If the eye is the window to the soul, then the gaze is the tool for communication. However, there are generally three perspectives from which people look at people: looking up, looking up, looking down, and looking down.

When you look at great people, celebrities, nobles, bosses, etc., you will generally look up. Respectfully, bowing his head to his ears, the more he looks at it, the more he feels that he is small, not worth mentioning, and useless. However, looking up is tiring. If you look at it for a long time, you will be prone to sore necks and weak legs.

When you look at ordinary people, friends, colleagues, and people who are similar to yourself, you will often use eye level. It is very natural for everyone to call each other brothers, giggle and be very affectionate. Because there is no restraint between each other, there is no distinction between superior and inferior, so naturally there is no need to raise your head or hang your head. This should be the most comfortable and reasonable perspective for people to see people.

People who are not as good as themselves, whether it is income, level, level, or life experience, tend to be naturally and unnaturally condescending and look at them with a downward eye. At this time, a wave of arrogance will rise from the dantian to the corners of the mouth, and a burst of contempt will be revealed in the casual eyes.

However, at this moment, Yan Nu was like the dazzling star, so bright that Song Dai couldn't open his eyes. So, he had to turn away, not daring to look at her again.

Yan Nu couldn't help but point her hand and let a mirror appear in front of her. She was scrutinizing herself. This time, she came to see this guy after she was dressed up. Why did he just look at her and stop looking at her? Didn't he like her outfit this time?

No, I remember that before his first reincarnation, he said that he liked her dress the most! I hope that she can finally use this outfit to find him after reincarnation. Could it be that in this life, his preferences have fundamentally changed?

"Why don't you look at me?" So, she stepped forward and asked with a big grin. "Don't you like my outfit? Then you say, what kind of outfit do you like now, I'll learn it!"

"I-" Hearing this, Song Dai didn't know how to respond for a while. Alas, he knew that there was a Yan Nu, and before thinking about the end of the world, he should have found a woman to have a good relationship. It's not now, as soon as I see the appearance of Yan Nu, I am in a hurry, I can't say anything, I can't do anything, just like Xiaobai.

In fact, people who like to look down must also be good at looking up. When facing powerful bosses, they are full of peach blossoms and smiles; In the face of ordinary people, there will be a look of contempt, and the mouth will grin to the back of the neck.

At the same time, there are also some people who are accustomed to enjoying looking up, and they can't live without crowds of worshippers, and they feel uncomfortable when they can't hear the sound of sycophants, and they don't want to come down anymore when they stand on the "altar". For example, those celebrities in the heyday, the admiration of fans is their best nutrition, but from time to time they are slow to treat star chasers, play big names, look down on the audience, and coax. In the long run, sooner or later it will be abandoned by fans.

In fact, sometimes, looking up is often self-inflicted, looking down is disrespectful to people, and only looking up is the most normal perspective between people. However, it is not difficult to look at people of the same status, but it is difficult to maintain a level eye on people with high status and people with poor status.

This requires a pampering and unfazed bosom, a measure of equal treatment of others, a simple and natural way of thinking, and a strong mind without desire...... It is difficult for most people in the red dust to have these. However, it is often easy for children who are not deeply involved in the world to do so.

Two hundred years ago, when a great writer visited a certain country, he put down his body and communicated with a little girl.

When parting, the great writer said to the little girl: "Go back and tell your mother that the companion you played with today is the world's great writer." ”

Unexpectedly, the little girl also learned his tone and replied: "You also go back and tell your mother that the companion you are playing with today is the world's most famous little girl Jiajia." ”

The little girl is simple-hearted and innocent, so she easily and naturally achieves the level of the writer.

If it is said that being able to look at the nobles and celebrities is the backbone and integrity, then the people who can look down on the poor and the down-and-out are upbringing and feelings. Because all people are created equal, no one wants to accept the humiliation of being looked down upon, and no one has the right to look down on others.

The president of country M, who signed the text of the emancipation of the black slaves and became the most famous president in history, once went out, a black beggar in rags on the side of the road bowed to him very rashly. He also meticulously took off his hat and saluted him in return.

"President, you don't have to be so polite! After all, you are the leader of a nation. Every day, I don't know how many people have to bow to you. The entourage expressed bewilderment at the president's actions.

"Really?" "But even if I am a beggar, I don't want him to think that I am an impolite fellow," the president explained. ”

On the other hand, some people whose reputation and status are far inferior to this president are arrogant and arrogant to the disadvantaged, which can only expose his frivolity and superficiality, in exchange for only bursts of scolding.

Thinking of this, Song Dai finally stopped knotting his tongue and said in a slurred voice: "I-I'm not very good at talking, and I can't make girls happy." So, I don't know how to get along with you!"

"Oh!" Hearing Song Dai's explanation, Yan Nu suddenly breathed a sigh of relief. For the countless reincarnations of this guy in front of her, she is not afraid of anything else, she is worried that he will suddenly fall in love with other women. This happened for several lifetimes, and she left in tears. Otherwise, how could she be so familiar with this capital? It is not an exaggeration to say that it is a sad place. But this life is likely to be the last reincarnation of the human king and the human generals, and she has to come over to take a look. If he falls in love with another woman, she will have to snatch her love. If you can't kill him, you have to wake him up.

However, in the current situation, this possibility is almost remote. It really made her breathe a big sigh of relief. After all, competing with an ordinary woman for a man is a very humiliating thing for her.

"It's okay!" So, she reached out with her hand and took his hand and said. "I know it's impossible for you to accept me soon. However, as long as we get along slowly, you will know how well I and you are compatible. After all, we have been together for a long time and have never been apart......"

Lingwu, who was stealthily peeping on the side, wanted to cover his ears when he heard it. This Yan girl has always been like this, without the slightest shyness of a girl, I really don't know how the wise general who is the king of people can endure it? has been with her for so long.

Even later, the king of people found countless women to accompany him, and he was angry with the goddess of justice. Zhijiang is always the only one by Yan Nu's side. In this life, Song Dai, who is a wise general, may not be able to escape the magic hands of Yan Nu, right?

"Oh-" As Lingwu had expected, Song Dai obviously accepted Yan Nu's proposal, and he held Yan Nu's hand. "Then let's try!"

"Smack!" Hearing this, Yan Nu was very happy, stepped forward to hug Song Dai and kissed her, and said with a smile. "I knew you were like this—sullen! It's a much better word than black belly. ”

"You-" Song Dai's face suddenly turned red and his ears turned red.

Lingwu covered his eyes even more and quietly retreated. Then, he wiped away the slight sweat that appeared on his forehead, and sighed that the heat of the Yan Nu was something that only Song Dai could bear. If he was to risk being whipped, he would rather go to Ning Xiao to ask for cold ice seeds to eat, but he wouldn't dare to provoke Yan Nu.

In fact, looking up and looking down is the effect of the deformation of the haha mirror, only the head-up view is a real mirror without an arc. It has unbiased objectivity, justice that is far from utilitarianism, and simplicity that is free from distractions.

Therefore, Yan Nu always paid attention to Song Dai with a level-eyed gaze. This made Song Dai enjoy it very much. You must know that among the group of young people around Cheng Ziyang, although he has outstanding intelligence, he still seems to be quite slow in terms of rising in the level of ability, and it is inevitable that a sense of inferiority will sometimes arise.

But Yan Nu never thought so, which was nothing to be inferior. Therefore, whenever Song Dai expressed this emotion, she responded indifferently: "You are already the smartest one among the generals." If you have great mana, how will others live? ”

See, anyone will feel comfortable and comfortable when they say this. Gradually, Song Dai also believed that Yan Nu was born to be a partner specially equipped for him.

Therefore, people who live in a level gaze are happy and confident, warm and harmonious. However, no one can ask everyone to look at each other equally, but they can only try their best to keep a level view of everyone, and of course they must be respectful and respectful to their leaders, and they should not be cold to their subordinates; There is no need to be fearful of the riches, nor is there a blindness to the poor.

On the other hand, don't pay too much attention to other people's overlooks, be too sensitive, and take it too seriously. If someone just looks at a powerful person with a "peach blossom" on his face, and turns around and looks at you with a cold face, you don't need to be angry, just think about the special attribute of the kind of thing that "sees all the poor bark and all the rich wagging their tails".

I always think that the best season to visit the lake is in early autumn. Because at that time, the weeping willows were still green, and the lotus in the pond was still rippling. And in winter, it is full of broken flowers and willows, what is there to see. Later, Song Dai found out that he was wrong. It turns out that the lake in winter, especially the lake in the snow, is even more romantic.

In winter, the lake has faded away from the confusion of red flowers and willow green, and the colors and forms tend to be simple and atmospheric. A world covered in silver can allow people to taste the cultural precipitation of that lake.

Lying quietly by the lake in winter, like a wise elder, dumb Jin Ge Iron Horse, extinguished the lights and prosperity, waiting silently like this, waiting for the heart-to-heart communication of the thousand-year-old visitors by the lake.

"Look, should we have a wedding too?" At this time, seeing the couple taking wedding photos by the lake, Song Dai was asking Yan Nu. "By the way, take a wedding photo too!"

"No!" Yan Nu had already met Ning Xiao. She also heard Ning Xiao's many complaints about holding weddings and taking wedding photos, so she resolutely resisted all this. Anyway, she hasn't experienced reincarnation, so she doesn't have to abide by the etiquette of the world. "You and I have had a wedding before, so you don't need to hold it a second time!"

"You-" Song Dai felt depressed, so he replied with a tangled feeling. "But I just want to have another wedding with you, what do you say?"

"That's it!" At this time, Yan Nu also felt a headache. "Then I'll have to think about ......"

"Ice in winter, lotus waves in summer, snow in autumn, and poplar smoke in spring", which is a high degree of condensation of the four seasons landscape by the lake. "Winter Ice" refers to the fact that the lake is covered with ice, and the frozen lake surface is unusually vast and bright, like a huge mirror.

However, as the climate warms now, it is almost impossible to see such thick ice. Even on the coldest days, it is only a thin layer, the ice is covered with a thin layer of snow, white and flawless, and the smoke is immense, except for unknown water birds chasing and playing with each other.

"If you really want to have a wedding, go for it!" In the end, Yan Nu still compromised. Anyway, she's idle, and it's good to find something to do.

"Okay, I think our wedding should be held like this......" Song Dai suddenly became elated, and discussed with Yan Nu with relish.

On a sunny winter day, the sunset shines on the lake without hesitation. The green lotus that was full of vigor in the past by the lake, at this time peculiarly transformed into a graceful geometric figure, still scattered on the clear lake surface, the lake water is sparkling, the residual lotus is vivid, not the cold wind blows, the green willow of the past has become a lost willow bald branch in the wind, as if swaying with a thousand kinds of style, the water reflects the branches rippling, and the wind wraps the elegance to help the fun.

"Boom!"

At this moment, a burst of thunder suddenly sounded in the sky.

"It's winter, how can there be thunder?" When Song Dai heard this, he couldn't help muttering to himself. But at a glance, he was horrified to find that Yan Nu was already quietly standing on the top of the willow tree next to her, watching the place where the thunder came from.

"Yan—what are you doing?" He couldn't help but exclaim.

"Oh!" Yan Nu watched for a few moments before jumping down from the willow tree. She excitedly told Song Dai: "The son of the king of men is finally about to be conceived." You have to become a real man. Congratulations!"

"Son of the King of Men?" At first, Song Dai was a little puzzled. But as a human king and a wise general, he quickly understood what he was referring to. He asked Yan Nu with surprise on his face: "Is it true?" The boss and Ning Xiao are going to have children? ”

"Huh?" Yan Nu also heard it vaguely for a while. In an instant, she knew what Song Dai meant, so she quickly nodded and said, "Of course it's true!" The purple yang true qi emitted by the thunderstorm that day would only appear if the king was conceived. Right now, apart from the villain king, I really can't think of any other king who can exude this kind of purple yang true qi when he is pregnant!" Take a hundred plating to read the latest chapter of "The Last Days: The Fairy Wife Rampant Claw Book House" for free for the first time.