Yin and yang cannot be reversed, and the main and secondary cannot be reversed!

Things have their beginnings and ends, things have always been there, and knowing the order is the shortest way!

Everything in the world is the main yang and the second yin, this is the rule of heaven and earth, there is no way to change things, if it is forcibly changed, then there will be an imbalance!

Put it on people's bodies, it is the male protagonist and female vice! The two are indispensable, and there is nothing unfair about them, it's just that the position of their respective attributes is different!

The so-called realization of equality between men and women is only to seek a kind of mutual respect, not extreme equality. If it is really necessary to artificially change the innate conditions to achieve equality between men and women, change yin and yang, and change the attributes of yang and yang, yin and yin, then all contradictions will continue to arise, and disputes will continue, and it will not be stable!

If men and women are absolutely equal, there will be no women in society, and women will not be courteous in everything they do!

If there is no courtesy, there will be an absolute separation system, and all friends will not have a man to treat, but a man and a woman must AA system.

Everything will turn out to be fair. If a man insults a woman, or harasses a woman, the law will sanction the man according to fairness! In turn, women who harass men need to be sanctioned, only in this way can they act fairly!

During the period when a woman is in love with a man, there can also be no unfair demand that the man must meet the needs of the woman, and this kind of deranged yin and yang thing is extremely detrimental to the subordinate.

[I Ching] Confucian interpretation; Tianxingjian, the gentleman is self-improving, the terrain is kun, and the gentleman is virtuous!

If you insist on occupying the main position, women must fundamentally complete the change of the main position, that is: self-improvement and virtue. Otherwise, it is still a subordinate, and no matter how many needs and requirements there are, it cannot be fundamentally changed!

What is self-improvement? That is, you don't need to rely on others, everything you need must be earned by your own hard work.

For example, in marriage, women are not allowed to ask men to pay the majority, but to act fairly, each with half, and to treat their respective elders fairly, not to be slightly biased, such a big change is extremely unfavorable to the main position, and the deputy position, this is to change the two extreme states of yin and yang in China, and become yin and yang!

In the ancient Yin Shang period, there were women as examples, Ping Ghost Fang, Dingqiang Fang, Tufang, Yi Fang, Ba Fang, and other barbarians! Repeated generals fought on the battlefield. He was appointed to preside over various sacrifices such as worshipping the heavens, ancestors, and sacred springs, and served as an official of divination! Its name is prosperous, and the women of Yin Shang are the most!

During the Northern and Southern Dynasties, there was a feat of Mulan serving in the army for her father!

At the time of the Tang Dynasty, there was Wu Zetian, known as the first empress of the ages!

During the Song Dynasty, there were female generals of the Yang family who fought on the battlefield!

There are also many women in literature.

At the time of reform and opening up, there were countless female martyrs, all of whom were praised!

Therefore, since ancient times, there has never been a rule that women are inferior to men, and there is no injustice in heaven and earth.

But people fight for a breath, and Buddha fights for a stick of incense. If you want to be recognized for your social status, you have to fight for yourself! You need to do the main position from the deputy position first in order to enjoy the treatment of the main position!

If you blindly occupy a subordinate position and keep asking for the fruit of the main position, it is impossible, and you will be spurned by others!

People are like this, and things are like this, if the main and secondary are reversed, then there will be a lot of pseudo-magic, confusing people's eyes, hearts and minds, so that disputes are continuous!

This is what the yin position, the subposition must have if it wants to be the main position!

I once heard such a thing, there is a very famous public figure, donated a lot of places, built a lot of schools, and remained obscure, until he was discovered and became a good person in the public, but his kindness did not always usher in good things, and also encountered some bad things.

An unknown person sent a message through the Internet saying that he needed treatment, asked for 1 million treatment expenses, and named him for help, and the reason was that since this person had done so many good deeds to help others, why couldn't he help himself.

When I look at the public sentiment and various comments, I find that there are a lot of people who think that there is nothing wrong with doing this and needing help.

These are all deceived by pseudo-magic, and the reversal of yin and yang!

This is a common trick used by hypocrites!

Those who coerce others for good, impose their own desires and make others do it, hide evil!

The first thing that needs to be analyzed is the first point, a person who helps others and does good deeds, helping is superfluous kindness, not helping is the will of duty, there is nothing wrong with either, and the initiative is in your own hands, there is nothing wrong with helping or not!

However, after this person appears, he threatens others to do good deeds in the name of doing good deeds, which invisibly converts other people's initiative into passive power, and turns this person's yang position, main position, into yin position, and secondary position.

And this one who called for help seized the initiative. The kind people who are called for help have become passive, they didn't want to help before, they didn't want to help, they were not at fault, they did as they pleased, but now they have to help according to the wishes of others, otherwise they will be blamed!

This vicious trick should be spurned by us!

This kind of wrong behavior, the person who wants to coerce others to help others in order to harm others in order to satisfy himself is a hypocritical and selfish evil person. Many people can't distinguish between superficial things, and they are reversed from the shadows, and after the main and deputy are transferred, they will be confused and become accomplices without knowing it!

This is the practice of secretly changing the main and secondary and reversing yin and yang!

The avenue is everywhere, and every little thing around you will let you see the operation of the avenue clearly.

In people's daily life communication, there are often various contradictions due to the fact that some main and secondary positions are not distinguished, and sometimes ordinary communication, some people use a similar tone of command to communicate, which makes people feel bored and derives a series of contradictions.

Two employees working in the same system, an old employee and a young employee, should communicate in an equal tone, but some people always like to put themselves in the main position to order others, which leads to conflicts.

For example, if a colleague forgets to take something, the usual tone should be

"Hello, I forgot something just now, can you please help me get it back?" ’

And some people like to change the relationship of equality and communicate with the relationship between the upper and lower levels

'I forgot something, you go and give it to me!' ’

The meaning is the same, but the tone expression has invisibly become the main and secondary relationship, so when they hear it in other people's ears, they will feel bored, and disputes will arise from this!

Because in an equal relationship, when you shouldn't have the main and secondary, you have the main and secondary, yin and yang, at this time, it will make others feel that their dignity is suppressed, so your intuition will guide you and make you feel bored, but because many people can't find the reason for the secret transformation, and they are bored, at this time the contradictions and disputes will arise because of the bad handling of the tone!

The symbiosis of yin and yang is maintained because of the balance, but during the balance period, the main and secondary are wrongly derived, which is also the origin of the contradiction!

Now that this rule has been discovered, how do you resolve it?

[Tao Te Ching] once said: Good is like water, water is indisputable!

The way to run the rules in the world is to take the initiative to give up the main position, which seems to be let out, but in fact, it is a rule way to retreat into advance!

If a colleague accidentally touches your things while you're working with, the normal and equal tone should be

'You've knocked my stuff off, you need to pick it up for me again!' ’

Such a blunt and cold tone, although balanced, is not the right way to get along with people!

Try to let the initiative go

'Hello, you accidentally touched my thing just now, can you please help me pick it up?' Thank you! ’

Many people think that this is just some polite or well-educated practices, in fact, the deep meaning is to give the initiative to others to others, and the initiative to lift will make many people happy, after all, there are still very few people who do not know how to lift and have no education. And after taking the initiative to give up, others will have a good impression of you, and you will improve your self-cultivation and upbringing.

We Chinese call this upbringing, cultivation, or being able to speak and understand accidents. In fact, it is to master the process of transferring between the main and vice, and to retreat into advance!

In the high-level civilized society, the ubiquitous operation and implementation of the rules of heaven and earth, while in the low-level human civilization in the West, it is difficult for you to see this kind of rule running, sometimes you give the initiative to him, he directly accepts and thinks that this is the way it should be, this kind of person is called the third type of people in the high-level civilized society, and they are usually fools who are not treated anywhere!

Sometimes we politely give the initiative to others, in fact, everyone knows in their hearts that the real initiative is still in their own hands, and they are only given superficial vanity and real respect. But this third type of people will only think that they really take the initiative and others occupy the passive, and then do a big thing, but they don't know that behind them is a ridicule!

The operating rules of the Chinese are that there is yang in yin and yin in yang, but the main and secondary transformations perform their own duties, and they cannot see the root cause, and only understand that people and groups on the surface can only be called rudimentary civilization!

In many cases, some contradictions seem to be small, but what makes people insist on exchanging their lives is not things, but the relationship of equality is invisibly transformed into passive, and is not respected.

Try to give the initiative to others, in fact, the initiative is still in your hands, but you will get far more rewards than forcing the person to take the initiative!

If you understand the rules for running transformations, you can do things without hindrance.

Even if you can't, you don't want to be a stupid person of the third type, let alone a person who does things of equal dignity and make things the main and secondary things, these are all things that deviate from the rules, and if you deviate from the rules, you will be punished, and the consequences will definitely come back to you.

This is all a definite number of karmic reincarnation!