatively easy to make a decision, "Child, listen to me." ”
Zhao Wangshi only listened to his wife express his opinions with unprecedented seriousness, "We are all old, our brain response is slow, our actions are not flexible, and there is a lot of pain in our bodies. We all have to rely on the children to take care of us in the future, not that we have to ask them for something. But since we are old, why do you have to be strong? Look at your daughter-in-law, how much has she done for the family in the past few years since she entered the door? She was young, smart, and had a lively brain. There are many things that we can't think of, and she helps them think of them. If we can't take care of it, she will take care of it too. People are really very, they eat and drink all day long, and they take good care of our clothes and quilts, and they don't let us suffer a little grievance. I don't have much to say about this daughter-in-law. Since the children are now busy with their own things, it is better for us to stay at home, take care of the children for them, and take care of the housework. Wouldn't it be nice to worry less and enjoy more? You tell me? ”
For people who are getting older, it is more practical to be able to enjoy a blessing than to worry about their love. In the end, Zhao Wang's wife was convinced, and he sighed long, "Okay, I'll depend on you."
Now that she agreed, she was no longer cowardly, and raised her head straight, "Chengcai daughter-in-law, then I promise you now, you have to agree to marry back."
Zhang Qingting's face was slightly red, but he confessed one word neatly, "good".
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