"I can't imagine that you were so naughty when you were young, and you did so many things, but at that time you were innocent." He Yuhe listened to her talk about the things that happened in her childhood, whether it was really fun, but unfortunately, her childhood was not as wonderful as her childhood.

Although she grew up in this impoverished environment, for her, it did not affect her childhood at all, even if she grew up in such an environment, her childhood was colorful and enviable.

Although she said that her environment was very good, but her childhood was not as wonderful as hers, after all, at that time, thinking about it, she was a little hard, and she spent every day in learning, either learning or training.

Anyway, at that time, I really didn't know how to get through it, and many times I wanted to run away from home and experience life, because they told themselves more about what kind of life they wanted in the future and how hard they had to work now.

Many times when they say these things to themselves, they will arouse their rebellious psychology, and sometimes they are thinking, simply don't learn these things themselves, and go out to experience life directly.

Only when I have personally experienced life, do I know what real life is, they say so much, I can't understand it, just listen to them one by one, how complicated the outside society is, if you want to live a better life, only rely on today's efforts.

Like them, their childhood was so colorful, even at this time, I sound envious.

However, many things cannot be compared, even their own family environment is good, but they do not have as colorful childhood as theirs, and on the contrary, although they grew up in a poor orphanage, the environment is very bitter in all aspects, but their childhood is colorful and happy at the same time.

"Then looking back now, it's still good to be a child, childhood was carefree, you don't have to think about anything, it's like now, it seems that there are a lot of troubles, and you can't finish worrying about anything." At that time, as long as some eat and some play, the others will not think too much about it at all, and they will not have to worry about anything else.

At that time, I looked forward to growing up soon, leaving here soon, making a lot of money, and improving my life here. Although this goal has arrived, it has not changed much, but when I was really embarrassed, I realized that I was really not as good as I was in childhood when I grew up.

"It's a must, and with the cost of growing up, so do the worries." He Yuhe, but at this point, he also feels that his childhood is good, carefree, and he doesn't have to think too much about anything, but after all, it has become a thing of the past, and now he has to face those troubles if he doesn't want to face them, after all, he can't escape them.

"It's because the more troubles I have, that's why I miss the good things of my childhood." If your current life can be as carefree as your childhood, how can you miss the good things of your childhood?

"In fact, compared with your childhood, my childhood was not as wonderful as yours, and now this kind of childhood is actually quite good, many of which I envy." After all, at that time, although it was a family environment, all aspects were very good, and there was nothing missing.

I can't be so carefree, my own people are always forcing me to study, it's this interest class, it's that interest class, so for myself, it seems that I was studying all my childhood, and nothing fun happened.

Although I can understand that my family members want their son to become a Chan mentality, they want to learn more by themselves, and they want to lose to others at the starting line, but they don't stand in their own perspective at all, think about themselves, don't think about whether this is what they want, what kind of childhood they want to live, and never ask for their own opinions, just blindly add their ideas to themselves, let themselves continue to learn, and then compare with the people around them.

Every time they meet, they always say how smart their children are, how many points they scored in exams, anyway, at that time, they couldn't escape such a fate, in addition to studying in school, there were a lot of interest classes waiting for them when they got home.

In contrast, their childhood was carefree, with the ability to do what they wanted and a host of recreational activities in addition to studying. But for myself, these are really out of reach.

Shu Yixin listened quietly to him and said those things in his childhood. I've never heard him mention it to myself before, and I don't know how his childhood came about, how it is different from himself, since I have already talked about this topic at this time, but I want to know how his childhood came about.

"Then how did you get your childhood, and how can you say that you will envy my childhood?" Shu Yixin is a little curious, how did he come over in his childhood, in fact, his childhood was very ordinary, most children came over like this, and he really didn't know which point was worthy of his envy.

"You could do what you wanted to do in your childhood, I don't know at that time, outside of school, there were a lot of interest classes waiting for me when I got home, and I didn't have the time or do these things." Now when I think of my childhood, I feel that if I have children in the future, I will never do this, and I will not deprive my children of the joy of childhood.

After all, I am also a person who has come over, so I know what they want, let them choose their own interest classes, and if they are interested, they will learn it, and if they don't, they will not force themselves.

If they do have the talent to do so, they will still be very good even if they don't need much training. But at present, I really don't want to impose my ideas on my children, I always feel that in addition to this interest class, that is the interest class, there is no private time for me, and it is impossible to do these things, which may be a waste of time in the eyes of parents, but in the eyes of children, it is their joy.

"Your family just hopes that you can learn a little more and not lose to other people at the starting line, and now many parents don't have such thoughts." After listening to his explanation, Shu Yixin was able to understand why his family arranged so many interest classes for him to study, but he didn't want his children to lose to others at the starting line.

Especially for a child from a wealthy family like him, his family has arranged a lot of interest classes, and ordinary children can't afford to go to interest classes at all, which may be too expensive.

With what he said, he can know that his family situation should be good. If you can afford to go to an interest class, the family will be worse, although I rarely heard him mention the situation at home, but from what he said, I can probably guess it.

Now as parents, they don't have such a mentality, and they don't want their children to lose at the starting line, so as long as they have the ability, they will try their best to provide a better learning environment for their children.

It's just that, from this point of view, these are just the hopes of parents, because they think they should do this, but they rarely really think about their children, and rarely ask their opinions, what kind of interests they have, and what kind of interest classes they want to attend.

Because they have already decided for themselves, they have already made up their minds about what kind of interest classes they will take. As a child, there is no choice at all, and there is only a compromise to face.

"It's just their wishful thinking, and they don't even ask if the child is interested in those interest classes, but they impose it." If you say that you are willing to go to these interest classes, the nature is completely different.

But more of it was forced by his family, and he didn't ask for his opinion, and he didn't ask if he wanted to go.

After listening to Shu Yixin, he also felt helpless, as a parent, he naturally hopes that his children can be more outstanding, and he can hope that his son will become a dragon and his daughter will become a phoenix.

Everyone's thoughts are different, as parents, there are parents' own considerations, and as children, there are also children's thoughts.

"They are only doing this for your own good, and they want you to learn more, but in fact, the essence is good, but they ignore your ideas." Blindly think that their children should learn more and can't tell other people's children, but forget to ask their own children if they are interested.

"When I grow up, I can understand this mentality, but for me, my childhood has long passed, and it can only become a regret." He Yuhe didn't say that he couldn't understand the mentality of his family, but he felt that as a parent, he shouldn't force his children too much.

"Your childhood became a regret, don't let your children become regrets in the future." Shu Yixin can only comfort him like this at this time, everyone's thoughts are different, and some people feel that they should study more when they are young.

"Hehe, really think of your ideas with my thoughts, I did think about it like this, in the future, my children, I will definitely not force them to go to this and that interest class, I will respect their opinions and let them choose for themselves." After all, his childhood was ruined by his own family, so he naturally didn't want his child's childhood to be ruined by himself.

At this time, as a person who has come over, I have thought about them from their point of view, if they are not sincere and do not particularly like it, then there is no need to force it.

After all, for everyone, childhood is only once, and the same time is not long, and there will be heavy homework after that. So you don't need to train more at the beginning, just follow your interests.

After listening to this, Shu Yixin smiled faintly and said softly, "Should your child be grateful to have an enlightened father like you." "What kind of parents have a great impact on children, after all, each one, the parents' education methods are different, so the children taught are naturally different.