Qian Yulan remembered what her uncle and grandmother said to her that time, so she picked something she didn't understand and asked Gao Zhao.

Gao Zhao understood as soon as he heard it, this old lady was a mirror in her heart, what she meant, Gao Zhao had heard Master Wu say something similar.

"Sister Qian, that means that you have a bottom line in your heart, a measure of life, be a good person but can't let others ask for it, whether it is in your mother's house or your mother-in-law's house, set a scale for yourself, for example, you will protect your mother's family in the future, but you can't contribute to yourself, if your mother's requirements are too much, more than the scale you set, you will refuse, in your mother-in-law's house, between husband and wife, but the most important thing is to protect yourself first, anyway, a few words can't be said clearly, you just remember to meet you and the children's big event, Choose what is good for you. ”

Looking at Qian Yulan still looking at her puzzled, Gao Zhao said metaphorically: "If your mother's family wants money, you have to think, I think about it within five taels, if you want ten taels, you will definitely not give a cent, your bottom line is to give five taels a year, if there is more, and if, Xianggong is good to you, you are good to him, and the two of them live a loving life, if Xianggong is partial to concubines and concubines, then you can't be intimate with him, just treat him as a long-term worker to support your mother and son, don't make trouble and leave, because your mother and son suffer more if you are separated from him, and your uncle and grandmother say this." , That is to say, you don't just think that your brother is pitiful, in the future, your brother will also be a brother, you can't leave it, it's better to be harmonious, but you also have to have a bottom line, that aunt is a safe one, you treat your brother as a younger brother like Yunying, the most important thing, your uncle and grandmother still want you to do things to see the overall situation, instead of staring at that small point, your uncle and grandmother understand too well, if you don't understand anything, ask her directly, she is in your house for half a year, it is good for you. ”

Qian Yulan nodded, remembering that her uncle and grandmother would always talk to her recently, so she would take the initiative to go to her grandmother in the future.

"And your fifth aunt's wife, don't they all say that she is a capable person of the Qian family, just ask her, I will tell you Sister Qian, you can have such an elder to teach, don't be strong in everything, don't be shy, just ask if you don't understand, this is a knowledge that can't be bought."

"Thank you, Sister Zhao, every time I talk to you, my heart is open, I will, I will ask my uncle and grandmother in the future."

When Qian Yulan left, Gao Zhao recalled what her master had told her in her previous life.

In her previous life, in addition to her grandmother, what she missed most was the master, who taught her the master of Wing Chun, when she was hired as a handyman in the martial arts hall, cleaning, tidying up the practice room, and later the master saw that she was interested, and knew that she was an orphan.

Coincidentally, the master is also surnamed Wu, with a pungent temperament, very similar to Uncle Wu, so she loved to be close to Uncle Wu next door when she was a child, Master Wu and her husband are brothers and sisters, but the master's family is poor, and his father is also a martial artist, and he can only recuperate at home if he is injured.

After Gao Zhao worked, he didn't understand, and he also asked the master, why he didn't divorce and continue to live such a life, the master sighed and said: "Your master is fine except for this problem, everything else is fine, he has no less help in my mother's family, that is, my younger brother went to college to marry a daughter-in-law, I give money to the family Your master never said anything, not because he did those things guiltily he agreed to let me help his mother's family, and he is such a person, good to me and children, but when he turned around, he got carried away, and saw that the woman couldn't walk, if you young people would definitely be divorced and not with him, Right? “

Gao Zhao nodded and said, "That's so breathless, you can't forgive him if you cheat." ”

Master Wu smiled bitterly, "What can I do if I get divorced?" Hold this martial arts gym with your own children? And my parents also have to help me more, that is, my father's medicine every year, your master will buy it back, I am also angry with him for this problem, I beat him when I am angry, and he will not fight back, but, people can't be rash, to do something powerful to themselves, I am not your young girl, if you can't get along, you can divide it, it's a big deal to find another one, I can't find it better than your master, the child is still suffering, I still have to wear the hat of the second marriage in the in-law's house to be low, don't marry, I am more tired of this family, and now the in-laws are because of the shortcomings of their son, I was kind to Yan Yuese, and also reached out to help my mother's family, my father was hospitalized or something, it was my in-laws looking for a relationship to find someone, and gave my mother's family a lot of things every year, so I also wanted to open, what love is the only one, but I can't withstand the difficulties of life. ”

The young Gao Zhao didn't understand very much, to say that the master was out of the flowers, but he was very good to his family and children, and the master and the master were also harmonious when they were fair, that is, the master had to give the master a chain palm or a chain leg in a year, in fact, the master also had kung fu, but he couldn't fight back.

"Your father-in-law is pretty good, no matter what, put the family first, we have a senior brother, who was also married to his junior sister, more than ten years have passed, and there is no one outside, who abandons his family and children, and goes happily with money and successors, his ex-wife and children don't care at all, and the children are sick and mothers have to borrow money everywhere. When you are young, you naturally think that love is the most important thing, and for us, life is the most important thing. ”

Gao Zhao was thinking that I just went to ask for food and didn't live with such a husband, maybe I was alone, my grandmother had passed away at that time, if my grandmother was alive, for my grandmother, she would also be like what the master said, nothing can help my grandmother live a good life, and I guess I won't put love as the only standard, and I will choose to do what is most beneficial to myself.

"So, no matter what happens, don't be rash, think about it before and after, and choose the side that is best for you, especially you."

Gao Zhao knew the meaning of her master's words, especially since she had no family and relatives, and she was alone in this society, so she had to pay more attention. She thanked Master Wu for teaching her carefully as if she were her own child, she missed her so much, I don't know how she is doing now, the little junior brother is also married and has children.

And the Qian family's Aunt Liu must have also chosen the aspect that is beneficial to her, she lost her father and mother and went to her uncle, if her father's relatives can tolerate it, ancient women generally will not defect to the maternal family, because the father's side will not be willing, in order to occupy a little land, she can marry her niece indiscriminately, and her uncle proposed to let her be a concubine for her cousin-in-law, is she also helpless? Don't say that she agrees to offend her uncle's family, her future is in her uncle's house, an orphan girl marries a farmer, what will happen without the support of her mother's family, she knows in her heart, what if her mother still has the support of her uncle? It is not excluded that I have had enough hard life, and I want to live a good life without material shortage.

Maybe she also has a stomach full of pain that she can't say, no one is her, and she can't empathize with her.