Chapter 201 Sister-in-law is there a time when people are particularly moved

"Don't rush, take your time, communicate more, understand more, and vent more!" "The most important thing is to believe! Be confident! ”

Yan Mofeng looked at Luo Ze, furrowed his brows, and looked entangled. BR > on mobile phones

"I know it's hard for you, because every belief leaves you bruised," Roze said. When you are in high school, you believe in your classmates, and your classmates will take away all your entrepreneurial funds. When I was in college, I believed in Li Manqing, and she stabbed you in the heart. Therefore, you are accustomed to the saying that it is indispensable to defend against others, and you build a wall in your own heart, so that others can't get in, and you can't get out.

But that cold wall makes you uncomfortable, and you crave warmth, you crave light. You gradually leaned towards your sister-in-law, you were warmed, and you cared more and more about this feeling.

Because you care, you are even more insecure, and you are afraid that you will not be able to hold it. You become sensitive, you are afraid of change. The slightest thing can irritate you. On the one hand, you can't suppress your temper, and on the other hand, you care about your sister-in-law's mood, you can only self-regulate, the two thoughts are constantly fighting in your mind, on the one hand, you want to break out, and on the other hand, you are afraid that your sister-in-law will be hurt. ”

"Yes, I'm in this state right now." Yan Mofeng agreed.

"So, I'll give you a counseling plan next, and you need to insist on cooperating every day!" Roze said.

"Hmm." Yan Mofeng responded.

"First of all, I have three big requirements for you, first, at any time, believe in sister-in-law!" Roze said.

Yan Mofeng frowned: "If I can do it, what do I come to you for?" I don't know if I should trust her? Reason is one thing, emotion is another. I saw the photo of Lin Nuofan hugging her, I saw the call record between her and Lin Nuofan, I saw the text message of Lin Nuofan calling her Xiaoyu, I heard her call my full name, I was going crazy, my mind was full of messy thoughts, I had no way to control myself at all. ”

Luo Ze reached out and touched his nose, and said with a smile: "I will give you a tip." ”

"Hmm." Yan Mofeng responded coldly.

"The second requirement, you have to be confident!" Roze said.

"I can't control it, I don't think I'm not confident." Yan Mofeng said.

Luo Ze touched his nose helplessly again, and said, "The third request, you must communicate with your sister-in-law." ”

Yan Mofeng glared at Luo Ze: "Don't you see that I already have a communication barrier now?" ”

Luo Ze stretched out his hand and touched his nose again, and said: "Regarding believing, once you are stimulated by your senses, you can't fully trust your sister-in-law, and when you are worried that your relationship will change because of her, you use examples to give psychological hints to yourself. ”

"What example?" Yan Mofeng asked.

"Sister-in-law, is there a time when you are particularly moved?" Luo Ze asked.

"Yes!" Yan Mofeng said.

"What if?" Luo Ze asked.

Yan Mofeng said: "She will take the initiative to hug me and take the initiative to hold my hand!" ”

"Well, this is an example of this, when you are disturbed by the outside world and can't trust her, you think about how she takes the initiative to hug you." Roze said.

Yan Mofeng's expression really eased a lot.

Luo Ze asked again: "What else?" ”

Yan Mofeng said: "When I told her some of my past, she was distressed. At that moment, I was very moved. ”

"Okay, that's the second case, what else?"

"I was touched when she gave me a bouquet of fruit flowers with a note saying that she wished us happiness and sweetness."

"Okay, the third case, what else?"

"I was touched when I drove the car almost up and she cried out that there were still many things she hadn't done with me, that she hadn't cooked for me, that she hadn't peeled pineapples for me, and I asked her if she wanted to do these things for me, and she answered in the affirmative."

"Very well, the fourth case, what else? You think slowly, I will record all the examples and compile them into a book, and you will read them every day. ”

"Hmm."

“……”

"She personally designed the zodiac Huanglongyu for you, and also created a surprise for you, which is the fifth case."

"She thought it was something very important to you, and she deliberately found a craftsman to repair it, which is the sixth case."

“……”

"The second requirement is about self-confidence. Once you find that you have an inferiority complex because of introspection or too much concern about your sister-in-law, you must strive to see the advantages of your body and the shining places. Roze said.

Yan Mofeng frowned: "What if?" ”

Luo Ze said: "You start a business from scratch! Here's the plus! You don't have those warblers around you, that's a plus! You have a high degree of education, which is a plus! You know five foreign languages, which is a plus! You are gentle and considerate to your sister-in-law, which is an advantage! You have the wealth of a country that is unrivaled, and that's the merit...... Ouch, I can't count anymore, and if I keep counting, I'll have a disease called inferiority. Remember? Once you have an inferiority complex, you use these advantages to defeat it and defeat it! ”

"Hmm." Yan Mofeng responded.

Luo Ze laughed and said: "There is another effective way. ”

"Huh?"

"Compare the law. If you use the virtues I mentioned to get along with Lin Nuofan, you will find that you have no reason not to be confident. You started your own business, he is a second ancestor. You don't have any Yingying Yanyan by your side, he is already Su Rong's husband, and he still splits his legs......"

Yan Mofeng listened carefully.

Luo Ze raised his eyebrows and smiled: "Okay, let's solve the third problem now, communication, communication is not quarrel, of course, communication can quarrel, communication must be effective, effective communication starts with identity." No matter what your sister-in-law says, you try to make yourself identify with her. You don't think of her as your wife and beloved woman......"

"So what?" Yan Mofeng frowned.

"You treat her as your client, if it's a client, or an ordinary client, how do you communicate with her? I believe that you have a very good means to deal with customers, otherwise, there will be no Qingfeng and Chenlang Industry, and there will be no Tianyong International. Human beings need space, and in reality, the space of the environment, that is, the hard space, also needs the soft space of software, that is, the space of feelings and psychology. If you stare too closely, people will suffocate, like you said cage birds, no bird wants to live in a cage, and the same is true for people, no one wants to live a life that is too restrictive. ”

"I don't understand!" Yan Mofeng said.

Luo Ze reached out and touched his nose again, and said with a smile: "To put it simply, you want to let her go." ”

"Ran away?" Yan Mofeng's brows tightened, "I'm emotionally hurt again?" ”

Luo Ze laughed: "Those who can run are not real lovers!" ”

"Fart!" Yan Mofeng burst into foul language.

"Haha!" Luo Ze laughed, "Okay, this is the end of today's psychological counseling, don't forget to transfer the consultation fee to my account, I will go to your company to see you tomorrow, and I will accept the results." Remember three sentences and believe in sister-in-law! Be confident! To communicate, effective communication starts with recognition and treats her as a customer. ”

"Hmm." Yan Mofeng responded.

"Stay with me?" Luo Ze asked.

"I'll go back!" Yan Mofeng said.

"It's one o'clock in the morning." Luo Ze reminded.

"It doesn't matter, I have the key." Yan Mofeng got up and walked out.

After doing psychological counseling, playing a sandbag, and shouting loudly to vent, people are indeed much more comfortable.

Greeted by the starlight, he drove back to the villa.

After taking a shower and returning to the room, he saw Tang Qianyu tired of being quiet in bed, and his heart moved.