Few people know that a woman's life, before becoming a mother, contains a highly sensitive communication energy and instinctive love of the heart. This potential for sleep can only be awakened by frequent contact with the baby as a mother; Babies rely on "yunxi" and natural life energy to wake up their mothers, and then rely on the connection with their mothers to build bridges with the outside world.

The ability to connect with the mother is the key to the quality of a child's life. This opportunity is equally important for the mother and the child, and once lost, the anxiety will follow the child and the mother for the rest of their lives.

From birth, the infant needs strong attachment, possession, integration with the mother, relying on the mother to respond to all its biological needs - hunger, pain, comfort and emotional needs - fear, anxiety, joy, curiosity, experiencing feelings for the mother, and thus developing trust and security in people.

In the first few months, the whole of a baby's life seems to be concentrated in two places: the mouth and the gang. Such a state allows the mother-baby connection to focus more on physical care. When the baby's body is in a situation, such as pulling, urinating or being uncomfortable, whether the mother can respond to his body in a timely manner, and whether this response can be sustained, good and positive, will determine whether the child and the mother have an attachment relationship.

In fact, it is on the basis of this attachment relationship that people build the earliest psychological foundation, emotional foundation, and self-worth foundation. It is crucial that care for the body derives and develops the basis of the child's relationship with people, and derives trust in the world.

Therefore, when a toddler makes a cry of need, many mothers will think that it is nothing for the toddler, do not respond, or even be impatient. The most direct result of this non-response is the lack of touch and ci ji to the child's bodily senses, and at the same time leads to a lack of other systems developed by this ci ji. Such a state is the beginning of a person's growth problems.

On the other hand, there is the separation of mother and child in the process of establishing an attachment relationship, which can make the child anxious. If the child leaves his mother at the age of a few months, he has to regain his or her identity as a "mother" and he loses the person with whom he is naturally connected. This is something that the child cannot understand. In fact, it will make the child experience a psychological abandonment. When the child finds his "mother" again in fear and anxiety, the sense of security that has just been established is taken away again, and the child feels abandoned again.

These all sow the seeds of misfortune for the child's future, which is also the beginning of a person's life and chaos at the beginning.

It may be that such a concept will make similar mothers feel guilty and painful, but it is still necessary to present such a fact and warn every mother: do not abandon your child like this, let your child attach to you, spend a lot of time with him, touch him, make him laugh in games, until you can instantly perceive his heart with your heart.

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This is the first page of the Parenting Encyclopedia. However, Ning Xiao only read this page and felt that he was about to collapse. She touched the Divine General's Order, which was already getting more and more red, and the fear that rose from her heart became more and more intense.

Knowing this, why did she need to cultivate any immortals and become gods in the first place? She had never regretted the path of cultivating immortals she had walked like she did today.

At this moment, the child is by her side. In order to adapt to the unfamiliar environment, he is also doing his best. However, he was so weak. The normal behavior of newborns reflected in his body is worrying about mothers.

Whether it was the weakness of sucking or the congestion of her nose for a moment, it was causing her deep unease. Let her always imagine the worst-case scenario.

In this way, the child grew up day by day in her worries, learned to smile in her dreams, and gained weight rapidly. Every time he touches his face, he caresses you softly with his little hands. Looking at his well-behaved appearance, Ning Xiao had long forgotten the characteristics of a bear child he showed in his belly.

And so, time passed inappropriately in the daily thriving feeding. Ning Xiao also found happiness and satisfaction in the increasing giving. In the early morning, the drying rack is full of colorful children's clothes. At night, I savored the quiet appearance of my son's sleep. She knew that it was a special kind of love, and it made her feel that life was long.

The child snuggles up in her arms, which reminds her of many things and forgets more pain. In the end, Ning Xiao thought of the mother who had no husband in her previous life and raised herself independently. It was only now that she truly understood the hardships and pains of that mother.

"Shaw!" Picking up her lovely son from her arms, Cheng Ziyang kissed him and asked. "The child's full moon wine, do you want to invite your parents to participate?"

"No," Ning Xiao shook his head in rejection. "They're also busy, and a lot of things in the Qilian base are enough for them to worry about."

"It's good!" Cheng Ziyang knew her true intentions, so he agreed. Because in this team belonging to the human race to organize the catastrophe, the ability is the first condition, and the high-level ability must be recruited and selected. Therefore, it is very difficult for the Ning family quadruplets to stay with their parents.

Now, in the name of organizing the team, it is to improve the level of Xiu Lian of the Ability. But in fact, once it is opened, those who can come back are nine deaths. Those in the know are trying to hide it. Ning Zongnan and his wife came to the capital for the full moon of their grandson, and if the truth was revealed, it wouldn't be their lives. Therefore, in addition to Ning Xiao, even when the quadruplets face them, they can try not to meet each other, so as not to worry about them when they get it......

Even Cheng Ziyang himself felt that he would feel very guilty and embarrassed when facing his parents-in-law.

"Ahh Just when Ning Xiao was about to discuss with his wife the other people who participated in the Full Moon Banquet, Lingwu suddenly appeared.

Lingwu is a rather nostalgic guy. The human king has returned to his throne, so he doesn't need his protection. When it learned that the Father was imprisoned at the Gate of the Abyss, it felt that it was better to accompany him. However, it did not wait for his father all the time, but became a paparazzi, running to the Three Realms to find out the news without incident, and then ran back to his father and told him. In this way, my father was happy and felt that life was good. It Lingwu also felt that he was amazing, and he could make his father happy.

No, he found out that the king and his wife were going to do a full moon wine for the villain, and immediately told his father. The Father pondered for a long time, and with a wave of his hand, he asked Lingwu to visit the Three Realms again.

"The Lord said," Lingwu took a breath and pecked at a little more ice seed. "The little master's full moon wine, he regrets that he can't participate, so he called the God King and the Yin King to join in the fun!"

"The King of God and the King of Yin have also agreed, and asked me to tell you! You have to treat them well!"

Finally finished conveying the words, it can peck at the ice seeds properly, without caring about the tender parents who are already frowning.

"How is this banquet arranged?" Ning Xiao was muttering to Cheng Ziyang. "One in the sky, one underground! The two groups of people can't see anyone!"

"That's not the hardest part!" Cheng Ziyang also said helplessly. "The hard thing is, how to make the wine and food over there? Are those guys in the god realm eating immortal peach and fairy wine, where can I get it? ”

Damn, this is no ordinary Alexander!

At this moment, the sleeping baby also woke up. However, this time he didn't alarm his parents, but looked at Lingwu and grinned, and danced with his hands.

Lingwu was also attracted by the child's lively appearance. It quietly approached, and whispered, "Little master, do you know me?" It's a pity that you're too small. Otherwise, I can fly with you everywhere. ”

"Wow!" I don't know if the little master understands its words, but his hands are clapping anyway. But the power is too small, and no matter how you shoot, you can't shoot the sound.

The distressed little couple, seeing their son's cute appearance, immediately burst into tears and laughed: Whatever, let's see the move! You have to greet the child first.

So, the little couple began to get busy for their son again: feeding the breastfeeding, changing the diaper and changing the diaper. The busy scene of a small family is presented in front of Lingwu.

What is home? Home is a grinding plate, smoothing out the ups and downs of the years, grinding in the personality of the family, and grinding out a warm and fragrant life every day; It is a story, and the story of a family is like the stars in the sky, there are too many to count, but each star is similar, and each star is different.

Home is also a truth, even if you have a family, you are rich, and if you don't have a family, you are still poor. The most pitiful person in the world is not without wealth, but homeless. Sometimes, home is more like a person, who doesn't feel anything when his limbs are able, and once he loses it, he immediately feels like he has lost a lot.

Just after Ling Wu sighed, he suddenly found that he had a very important piece of information that he forgot to tell Ning Xiao.

So, it flew to Ning Xiao, who had finished feeding the child and was patting the child to sleep, first pulled her with his mouth, and then looked at Cheng Ziyang, who was taking the laundry washed in the washing machine to the veranda to dry, before telling Ning Xiao in the smallest voice:

"The God King asked me to ask, why haven't you returned to the God Realm yet? If you delay it for a while, the collection order will be turned into divine power and you will be escorted back to the divine realm directly. You'll be embarrassed!"

"Hmm!" At this moment, Ning Xiao, who had just received warmth from his son, suddenly felt that his head hurt again.