Chapter 339: Separated

"War, for human beings, has accompanied the development of civilization from the moment it was born to this day. Suffice it to say, human beings created civilization and at the same time destroyed it with war. Is this just the fate of mankind? ”

"Once we enter the years of peace, mankind will reminisce about the past, remember the blood and fire of those years: remember the war, and watch for peace. However, whether war can finally solve all contradictions is still the ultimate thinking of mankind today and tomorrow!"

So, by analogy, what contradiction does the war to resolve resolve in the war of annihilation? Is it human, or yin, or the ...... of the divine realm? When we think about how to deal with it, should we also think about its roots......"

Cheng Ziyang is still giving a wonderful speech on the stage, bringing the god kings, god generals, gods and so on into the mystery of war.

However, at this time, Ning Xiao was no longer in the mood to listen to his lectures. Because her space received a transmission note from the Demon Realm.

"Master, master," apparently, this is the voice of the system. It seems that the system has learned nine times out of ten about this part of her talisman. "Please come to the Demon Realm. There is a demon who wants to compete for the throne of the demon king. ”

"Oh!" In this way, Ning Xiao's brows had to be furrowed, and he couldn't stretch for a while.

It's time to separate from Cheng Ziyang again, but this time, what should she say?

Someone once did such an experiment, forcibly separating the mother monkey from the baby monkey. At this point, the baby monkey curled up in a corner of the cage, as if begging the experimenters not to let it be separated from its mother. Such a sad scene made even the test personnel themselves sad.

In fact, humans, who have become social mammals, are just as vulnerable as baby monkeys when faced with separation.

However, separation is inevitable. From death and divorce to taking a break from work, friends, and children to go on vacation. Unfortunately, few people have the opportunity to learn how to say goodbye.

In the moment of separation, people tend to be very clumsy. Some hide this clumsiness behind a superficial shyness: "I don't like to say goodbye, so I won't go to the station." Others simply hide behind a rude attitude: "Let's not be like little women, so be it, see you later!" Still others were even in tears and overwhelmed. In fact, the last type of people are braver than the first two.

In the fairy tale "The Little Prince" of Country F, the fox meets the little prince and begs the little prince to tame himself: "If you tame me, it will be like the sun that illuminates my life." I would understand that there is a footstep sound that is unique. The sound of other footsteps frightened me and scared me into a burrow. Yours is like music, calling me out of the hole. I don't eat bread. ”

"Wheat doesn't mean anything to me. But if you domesticate me, the wheat fields will also be beautiful! Because these golden wheat fields will remind me of your blonde hair......"

So, the little prince domesticated the fox. In an instant, the scene of separation arrived, which was a scene that moved many readers in the world.

"Oh," said the fox, "I'll cry." ”

"That's your fault," said the little prince, "I didn't want to make you sad, but you insisted that I domesticate you......"

"Yes, it's exactly like you said." The fox said.

"It turned out that it didn't do you any good!" The little prince said.

"I got the benefit," said the fox, "because of the color of the wheat field." ”

In fact, when you want to leave your beloved, the most sad thing for people should be that you are not sad! This means that you are not spending an important time with him or her. So, the fox taught people a wonderful way to say goodbye: to say their sadness and tell the other person that they would reserve a place in their hearts for him (her).

This simple solution will make the other person feel that the relationship will always exist, transcending time and space.

When Ning Xiao wanted to entrust the villain king, who already knew the world, to Song Dai and the others for the first time, before saying goodbye to the villain king, she told the villain king very clearly - they would continue to stay in each other's hearts:

"We're all sad when we're not together. When you think about your mother, think about what your mother would say to you if she was by your side. ”

"You'll say 'I love you.'"

"Yes! So, I will always be with you and talk to you in your heart. You will always be in my heart too. ”

In fact, this is exactly the same method used by the scientist who invented modern hypnosis.

When a patient is anxious about facing a challenge alone, the scientist reminds him or her: "When you're anxious,

Think of my voice, it will always be with you......"

Due to the accumulation of these, Ning Xiao will not be at a loss when facing another separation from Cheng Ziyang.

"I really don't want to be separated from you!" She's talking. "If I had known this, I shouldn't have come to this god realm to be a god general? It's better to stay in the human world and be a good wife and mother!"

"Poof!" Cheng Ziyang, who was a little unhappy, couldn't help but laugh out loud when he heard this. "When you become a good wife and mother, you will complain that I have wasted your sky-high endowment."

"I'm going to miss you!" Ning Xiao hugged Cheng Ziyang. "When you think about me, think more about what I tell you. When I miss you, so do you!"

"Okay, I'll listen to you!" Cheng Ziyang kissed Ning Xiao's chattering red lips.

The gods and generals who were watching from the side couldn't dodge for a while. They didn't expect that this guy, who had been a husband and wife for so long, would dare to scatter dog food all over the ground in broad daylight.

In the divine realm, for a long time, the gods always believed that loving husbands and wives were husbands and wives, and they fought together. Obviously, they ignore the realm of complementarity, respect and distance between husband and wife. In fact, these are the three most important points to maintain the love of husband and wife.

Many guys want their husbands and wives to have common interests, hobbies and similar personalities, thinking that this will lead to a deeper relationship. In fact, harmony may deepen the relationship between husband and wife.

After Li Qingzhao, a female lyricist in ancient China, and Zhao Mingcheng, a goldsmith and stone scholar, became married, they found that the two were very different in hobbies and temperaments. However, because they can take the initiative to take care of each other and use their interests and hobbies to influence each other, they have obtained more common languages, so that the good story of husband and wife love has been passed down for thousands of years.

Of course, no matter how good a couple is, conflicts will inevitably occur. This creates a distance between husband and wife.

This distance is not necessarily a bad thing. In many cases, quarrels and complaints are just another expression of love, like adding oil, salt, sauce and vinegar to life.

There was once an old gentleman who was addicted to smoking during his lifetime, and his wife's repeated persuasion was ineffective, so the two sides quarreled. There is a distance between husband and wife. However, his wife did not give up her efforts because of this, but every time the old man bought cigarettes, she saved the money equivalent to cigarettes. When the accumulated money was considerable, she took the money to the old gentleman and persuaded him again.

As a result, the old gentleman was greatly moved and finally quit smoking completely. As a result, the love between husband and wife has been further deepened. This phenomenon is called opposite.

The distance between husband and wife seems to be "opposite" at first glance, but in essence it is "mutually beneficial", and it is also a "mutual accompaniment" at a higher level.

……

Regarding Cheng Ziyang's discussion on the relationship between husband and wife, the gods and generals scoffed. For no reason, except for Ning Xiao, the other six of the seven gods are about to cultivate the "old bachelor" into gods.

Fortunately, this is in the god realm, you can live forever, and you don't need heirs to reproduce the bloodline, plus there is also the banner of the god king fluttering in the wind ahead, if it is in the human world, I am afraid that it has already been filled into a sea by the spit of those trivial women.

It was finally time for the human king to leave the divine realm. The God King even came to send him off in person.

"Brother," the god-king, who had become accustomed to being called the king of men, was instructed. "After listening to your lectures these days, I was stunned. It seems that your human realm is quite well prepared for the war of annihilation. ”

"So, I'm sorry for you to worry a lot about my god realm. After all, the arrogance of these immortals has become a habit, ignoring the natural law that there is heaven outside the sky. If you don't give them something to lose, they will never know how fierce the enemy will be in the battle to destroy the world. ”

"Big brother, you're too worried," the king replied with a smile. "To say that you have made very adequate preparations for the battle of the destruction of the world, except for your god realm, only Yin Si remains. You know, most of the old guys who survived the previous battle of destruction are located in the two of you. Therefore, no matter how prepared we are in the human world, it is impossible to achieve the perfection of your divine realm. ”

"Big brother, the Divine Realm has been managed very well by you. I have to learn from you. Therefore, we should still do our respective responsibilities as kings and take care of your and my interface. In this way, I will be worthy of the Father's entrustment!"

"Brother is right," the God-King didn't have much to say. "Then you and I will meet later!"