"They actually know me and don't do anything to really hurt me, but it's possible that they're pointing fingers behind my back, and some people will even play with that kind of vegetable leaf or something to hit me, in fact, that feeling is really quite broken, feeling as if you really haven't done anything wrong, but it's like everything, the reason is in your feelings."

I really want to empathize with this matter, he has really encountered too many things, but after seeing the wounds of the Qiao family, he couldn't help but rejoice in his heart, fortunately his arm is fine. Fortunately, there were no stubborn violent elements among the people she met, and they would not really cause any harm to his life, otherwise he couldn't imagine the real consequences.

In this world, there are really many things that we can't think of, but what we can do is only four words, with a clear conscience.

"Actually, in fact, we are under a lot of pressure to be public figures, and this aspect is more than others can say."

Teacher Wang spoke slowly, and the people around him also listened carefully.

"Of course, in fact, you include Jiajia, Qiao Jia, you are some examples of the kind of ordinary people, but I am not saying here that ordinary people are necessarily safe, just like ordinary people like us stars, in fact, they are high-risk groups, and then in this regard, we are not only physically victimized, but also many times by the spiritual I said this, in fact, you don't think I'm really laughing."

Ten is very serious about transmitting these suggestions, after all, he is in the circle, the magic tower has been rolling for so many years, and he has actually suffered the same thing a long time ago, but, although it hurts the top, it really hurts psychologically.

"It's that celebrities are oppressed by all sides, they are actually easy to make a group of depression with a high incidence of depression, and there is no star in history before, or they are forced to be slandered by pressure from all sides, and then mom, there are actually a lot of people who commit suicide in various situations."

So, how do you avoid this? I think the most important thing is that we need to calm down our mentality, and we should try not to care about those things, those people's malicious insults or whatever, of course, I know what I'm talking about now? Try not to care, it actually sounds ridiculous, because after all, others scold you, how can you go? If you really don't go, then we will learn not to look at it, because the evil language in your imagination is often not as good as the tears that people scold you, and the scolding of you will only be more vicious, there is nothing he can't do, only what you can't think of, so how to avoid it? In fact, you don't think about it, don't look at it. ”

Brother Yang also nodded at this time, thinking of those things before him.

"I really feel this kind of thing, and then before I first became the host, when everyone said that at the beginning, I actually really cared, and at the beginning, I actually really liked you, hated you all kinds of remarks, I was very concerned, and then every point was summarized very seriously, but then you will actually find that there are a lot of similar bars."

"What you can do, what you can't, what kind of situation are we? In fact, they can all do it in their world, and they don't need a reason to discuss it, and whoever wants to scold can scold. ”

What Brother Xiao Yang said is actually a very important point, in fact, people inevitably have this effect, that is, if you like a person, he does something that you hate, you may subconsciously go with a filter, but another point is that if you really hate a person, then there is nothing wrong with him doing some things, but you just hate you, and it is clear that there is no reason to hate the group.

Moreover, if he commits a very small vinegar, then you will magnify his mistake infinitely in your mind.

But some people will control this point of their own, and some people will not be able to take their ignorance as their own wisdom, and their little wisdom as great wisdom, and they will be complacent, not knowing what they are enjoying all day long.

"Actually, I don't watch it either, because I know they're going to do something to me, and that's inevitable."

Li Qian, smiling faintly, in fact, she really didn't look at those things, because in the previous life, he had already learned to block those things automatically.

A lot of times on the rooster, in fact, it is important, but you also have to learn to improve your psychological defense, the heavier the attack you encounter, the more you have to thicken your defense, instead of blindly retreating, and finally, let yourself have a psychological breakdown.

He had always felt that he could not strengthen his defenses, so he learned, just don't look at those things, ignore them, and he doesn't know.

It sounds a bit like covering your ears and stealing the bell, but losing is undoubtedly a way for you to protect yourself.

It doesn't matter what kind of beginning and ending it is, it's okay if the ending is important.

"In fact, at the beginning, I would also read some negative comments on the Internet, but in fact, many times I will find that many people on it are even if you just post a beautiful photo of yourself, there will be a lot of people below who will attack you, saying that you are sending selfies, that is, all kinds of things, they can think of all kinds of things."

You know this in your dormitory, not because of this life, but because of the events of the previous life.

"Yes, this is actually the wisest way to do it, what we need is to be very correct, very rational to protect yourself, you feel that you may not be able to control it, then you should learn slowly, don't look at those things."

Teacher Wang said with a smile.

"Actually, there is another point that is ours, that is, this variety show, after it is broadcast, there will definitely be a lot of trolls, and then he will say all kinds of things, we are just going to sit here and tell them now, they don't have to scold how ugly? We don't look at it, I don't know, we let them punch the cotton, and it won't do anything, because after all, they are some trolls in the Internet, what kind of impact does it actually have on us, so we really don't need to care too much. ”

Li Qian: Today, Mr. Wang laughed instantly at the theory that trolls were angry.

"Mr. Wang, when I was doing the show before, I occasionally heard someone say that you would encounter some similar situations before, so apart from your cold treatment, if you don't watch it, what kind of actions will you have in private?"

Brother Xiao Yang said seriously, like a host, asking questions, probably because of his professional reasons, the way he spoke was always so different.

"Of course there will be, but in fact, basically my agent, he will tell me a word at the time, because he knows that I will not go to see it, and in the later stage, he will tell me that some of your online people are scolding your mother are some of the more important remarks, and it will single out and tell me, that is, I am going to deal with it like this, and then how do you deal with it? Do you think that's the right way to deal with it? ”

"My agent, he's actually a very democratic, that is, I think he's just like me, but he's also very democratic, when he deals with some things with me, she will first ask my opinion, what do I think? What about him, what do you think? Then the two of us went to restrain each other. ”

Mr. Wang said this, in fact, there are many, many reasons for his success, and it is also because of his agent, because of his agent, so he is very, very experienced in many, many aspects, and has democracy.

"Actually, this form, I think it's actually quite good, and it also lies in the kind of relationship between two people, how about a good relationship, a good relationship? In fact, it is really important, that is, personality problems, in fact, there are also. Some people's personalities may be naturally stronger, and some people's personalities, in fact, are a lot of times a little bit unidea-free, so these two people are more compatible, and two assertive people, they can ask each other for advice, that is, all kinds of people have to restrain each other, and then respect each other. ”

Brother Xiao Yang said his opinion.

The way people get along with each other is actually not replicable, some people live between two people, because of their respective living habits, their own personalities, and even the relationship between two people, all aspects of the problem may have different ways of getting along, this can not be copied, because of the differences, so, everyone and everyone is different, what we should do is to adapt to each other, restrain each other, and understand each other.

After this episode of the show was broadcast, it was really hotly discussed by netizens, as for whether it served the original purpose of this show? At this time, everyone actually couldn't understand whether it caused some heated discussions.

"I feel that this episode of the show is a brainwashing show, is it possible to say that all the bad ones have become trolls? Is it all black? ”

"This is a variety show that opposes online violence and brings cyber violence into real life, is it necessary to be so serious?"

"But don't you have a little heartache when you see that little bit of the young lady's wound? In the entire program group, they even wore short-sleeved suspenders, but only this young lady has always worn long-sleeved, isn't she hot in summer? ”

"Why do people always think of other people's pain as if they were other people's plays?"

"I really feel sorry for that young lady, he just announced that he had taken off his fans, and he didn't go to any black, and at that time, he also explained in Weibo that he was just going to lose his fans for personal reasons, but now she is being used by those extreme fans and agents for various reasons, which causes her to look like this now, which is really super distressing!"

"Is it really wrong to like someone? There is nothing wrong with liking someone, but we need to learn to stop liking celebrities, they also have their own private lives, they have their own privacy, we can't interfere too much, we just need to learn to appreciate it in front of the camera. ”

"In fact, aside from anything else, some people on the Internet talk really too much, they just can't wait to curse other people's families, and this kind of person doesn't know if it's distorted or what?"

"There are really a lot of steel bars, in fact, I feel very sorry for these stars, they feel like Brother Xiao Yang and Teacher Wang, and I didn't expect that they would be subjected to all kinds of intimidation and the like."

"It doesn't matter if this show is a brainwashing show or not? But it tells the truth, some are more refined, don't take it out of context, what is she? Just say two sentences, not two sentences of facts, you won't be happy, you just say I'm a troll, didn't say anything in the whole process of the unveiling? It's just that those who use their extreme emotions to insult those malicious curses, all kinds of very hateful and very touching the bottom line of remarks, I believe that this kind of remarks are put on ordinary people, they can't bear it, right? ”

"If you say this upstairs, there may be trolls saying that they are stars, they are not ordinary people, since they have chosen this profession, they must learn to endure the pressure in this regard."

"Some antisperm is really terrible, celebrities, they have chosen, whether it is filming or singing, they have chosen a profession in this regard, rather than choosing the abuse of public opinion in this regard."

"It seems that this show is very successful, since you haven't discussed the appearance of these little sisters and little brothers."

"Of course, appearance is a big point of discussion, really when I saw that reporter Xiao An come out, I was instantly stunned! Although it may not be as beautiful as when I wear makeup, my skin is a little dull when I really don't wear makeup, probably because I stayed up late last night, and there is really no acne scar! ”

"Maybe the biggest regret of this show is that I didn't see Li Qian's makeup!"

"Miss Qiao Jia looks very cute without makeup! Although she didn't see the whole face, she kept covering the lower half of her face, which was really cute. ”

"Of course, I can't lack Brother Yang's abdominal muscles! Really handsome! ”

"Are you bullying Mr. Wang, an old man over half a hundred years old is not handsome enough, not beautiful enough, not fashionable enough?"

"Take away my teacher Wang, we won't make an appointment!"

"I feel that Li Qian doesn't have a little star in private, and he and his roommates are crazily changing papers in the room, and they also come out to ask about Mr. Wang's appearance, which is really cute."

"Upstairs said something wrong, it's not about changing the paper at all, it's about writing the paper, okay? I heard that Miss Li Qian is also a scholar! The latest chapter of "Rebirth of the Queen: Mr. Li's Wife Addicted Claw Book House" is free to read for the first time.