After Shu Yixin listened to his words, the whole person was a little stunned, after all, he didn't think that he would say such a thing, and asked himself not to treat him as an outsider, but as a friend. I also admit that sometimes I will be really polite, after all, I always feel that the relationship between me and him is not so close, even if it is so close, he will not do it so much for himself, and he should be polite.

But he didn't think of his so-called politeness, in his opinion, he didn't like it at all. So when he said this, he was a little stunned.

In his opinion, his polite approach was his least favorite. He didn't like that he was so polite to him, and wanted to be straightforward with him. Every time I refuse his kindness, it won't hurt him very much.

After listening to his words, Shu Yixin hesitated for a while before he said lightly, "Okay, I know it's all my fault, and I will definitely try to correct it next time." "The reason why I am polite is because I don't know his bottom line, and I can't really treat him as an object that I can rely on for everything.

In fact, there is another point, that is, I am afraid, if I have him to rely on it, my heart will have a dependent psychology, when something happens, the first thing I think about is him, and he is the one who is in trouble, in fact, I don't want my life to become like this, I want to be the same as before, I can deal with it myself, try to deal with it myself, don't trouble others.

Because since I was a child, I know clearly that no one can always be my dependence, and I can be reliable for a lifetime. When you understand this truth, you will learn to rely on your own ability, not to rely on others, and not to think that someone can rely on, so you will be lazy and so on.

It's because I've grown up and I'm used to this way of life, so I still have this mentality, as long as others want to ask for help, I will subconsciously refuse, feeling that I can't develop such a dependent mentality.

Although he thinks from his own point of view, he forgets to think from the perspective of others, what kind of feelings he will feel in the future if he can hear such words.

Will people think that you are very false and hypocritical when you talk like this, and when you need help, you should be generous and generous, instead of hiding like this. Besides, it is not such a shameful thing to need the help of others, there are always things that need help from others, and it is impossible for you to do everything.

He Yuhe feels that sometimes it is appropriate to contact the help of others, and don't take the so-called self-esteem so high, in fact, there is really nothing. People always need help from others, and no matter how strong you are, you can't be perfect.

"You want to say you have a lot of self-esteem? You are still reckless, your own abilities are limited, but you are not willing to rely on others. He Yuhe is honest, sometimes I really can't figure out what she thinks, and even has an urge to dig out her head to see what the combination inside looks like.

She can be her dependence, but she has never wanted to rely on herself. Even if she simply wants to send her home, she has to push back, refuse herself, and if she is not stronger, she can only let her go back alone.

No matter how strong she is, she is a girl, she will feel tired, she will feel hard, and she wants to find someone to rely on. Even herself will not be her eternal dependence, at least for the time being, she can still rely on it, but she avoids herself.

So many times I don't know, what she thinks, is it really that difficult to rely on herself? Occasionally show weakness in front of herself, so what, doesn't she know that she really treats her as a friend? Do you still think about what benefits you will ask for in him? Will you be that kind of person?

"I know you want to be nice to me and help me, but I don't want to be a burden to you, after all, you also know that I am an orphan, and it may be a big burden for you, and I can't help you with anything." After Shu Yixin hesitated for a while, he still said what was in his heart, after all, he really thought so.

From beginning to end, he has not forgotten that he is an orphan, he is really worried about himself, such an identity will bring him trouble and bring him a burden, he can treat himself like this, he is already very grateful, and the other self really dare not be too extravagant.

All the while, as long as you think about yourself, try not to cause trouble for others, it's fine. How can other selves think so much, it's not that they hold their so-called self-esteem high and are unwilling to accept help from others.

It's because you have other considerations and your own ideas, after all, everyone's thoughts are different, so you have to understand your intentions.

"Even if you are an orphan, so what, I said, because you are an orphan, will it be a burden to me?" When He Yuhe got to this point, his tone might be a little heavy, after all, he was really a little angry.

Because from beginning to end, he never disliked the identity of the other party as an orphan, even if it was an orphan, so what, he didn't care at all, and he never thought about what trouble the other party would bring to him. At present, he wants the other party to find him some trouble, but the other party is very conscious and will not give him any trouble.

has never disliked the identity of the other party, but the other party has always had a kind of mentality about his identity, and always feels that he is different from other people, is it because of this fact that her thoughts are different from normal people?

In the end, she is the same as a normal person, and she should not put those things on her heart and become a burden on herself.

"Aren't you worried that I'm like the other orphans, trying to hold on to you and not let go? When the time comes, you won't be able to get rid of me if you want to. Isn't that what a lot of people think? I feel like an orphan, as long as I can find support, I will cling to death and hold on to it.

"You're not like them, I didn't think of you that way from the beginning to the end, and I'm sure you won't either." He Yuhe does not deny that there is really such a type of person in the world, but she in front of her does not belong to this category.

If she is this kind of person, she has long avoided her, how can she be so close to her, it is because she clearly knows that she is not that kind of person, and she has always been worried that she will bring trouble to herself, so she has repeatedly refused her help.

Shu Yixin looked at him with grateful eyes, his tone was a little choked, and he said gently, "Thank you for not putting me in that category, I am indeed very happy to hear you say this." From what he said, he could probably guess that he really wanted to be good to himself.

Maybe I have always been prejudiced against him before, and I always feel that I don't want to cause him trouble, don't think about having a friend like him, and rely on him for everything.

In fact, he was right, sometimes he shouldn't have rejected him like this, he was just kind enough. Doing this on his own can sometimes really hurt his self-esteem.

Every time he thought about himself, but he didn't think about her, he was kind and wanted to help him, but he rejected him every time, which made him feel very hurt. This is my own fault, at least people are also kind, and they really want to help themselves.

"You know, I'm not going to put you in the same category as them, because you're not like them in the first place." He Yuhe still has this self-confidence, believes in himself, and will not be wrong in looking at people.

"You know what, you can trust me like that, and make me feel like it's really nice that you deny that feeling." It may be because since I was a child, I have been accustomed to others and look at myself with colored eyes.

So subconsciously, put up your own protective umbrella and don't let others get close to you easily. And because I am afraid of getting hurt, it is safest for me to do this, to avoid myself being hurt, and to avoid causing harm to others.

"You should try to believe me, we've been in contact for a while, don't you know what kind of person I am? If there is something I am willing to share with you, it is because I believe in you, so the reverse is the same, and you should also believe that I will not do this to you. "Maybe there is indeed a bit of a gap between myself and his identity, but this does not affect the friendship between them.

"Well, I'll try to correct it." Maybe he's right, he's different from everyone else, and he shouldn't be treated the way other people treat him.

Or you should stand in other perspectives and think about him, if you keep doing this and treat him in other people's ways, he will definitely be hurt, and in the end he will stay away from himself. In fact, in the face of such a result, it is not what I want.

She should open her heart, she shouldn't alienate herself, and don't think that she will bring trouble to herself or something, if it is really a friend who is not worried about herself, she brings trouble to herself, and there is really any problem that cannot be solved.

"Well, I'm looking forward to your change, I really don't want you to treat me like before, in fact, my words have been made very clear, you can really treat me as a good friend, don't guard against me, because I won't hurt you." He Yuhe actually couldn't figure out why he was so special to her, but this was what he wanted to do from the bottom of his heart.