"Master, where is Kaoru and his father?"

Gao Wenlin was also stunned, accepting this apprentice was purely shoehorned in, he always saw that Mr. Jia was not a good person, and he didn't treat Wu Changliang as an apprentice, so he didn't think to ask about it. ◢ with ◢ dream ◢ small ◢ .lā

That's right, how can anyone accept an apprentice who doesn't see other people's parents and doesn't say it, and doesn't know about the apprentice's parents.

"I don't know, I have to ask Mr. Jia, I didn't think about it, I regarded him as the Jia family, and it is strange to say, why is it all the Jia family? Mr. Jia, Mrs. Jia, Mrs. Jia, Wang Jiaerlang or Mr. Jia's grandson-in-law, I didn't hear Mr. Jia say much about his father, it's strange, and it's not an orphan, I was also negligent, I didn't think to ask at all. ”

"I only remembered it in the past two days, and I was going to ask Mrs. Jia, but she returned to Beijing."

"Well, I'll ask tomorrow."

Jia House.

After reading a letter, Mr. Jia sighed one after another, went to his nephew's yard, and said to his nephew: "Changliang, my cousin will rush back to Beijing early tomorrow morning, and a good friend my cousin made in Beijing at the beginning has passed away, and my cousin has to go to mourn, alas! The family is not good, the son is gone, and the only grandson will not be able to go next year, the cousin has to arrange it, and he can help a little, that person is good, otherwise the cousin can't have a relationship with him for decades, but he is too old-fashioned and has few friends. ”

Mr. Jia didn't expect his nephew to speak, sighed a few words, and told his nephew to rest early and go out.

He had just returned to his house when he saw his granddaughter Jia coming in, "Something?" Out of money? ”

Jia Xibei hesitated for a long time, and Mr. Jia saw the strange situation and asked, "What's wrong?" ”

"Grandfather, I'm most afraid that Sister Zhao will ask me."

Mr. Jia raised his eyebrows, "What did I ask you?" ”

"Last time I asked if my surname was fake, true or false, and said that there was an attempt on her family, I swore that I had no bad intentions for the Gao family, Sister Zhao didn't think about it elsewhere, it was over, today I asked Xiao Maruko's cousin whose family it is, Xiao Maruko said that I don't let her say it, Sister Zhao was angry, and said that she hated people to deceive her the most."

Mr. Jia smiled, thinking that the children were vindictive, "Then how do you explain it?" ”

"I said that the affairs of my aunt's and grandmother's family are complicated, and we have not allowed them to talk about it since we were young."

"That's right, how can you say anything about the royal family."

"Sister Zhao also said that not giving her any more gifts would put her in a position of injustice, grandfather, what does this mean? Why did she be unrighteous when I gave her a gift? ”

Mr. Jia was stunned, he didn't expect the eldest lady of the Gao family to be able to say this question.

He didn't know how to explain it to his granddaughter before she could understand.

After thinking about it, he said: "Xibei, you know the words Shengmien and Doumiqiu. ”

Jasibe nodded and said, "I know, but I just don't understand, why did I become an enemy?" ”

"When others need it, give help, others will appreciate your kindness, if you give too much help to others, form a habit, from gratitude to take it for granted, once you don't help, the other party will resent you, so that in the end it becomes an enemy."

"What is the injustice that Sister Zhao said?"

"If you are on the side being helped, and your help makes her greedy, makes her change, and finally creates a situation of enmity, then your actions become unjust for her, and she doesn't want to be like this in the future, because you often give gifts and make her unkind. There is a reason for the hatred of the rice, the one who gives the rice is also responsible, and the one who receives it is also responsible, this is human nature, the original nature of human beings is good, why has it changed later, there are many reasons, you must say why the person who helps is wrong? You gave Sister Zhao as a good friend with joy, the little lady of the Xue family, you will never give it, right? ”

Jia Xibei nodded and said, "Yes, I see that the Gao family needs it, and I am willing to give it." ”

"The Gao family needs a lot of things, but the Gao family doesn't expect to be in vain, you will give this, and every time you buy something in the past, as I just said, develop habits and dependence, you don't give it and resent it, and there is another kind of is, originally we were equal friends, you have money is yours, I didn't want to take advantage of you, but you always give me gifts that I can't afford to repay, I am unequal in front of you, you are the giver, I am the recipient, but I don't want to accept it all the time, embarrassed, your giving has slowly become the reason for me to hate you."

Jia Xibei sighed: "No wonder Sister Zhao said that the person who pays the bill is happy, she always doesn't let me give her things to her family, I think she is embarrassed." ”

"Xibei, between people is you come and go, in order to be long, this you come and go not necessarily refers to objects, but, often most of them are expressed through objects, you must feel that what you send is not something you bother to do, if you take great pains to get it, you will definitely not give it away, right?"

"Yes, I also told Sister Zhao, don't be too polite and take it to heart, I don't care, I'm willing to send it."

"Yes, for you, and for others? The hand stove you gave to the aunt of the Gao family, they don't understand, if they know, they will not dare to use it, how many houses can be bought in Wucheng County, which is unbearable for the Gao family, barely bearable, people will be under pressure, this is also the reason why I conceal the identity of our family, concealing our family is just to hide the identity of your cousin, otherwise what do I Jia Hongguang have to hide? I'm just a sheep herding baby from the countryside of Datong Mansion. ”

Mr. Jia smiled self-deprecatingly, put away his smile and pondered again.

"Xibei, my grandfather told you that when you make friends, you should choose what you can get, and you must choose what you can benefit from, and this benefit is not material money, but thoughts, so that you can grow and get harvest. There is a saying that if you are diligent and lazy, you must be lazy if you are not lazy; If you are lazy, you will be diligent if you are not diligent. People will be influenced by the people around them, the children of the family are better than ordinary people in the teaching of their children and grandchildren, they have a family heritage of hundreds of years, they are very careful when their children and grandchildren grow up, that is, the people who serve are carefully selected, except for a very few crooked people, the vast majority of the growth is benign, what your friends are, what you are, what you are. Friends will influence each other, it is very important to choose your own friends, you will be happy with happy people, just like you said to play with the lady of the Gao family, you like it very much, and you will become excellent with excellent people, it is a truth. ”

Jasibe listened to his grandfather's teachings and understood his grandfather's words.

"Go back, grandfather should also think about it, is grandfather doing this right? Not necessarily! Mr. Jia shook his head, frowned, and sighed again.

Jasibe didn't understand what his grandfather said, but he didn't dare to ask, he bowed and retired, walked out, looked back, and his grandfather picked up the pen and struggled to write, this is what happened to her grandfather, she didn't know what happened....