Back in the house, Xing Rong asked Xiao Er for tea and handed it to Mr., and Mr. Meng took it.

"You also have a cup of tea and rest, Yang Rong, I know what you mean, I'm afraid that Mr. will be deceived."

Gao Yangrong smiled embarrassedly and said: "Sir, let's be careful when we go out, it's not like Beijing outside, we are outsiders, it's not good for people to be targeted, you can't hurt people and have a heart to prevent people." ”

Mr. Meng put down the teacup and said, "How old are you to be a gentleman?" Can't tell the difference between good guys and bad guys? Let's just talk about you, I've been teaching for a few years, a little smart, brainy, sincere to people, this is good, just think too much, what do you do with long eyes? Look at the eyes, think with the heart, analyze more, and don't be self-righteous, so that you will not be swayed by your own judgment. This can't be said to be your fault, between me and you, what you lack is experience, this takes time to accumulate, you are still young, so I said to watch more, not think more, see more naturally in my heart. ”

Gao Yangrong felt that this was similar to what the eldest sister said, and the eldest sister said that experience can make people grow, why do many gentlemen take students to travel, to experience, stay at home to increase experience, why trek through mountains and rivers to endure hardships outside? To go out is to increase knowledge, and insight is first to see, and then to know.

He stood up and bowed to his husband and said, "Taught." ”

Ni Sicai then got up and listened to his teachings.

Mr. Meng said: "Sicai looks stupid, in fact, he knows in his heart, he is a person who uses more eyes, knows his shortcomings, and observes more." Many things are not in books, learn to apply, learn not to use, that is stupid. So, how to use it, where to use it, depends on your own experience. Experience is not what books teach you, but what you think, experience, or observe. I once heard Yang Rong say: You can't become a big fat man by eating in one bite, this sentence is the same here, you study, you can win the champion without reading for a year, that is, you have been studying hard for 20 years and won the champion, and the title is also to send him to the following county seat as a county order, why? I don't need to say that you also know, so I asked you to walk and see more and deal with people more, so that you can see all kinds of people and things in your eyes. ”

Gao Yangrong said: "Students know their mistakes. ”

Mr. Meng shook his head and said: "You are not wrong, if people think that this world and people are too beautiful, it is too innocent, but we can't make ourselves ugly because it is not beautiful, it is very wrong." Okay, I won't say more, it's still the same sentence, use your eyes more. ”

"Yes."

Gao Yangrong looked up and saw a playful smile in his husband's eyes, and wondered why.

"I know that you think Mr. is too stupid, you will be deceived when you go out, every day I see you staring at me for fear that I will make a stupid appearance, I have to laugh, sleep soundly every night by this dream, thank you."

Gao Yangrong's face turned red, and Ni Sicai also held back a smile.

Mr. Meng became interested and said, "Sit down, let me talk about today, as soon as Yang Rong heard me say that he went to see the temple fair with the father and son, he was immediately alert, and kept an eye on the father and son along the way." You really think of your husband as a nerd who can only eat. I talked to the father and son yesterday, he is a countryman, but he feels sorry for his son, and he takes the money out to live in the hotel, if it is normal, the father will stay outside for one night. The hands of the harvesters, the eyes of the harvesters, the taste of the harvesters. At the beginning, you thought about whether you were a liar or not, and you looked at the appearance of a liar in your eyes, I still said that you are not to blame for this, it is right to be vigilant, how can you correctly judge or accumulate. ”

Gao Yangrong scratched his head, and hurriedly withdrew his hand and said: "I also saw that father to that child, just like my father to our brothers and sisters, the child's favorite objects, my father hesitated, looked at it several times, endured it and endured it before moving forward, but when the child saw which one to eat, my father immediately bought one." That's affordable to eat, and it's not necessary to spend money on play. ”

Mr. Meng turned around and said, "This is how you used your experience to make you make a judgment, and Sicai will not pay attention to these, because he has no worries about food and clothing since he was a child, and he has not experienced it." ”

Ni Sicai also blushed, where did he pay attention to this.

To that grandson, Yang Rong's eyes showed pity, first of all, the grandson's portrait will not be an abducted child, people next to him said that Grandma's daughter-in-law is gone, and her son is paralyzed at home, and after a while, Grandma will bring her grandson to the temple fair or market to ask for money. Croppers are not forced to be unable to do it, they will not beg for food on the local street, and they will not help the poor in emergencies, every family has their own affairs, and no one will help this poor hole that can never be filled in for a long time, grandma takes her grandson to the street, counting on people passing by to give some silver, Mr. I can give them a few taels of silver, but it is not necessarily a good thing for them, first, I will expect someone to give a few taels or a few taels, no, disappointment, disappointment will make people dissatisfied with others, which will affect the child. Second, if the ancestors and grandchildren have silver, will anyone be targeted, and it is not unheard that those gamblers or wicked people have harmed people's lives for a few taels of silver, so did I help them or hurt them? ”

Gao Yangrong nodded, understanding what Mr. said, and his father had said something similar.

"I know that Songshan Temple has been helping the poor people for many years, so why don't you leave them alone? First of all, this grandfather has a house at home, and he can't plant land in the tribe, and the people next to him say that they haven't slept on the streets, but what do they lack? There is a lack of silver, there is a lack of people to take care of them, and if someone raises someone to take care of them, it is not a good thing for them. There are more difficult people than them, grandma is in good health, she can take care of her son and raise her grandson, and in another ten years, when her grandson is older, she can take care of her grandmother and father in turn, if everything is given and helped by others, when the child is older, will she take care of her grandmother and father? You may wonder why you don't continue to take care of my grandmother and father. You should help me marry another daughter-in-law. Who gave him such an idea? It's the people who help them, the people who are kind enough to help them, why do some people say that I saved a white-eyed wolf, because the white-eyed wolf was raised by himself. ”

Gao Yangrong understands these words very well, when he was a child, because he met Mr. Jia, Mrs. Jia always gave good things to the eldest sister, and the eldest sister said such a thing, saying that Mrs. Jia was harming her, so that the eldest sister would become an unrighteous person in the future.

At that time, he didn't understand, but as he grew up, he understood.

And Ni Sicai heard this for the first time, suddenly realized, and said: "I understand, I have a cousin, who is a distant relative who came to my family from other places, I see him pitiful, often give him things, and give it when I think of it, but how can I think of it from time to time, after a long time, I found that he showed resentment in his eyes, I was very strange, I didn't offend him, I was about the same age in the family, and I was the best for him, but he ignored me, smiled with others, and said bad things about me behind my back." I thought about it for a long time and didn't understand, but I didn't dare to tell my father, for fear that I would be careful. ”