438 Self-cultivation
Seeing Happy Rongsheng blushing and crying aggrievedly like that, the whole family was strange, Gao Yangrong said: "My brother cried because of what a classmate said in the school last month. ”
Gao Xingrong wiped his tears and did not refute, but there was a stubborn grievance on his face.
Gao Yangrong said what was going on.
The students in the school will definitely play together in addition to learning, and there will be disputes and contradictions when playing, happy Rong learned martial arts this year, and learned to ride a horse, the timidity of the past in the school is gone, the eldest sister often says that the line is the champion, no matter what cat can catch the mouse cat is a capable cat, so happy Rong is very confident to be a capable cat who catches mice.
The education of the family and his own character, although Xingrong is proud, he has not forgotten, although his father is the master book, but Gao Zhao has always taught them not to be proud in front of their classmates because of their father's relationship, that is a manifestation of incompetence.
Happy Rong is proud because of his own efforts, and he has grown step by step under his efforts, but some people are uncomfortable, usually some sour words, Happy Rong doesn't care, but once a few classmates talked about something, how, I don't know that Happy Rong's words stimulated that classmate, he not only spoke sourly, how did he say something about moving out of the ancestral house of the Gao family, maybe he did something to shame the ancestors.
At that time, Xingrong was anxious to join him, but was pulled by Gao Yangrong, Gao Yangrong asked the classmate if he dared to say it again in front of the people in the school, and apologized if he didn't dare.
Gao Yangrong said that they should believe in their grandfather and father, there must be something inside to this matter, but don't ask the elders now, lest the elders be uncomfortable.
After Gao Yangrong finished speaking, Gao Xingrong cried again, he said: "It's not that I don't believe in the elders, I know that our big house will not do things that shame our ancestors, I just feel sad that I have been wronged and can't explain it, I am the eldest son of the big house, I want to take care of this family, I don't want outsiders to talk nonsense about our big house." ”
Gao Wenlin's heart was sour, how could he not feel uncomfortable or aggrieved? But it is his incompetence to be a father to let his son bear this.
Gao Zhao handed the eldest brother a handkerchief, touched his head and said: "Happy, you have to know that everyone will have it, some people are so uneducated, they are in their hearts, everything is, that's his business, everyone will be angry when they hear it, but don't take other people's trash talk to heart, next time you encounter something similar, you ask him first, what do you estimate who my Gao family is and what has I done, so do you have evidence?" What do you estimate without evidence? Then you say I should not estimate who raised you, why is your heart unhealthy? If he just said the wrong thing for a while, forgive him once, if he is stupid and a bar, don't care, don't lower your IQ, if he still slanders you and the Gao family in person, you give him a two-minute serial palm, let him have a long memory, and you can't talk nonsense. In the future, you must remember that such people cannot come and go, and you cannot let such people influence you. ”
Gao Yangrong said: "Eldest sister, is this the garbage man that the eldest sister said?" ”
"I don't know what to comment on, Yang Rong, don't make decisions easily, some people have personality problems, some people have growth problems, you just remember, do your best. What did our father teach us when we could read? Qiaoyun said. ”
Qiaoyun said: "If you want to gather your family, you must first cultivate your body; Those who want to cultivate their bodies must first correct their hearts; Those who want to correct their hearts must first be sincere...... Sincerity and then the heart, the heart is right and then the body, the body is the ,......"
Qiao Yun opened his mouth to say a word, and the four sisters and brothers recited this paragraph in unison.
"What kind of people we are, we don't need one or two to discuss, in the future, when you grow up, you will meet all kinds of people, each of whom is responsible for their own lives, and doing their best is the basic. Everyone's future is created and responsible for his own life, and everyone's attitude towards life, to their own life, and their families, friends, and even to outsiders, can reflect what a person is like, so don't take the words of individual people to heart, I believe that there are still friends who like our family to be happy, right? ”
Gao Yangrong said: "My brother has a lot of friends, more than my friends. ”
"That's good, does this prove it, happy, stop thinking about what the person who doesn't speak responsibly, don't pay attention to him in the future, make friends with people, happy people and happy people are together, and share more happiness."
Xingrong nodded heavily, a smile on his face.
Gao Wenlin was relieved in his heart, his four children were his pride, and Jiang understood in his heart that the most important thing that the old man said his daughter had done was to grow up with her younger siblings, and this growth was not a growth over the years.
Gao Cui is proud, this is the descendant of my Gao family's big house!
Gao Zhao unfolded a smile, clapped his hands and said: "Okay, I'll take you to Zhou's house next door, no, it's our house, go and see, there is a big tree in the courtyard, see which of the two of you can climb fast, I said Qiaoyun, when will you learn to climb trees?" It's a skill to learn, there are too many little ladies who can embroider, and there are few who can climb trees, you have to be a different little lady, hehe! ”
Gao Wenlin shook his head with a smile, his daughter was out of shape as soon as she said that she was playing, but he would not reprimand at this time.
He stood up and said, "Let's go, let's go together!" ”
The Jiang family held Qiaoyun, Gao Cui stood up and patted his body, Xingrong and the two brothers followed next to the eldest sister, chattering and asking questions, the Gao family is next door, and the Wu family is familiar with it, but the Zhou family is not familiar with it, so Xingrong and they have not been there.
"Eldest sister, is it the same age as the Wu family?"
Gao Zhao raised his head proudly and said: "It's much bigger than the Wu family, and it's bigger than our family." ”
"Wow! After that, you can get a martial arts training ground in the courtyard. ”
Happy Rong looked forward to his father, he really wanted to have a martial arts training ground, and a small one would be fine.
Gao Wenlin said with a smile: "Okay, let's clean up together when we repair the house." ”
"Thank you, Dad!"
opened the door and entered, Xingrong and the two brothers ran inside, and Gao Cui shouted behind them: "Slow down, be careful of falling." ”
Gao Zhao wanted to run along, but after thinking about it, he followed his mother.
After entering the main courtyard, Gao Cui's eyes lit up, walked to the tree, touched the trunk and said, "This tree is good, in summer, my father is under the tree in the shade, and he can't get sun." ”
The Jiang family is concerned about where the ancestral hall is built, she will be a clan woman in the future, and she is excited when she thinks about it, this is recorded in the family tree.
Gao Wenlin said: "After the main courtyard was changed to the front yard, an ancestral hall and a school were built, and in the future, if you invite your husband to teach in the front yard, the residences are behind the second courtyard, and then the front yard will be divided into the front yard and the inner house, and the male grandson will leave the inner house to live in the front yard after the age of six." ”