The little body pities the sound of thousands of families, and hides the joy and sorrow hole.

Who is not afraid of the morning and sunset, but I wish to leave my real name.

- "Sending Love to the Trumpet Flower with Feelings"

There is nothing more terrible in the world than being able to be a parent and an elder without taking exams. The elders often say that "rules are rules, and the rules left by the ancestors are the ones you have to abide by", but in fact, many people don't know where the graves of the ancestors are, but they often chant the rules left by the ancestors, which has violated the original intention of the ancestors.

In fact, everyone at this time in the future can become the "ancestor" of a certain clan, for future generations, the mistakes made by the ancestors, should they continue to be borne by future generations, for these impersonal rules, isn't it just to break? But how can the elders listen to your sophistry, in their eyes you are just sick in the brain and risk the world's disapproval, they will also say as they please, anyway, they think that the elders should have privileges, but filial piety or ethics are often two or more generations to abide by, if only the younger generations are restrained and the ancestors are indulged, is this different from dictatorship? Or the younger generations know that the ancestors are wrong but don't know how to explain it, this is not the first unfilial piety in the three major unfilial pieties, "the ancestors are wrong and don't say it", but this is useful, and what is the strength of the elders, but nothing can be changed.

I finally know what some parents want, compared to real filial piety, they want to show off in front of outsiders, so I am guilty of a big unfilial piety, because I will only cause trouble for my parents. once sent three ** expressions to my mother, but I was nagged by my mother all morning; Yesterday I blackened myself again, "Oh mom, it's getting uglier and uglier", my mother saw it and damaged me for most of the night, although my mother is very open, but some places don't like jokes, this is the difference in values between parents and children!

People in the current society are obviously deeply affected, but they do not admit it, but they want to save face and suffer the crime. Some people say that the responsibility of changing the world is handed over to the rebellious post-90s and post-00s, because only the rebellious ones have the bloody nature of men who shuffle the world and change bad habits, which is also the biggest achievement that can be achieved after the emergence of the post-90s and post-00s, I am lucky that I am a 90 person, and I am sad that I am an incompetent post-90s.

The Creator created the world in six days, and thankfully, He quietly made one thing, and that is ...... Love. "Love" is a thing that can not be seen or touched but can be truly felt, it can make every dry heart have a sweet river again, and it can also make the world a better place. It's just that loving someone shouldn't make them be themselves and be the best version of themselves? But at the moment, being the best version of oneself seems to be a heinous thing, not only relatives and friends will say, relatives will also scold, and eventually relatives and friends will leave one after another, and relatives will also ridicule and look down on them, what is this! It was originally a good thing, but it was misinterpreted into the biggest guilt by the upper platform, and it was really tiring to be a countryman, and I really didn't love abiding by this red tape.

Some parents are too conformist, or even too stupid, and they regard "no future as great" as more important than their own happiness and their own life. But what is the end of the way they spend all their energy building everything for future generations? Many descendants are not as good as dogs, but they are just mixed well. But as elders, they are happy, because they feel that they have completed the things that their ancestors have explained to them, and they regard it as a kind of pride in life to die to save face and suffer crimes, but why do they now bow their heads and cry, cry cowardly to outsiders, and cry with a handful of snot and tears. Don't scold me, I'm a teenager like a dog.

Note: Mencius said: "There are three unfilial pieties, and no queen is the greatest." Shun married without telling him, and he had no queen. The gentleman thought it was too much. In fact, the original meaning of "no queen" is "failure to fulfill the responsibilities of the juniors". It was the Han Zhao Qi who misinterpreted the meaning of "no queen". The "Commentary on the Thirteen Classics" written by him expounded his understanding of this passage of Mencius: "There are three things about unfilial piety in Yuli, which is called Ayi's obedience, trapping relatives and unrighteousness, and one is not filial; The family is poor and old, not for Lu Shi, and the second is not filial; Don't marry and have no children, never worship ancestors, and don't be filial. Among the three, no one is the greatest. It was he who understood "no queen is great" as not marrying a wife and having children, and cutting off offspring as the third kind of unfilial piety, and Mencius just took the blame.

If I have a child and kick the silver-haired parents aside and don't let them live with me, I will have a future, but is it in line with filial piety, Confucian culture values the spirit of filial piety. Nowadays, how many people refuse to live with their parents although they have "queens", and according to the ancient culture, these people will be executed sooner or later. Because in ancient times, those who beat and scolded their parents, were not filial to their parents, and even killed their parents to be executed. Forget, giving birth to a girl was also called "no queen" in ancient times.