053 Recruit son-in-law
Gao Zhao saw that she was laughing with joy, and he was also laughing.
Say this, it is estimated that whoever listens here has to think that it is a big rebellion, she doesn't care, anyway, this is what she thinks, other things can be done, just this can't, it's a big deal to recruit a door-to-door son-in-law, I heard that door-to-door sons-in-law are afraid to take concubines, since there is no love and monogamy, it is better to recruit a son-in-law, the conditions are almost, at least I don't hold my breath.
She thought that Jia Xibei was in the capital, and anyway, there would be no intersection in the future, how could a woman run around after she got married? So she also babbled nonsense, telling the truth through jokes.
"Sister Jia, don't laugh, let me tell you, you'd better make it clear before you get married, it's better to let him write a letter of guarantee, if you want to write that he wants to take a concubine in the future, let him go out of the house, that is, give you all the family property, and give you the child, let him get out of the house, and then you have enough property to support the child, and it is enough to recruit a son-in-law, live happily, and then be angry with him, hum!"
Jasibe looked at her last hum, and she was still angry, I don't know if I thought she had encountered such a thing.
"Haha! I said Sister Zhao, where did you hear this, who told you this, haha, laughed at me! β
Gao Zhao blinked, it was broken, he pouted, he didn't care about her, just say it, it's not a big deal, and he won't marry into her family.
"Who else should tell this, there was a concubine in the county who forced the original partner to death for a concubine, and where, a few years ago, there was a distant cousin who was trying to accept and run over, and he was still a widow, for the widow, the mother didn't listen to the mother's words, and the child didn't want it, that person was going to be thirty, his mother was reasonable, and said to his daughter-in-law, and said to his son, if he dared to accept it, he would step on the mother's body, but he didn't admit it, but he bought a small house outside to live with the widow's cousin, and didn't give the family a copper coin, you said that if you meet such a thing, you will die of disgust."
Jasibe became interested and asked, "Where did you come?" β
"The original partner went to the house every month to ask for family silver, cried all the way back, and gave her few pieces of dowry jewelry, the pawnshop looked at her pitiful, and gave a lot of silver, his mother went to her son and scolded her, but it was useless."
"Isn't the original partner too pitiful, doesn't he have a son?"
"There are two sons and a daughter, and the widow's cousin is also pregnant, and the man doesn't come home, guess what?" Gao Zhao asked hatefully.
Jasibe looked at her and said, "Must it be that he divorced his wife and married that widow's cousin?" β
"A year later, the original partner went to the yamen to sue her husband for abandoning her family and children, demanding that she be renounced and take away her two sons and one daughter, hey! Fortunately, this original partner is not a weak one, just before that went to the door to ask for silver for this day, our county order sentenced the righteousness on the spot and never said anything, and agreed that the original partner took the child, and the man was also happy to marry the widow, but he was so girly that he went directly to live with his daughter-in-law and grandson, saying that if it wasn't for the grandson, she would have no face to live. β
Jasibe is strange, there is such a mother-in-law? Usually they are more biased towards their own sons.
Gao Zhao explained to her: "That mother-in-law's parents died, and her brother and sister-in-law raised her, and then she gave birth to a son, her husband was gone, and it was her brother and sister-in-law who helped her, and she also promised her daughter to her sister-in-law's only son, who was the original match, so the mother-in-law said that her son had no conscience like this, but she couldn't have no conscience, she couldn't live with her brother and sister-in-law, she couldn't live with her niece and daughter-in-law, and the widow's cousin was a distant relative of her husband's side, she must be looking for her niece, not to mention that there are two grandchildren, and then the mother-in-law found the clan and divided the family property into three parts. She only left one copy for her son, and she took the two copies with her niece, and then followed her niece and grandson. β
"And now?"
Gao Zhao sighed, "Later, the widow's cousin gave birth to a girl and did not have another child, the man regretted it, and wanted to find his ex-wife and son after divorce, but the widow's cousin was not a good stubble, and directly held the girl and put the knife on his neck, saying that he dared to divorce his wife, and she died together, this was last year, the county was in an uproar, and they all scolded him for deserving it, and his good home was gone, so he still ran to his ex-wife from time to time to see his son, but the son was respectful to him on the surface, and he didn't recognize this father in his heart, This is what my younger brother said when he came back, and he has a son who is the same age as my younger brother. β
Jia Xibei also said hatefully: "Yes, you shouldn't recognize him, it's better not to have such a father, pity the original partner and children." β
"Yes, later the mother-in-law and niece did needlework for people, but also for the grandson to study, save money, my mother is soft-hearted, always put me in small clothes to her family, the county neighbors also help, whoever wants to do needlework to find her family, in fact, even if the widow's cousin can give birth to a son, the man also regrets it, they are all neighbors, the county is so big, no one will pay attention to him in the future, and some people spit when they see him walking by, after a long time, he can not regret it."
Jia Xibei said: "So you think that not taking a concubine is the most important thing?" β
"Don't you think it's important?" Gao Zhao asked her rhetorically, she didn't believe that any little lady would not care about this.
Jasibe thought for a while and said, "I haven't thought about this problem, almost all the families I have seen have concubines, just my family, my father, my grandfather, and my brother. β
"Would your grandmother do it? And your mother, your sister-in-law, them? β
"How do I know if I want to? Anyway, my mother asked my sister-in-law to be virtuous, and I had to find someone who served my brother well, but I knew that my mother was very annoyed with my father's aunts, saying that they were always demons, and that one of my sisters-in-law was a younger sister, and my mother looked down on it, saying that my father was partial, and always reprimanded me, favoring those two sisters-in-law. β
Gao Zhaoyi clapped his hands and said: "Then it's okay, it must be annoying, the husband will give half of it to others, and he has to help raise someone who is not born by himself, so who is not bothered?" In the future, when you get married, can you give your husband a concubine with joy? Treat the concubine as if he were his own child? If you can do it, I'll convince you! β
Jia Xibei slapped the kang table and said hatefully: "Wait to go!" I'm not that virtuous! Sister Zhao, I will also learn from you, say hello before getting married, write a letter of guarantee, if you regret it in the future, I will also take the child back to her parents' house! No, I don't go back to my parents' house, my mother will definitely persuade me, I have my own dowry house, I will take my children to live, and I will also recruit a son-in-law, so let his children recognize others as fathers, and be angry with his family. β
Gao Zhao was curious, I don't know what the background of Jia Xibei's fiancΓ© is, "What's your family like?" β
Jasibe squirmed, "I can't say it yet, but you'll know in the future." β
Gao Zhao pouted, will this be protected? It seems that she is a duplicitous little lady again, and she is full of people in her heart, but she says that she annoys him to death.
She didn't know that Jasibe was really not so awkward, she just didn't want to reveal her identity.