Wei Zao'er went to her mother's place, and the two talked quietly.

"Mother, Mrs. Jia is here today, and the eldest lady is the same as usual, and my aunt is also kind to her, so I don't know why I bombed her out that day."

In the past few days, there is something in the main family, and the people who come will send them away, and the Wei Bai family is smarter than the daughter-in-law of the housekeeper Liu, and she also feels that something is wrong, although she doesn't dare to inquire, she also asks her daughter to pay attention.

The master's family is a good family, and she is also willing to be safe and sound at the master's home, and her only daughter is married to the son of Steward Liu, and her husband and wife have to follow the master to be stable.

"That's okay, Zao'er, you remember, the master's business, don't inquire, that pandan is a heart-eyed, you must pay attention to what you usually say, serving a good little lady is, when the little master grows up, you are using it in the master's house, the mother and Liu's mother are old, Xianglan Chunzhu is going to go with the eldest lady, the little lady hasn't bought the maid yet, and if she buys it, she will keep it for the future and take it away, you and the grassroots have become relatives, stay in the Gao family, but it's not your first so just work on the line, don't come to me in the future, Hurry back. ”

Wei Zao'er heard this and hurriedly got up and walked out, and before she opened the door, she heard the voice of the eldest lady, and their mother and daughter listened at the door, and it was the eldest lady who sent Mrs. Jia out.

When they went out, Wei Zao'er ran back to the second courtyard with a smoke.

Gao Zhao returned to his mother after sending Jia Xibei, and when he saw that his father had not yet gone to the yamen, he said that he would go to Jia's house tomorrow.

Mrs. Gang had already told Gao Wenlin, and he said that his daughter would go if she wanted to, and don't interfere too much with each other.

After this time, Gao Wenlin is relieved of his daughter, and there will be no such thing as not marrying him who is confused by a foreign man, that is, the marriage proposal of the princess's family, anyway, he has refused, who knows what will happen in the future, and he doesn't have that expectation, but now there is no need to treat people as a flood beast, so he didn't overwhelm people with power, and came to respect the wishes of the Gao family.

"Zhao'er can go if she wants to, why did Jia Niangzi recite the female ring today"

"Of course, if I don't recite it, I can forgive her, she is cheeky, as soon as I forgive her, she will rely on me and let me go to Jia's house to learn boxing and kicking with her, I promised before, and I told my mother to take Qiaoyun to go."

"You go to learn and forget it, don't bring Qiaoyun, the little lady should look like a little lady." The Jiang family is reluctant to let the younger daughter follow them to fool around, the eldest daughter can't take care of it, but the younger daughter is still young, and it is still too late to correct it.

Gao Zhaogang listened to Mr. Jia's remarks on the female ring from Jia Xibe, and figured it out, and felt that he should no longer hide from his mother what she thought, and he couldn't always coax his mother to talk, for so many years, his father coaxed his mother, and she also pretended to be crazy and stupid to obey her mother, so her mother didn't grow up.

"Mother, I will also carry the female ring, but what's the use of respecting in my heart, being kind to people is fundamental, not having to follow the female ring to be virtuous, Mr. Jia said that it is a man who has no ability to take a female ring to ask for a woman, my father didn't do it, so there is no need for my mother to think that the female ring is important."

Then Gao Zhao said what Mr. Jia said, saying that both men and women can do it, but the world is like this, but there is no need to let his daughter suffer.

Gao Wenlin agreed with Mr. Jia's words, he was not so bold to say it, although he knew that the world was like this, he didn't want his daughter to live with a female ring, so he let his daughter grow up freely, and always persuaded his wife not to ask for her daughter.

In fact, the Jiang family has a weak temperament, she is not an old-fashioned person, her mother's family can let her study is good, and reading is also according to the world, reading the fourth book of women, reading the female ring, but she did not grow up according to the rigid rules.

Marrying into the Gao family belongs to Gao Pan, she doesn't understand the situation in the door, they all say that the big family takes the female ring as a rule, and she takes the female ring as a very important one, but no one cares about her opinion, what should the father and daughter do, finally the younger daughter is obedient, she teaches her well, and cuts off the eldest daughter's beard.

This will listen to what her daughter said, or what Mr. Jia said, the Jiang family is confused, and she has always thought wrong

"Mother, you're not wrong, this world is unfair to women, but we women can't follow this unfairness, the truth has to be understood, the rules have to be known, and we have to adapt to the world, but we can't frame ourselves to death, without violating the rules of the general environment, how do you live a good life, I think Mr. Jia is a rare reasonable person, and he is about to catch up with my father."

Mr. Jia had to bring his father with him.

No, Gao Wenlin was comfortable listening to it, the most important thing is that he lived like this, and he never asked the female relatives of the family to do anything.

"Mother, let me give you an example, if I get married in the future, I will do it according to the female ring, but my mother-in-law is picky in every way, either to make rules or to serve her at night, and to take care of my husband's sister-in-law, I am tired and will die young, my mother is sorry for me, I still think that I am not good enough, my mother-in-law is picky, do I have to obey?"

Jiang's tears welled up, and he trembled and said, "Mother won't do that." ”

"But the female ring said that Gu Yun is not Er, but it is advisable to obey the order; Gu Yuner is not, it is better to obey orders. Don't disobey right and wrong, and fight for right and wrong. This is the so-called obedience. If the daughter-in-law must obey according to the female ring, will my mother let me and my sister have to do this?"

Jiang's tears fell out, and Gao Zhao swallowed what he wanted to say, could it be that my sister and I were born under the bed

Seeing her mother's tears, Gao Zhao stopped talking, she knew that her mother had never neglected her and her sister, she always wanted them to be virtuous according to the world, she had to say her thoughts, and she didn't have to hide it in the future, she always felt that it was for the good of the family.

But Gao Wenlin felt that his daughter was too much, he knew how his wife was, gentle and gentle, kind to his family, the eldest sister Dagui had been getting along well for many years, especially not long ago, the doctor said about his wife's body, he was a little resentful of why his daughter didn't say it to him so directly, and told him to let him talk to his wife slowly, so cold to say it, how uncomfortable it should be for his wife

"Zhao'er, apologize to your mother, you don't know how your mother treated you"

Gao Zhao saw his mother's lips trembling, and he also regretted it, saying that why did the female ring pull her mother, and her brain was iron.

She immediately knelt down in front of her mother and said, "Mother, I was wrong, I shouldn't have said that, Mother, my mother didn't treat me badly, I understand, I was confused with a female ring today." ”

Gao Wenlin hurriedly poured water for the Jiang family, and fed her a sip with a water cup.

Then he glared at his daughter and said, "Go back to the house and copy the female ring three times, and you are not allowed to eat until you finish copying." ”

When Gao Zhaotou saw his father reprimanding her like this in front of his mother, he also knew that he was reckless, so he quickly got up and went back to the house to be punished for taking the female ring.

Gao Wenlin coaxed his wife for a long time and went to his daughter's again.

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