We are all superfluous people in the world, but at least we are important to each other.

---- Zhu Hao

At the end of the summer semester of the freshman year, according to the school's practice, we have to move from the Yingshuidao campus to the main campus of Balitai School, reassign the dormitory, and Xiao Beizi and Yue'er are assigned to 401, and the three of us will depend on each other for three years after college.

Xiao Beizi, a typical two-dimensional girl, spends all day wandering around anime, station B (bilibili) and YY, occasionally chasing dramas, Qiao Political Commissar (Qiao Zhenyu), an old cadre in the big house, and King Kaikai (Wang Kai) in the second room. Lovers of Chinese culture will wander around the campus wearing various styles of Hanfu, and the topic of conversation will never be separated from concerts and thunderbolt puppet shows. This is a typical post-90s generation, who spend most of their time immersed in their own world and can't extricate themselves.

Compared with Xiao Beizi, Yue'er's life trajectories and I may intersect more, and we are little ants who want to be positive at different levels and in different worlds.

Yue'er is one of the luckiest of us. Solid family background, only daughter, enjoy all the love of her parents, her parents are high-level intellectuals in business, the family will go to different places to enjoy life every year, go to Harbin for skiing in winter, go to Kenting in summer, and exchange in Seoul for the semester, as long as her parents are free, they will go to South Korea to accompany her, such warmth and harmony is the luxury that many girls dream of. But Yue'er is different from the delicate rich girl, she lives a very down-to-earth life, for example, she has a small bookkeeping book, and every day before going to bed, she will turn over her wallet and ask questions, and where did I spend three yuan and two, I can't remember, what are we doing today?

Baa Baa is the nickname that Yue'er gave me, including Xiao Baizi, and everyone who has a good relationship with Yue'er will get such an exclusive nickname. Different from Yue'er's happiness, since I was a child, I have always felt that my birth was the original sin, and in this life, I must have come to atone for the sins of the previous life. There is an older brother who is regarded as the pearl of the palm, and since he was a child, his parents will spend a high cross-district fee to let him attend the best private primary school in our place, all the utensils are the best, and our average family background, the end is that I wear the clothes that my brother wears, play with the toys that my brother plays, and use the supplies that my brother used. I went to a public elementary school, but I liked the school, because at the end of each semester, there was an evaluation, and the prizes were very rich, so I secretly made up my mind that I must get the best prizes, so that I could get revenge---- I can go home in front of my brother and I have a new one. And the most important thing is that every time I take the first place in the exam, my mother will pick me up and kiss me, and I will be praised by my father, and my heart is full of happiness at that moment. In order to maintain such happiness, I became very hard. Such a competitive personality is also deeply integrated into my bone marrow, and it has also been accompanied by dissatisfaction with my brother's unfair treatment, as well as low self-esteem hidden deep in my heart, I am an unpleasant child.

There are a lot of digressions, back to college, sunny, happy Yue'er makes me very envious, at the same time I also fall in love with her simplicity, I like to get along with her, I always feel that her sunshine will suppress the little darkness in my heart, and I can deeply feel that she is simply good to me from the heart. Why is she simple? I've seen her cry three times because her former friends would go to play with someone else without her.

As I said before, we are different worlds but we are all motivated little ants, the same, in her world, she seems to work extra hard, she has always maintained the top of her class in college credits, she has been to the United Kingdom and South Korea as an exchange student in four years, and during the exchange period, she also double-studied the degree of business administration of Tianjin University, a good neighbor of Nankai, I remember that at the end of the second semester of her sophomore year, she was in a state of flying to two countries every week to catch the exam. In order to graduate and study in the United States, she stayed in Tianjin for most of the winter and summer vacations to conduct language training and brush up on IELTS scores. Unlike her, during college, I spent more time on certification and extracurricular practice, in order to live the life I wanted, sometimes I would take three tutors at the same time, and then all the income was used to buy musical instruments, and at night I went to the Horseshoe Lake to learn the flute and blow the flute with my master; During my internship at Tianjin TV Station, I worked in an advertising company, and then asked the best teacher in the school to teach me to play erhu and learn cucurbit; When I entered the school as a freshman, I partnered with my seniors to open a hot pot restaurant at school, and I remember that in order to make the small shop distinctive, I would bury my head in drawing during class every day, and I remember that the table number of 8 tables was my whimsical idea to combine numbers with real things: draw 1 as a sailboat, and draw a girl swinging at the end of 2...... In the end, I would be very narcissistic and sign my initials in the lower right corner, and when I waited for the holidays, I used all my income to travel, and that year, I saw the sea for the first time. In my junior year, I ran a small shop with my senior sister, sold clothes and bags, and at the same time happened to intern on Qunar.com, I saw the sunrise that others took in Huashan, so I spent almost all my savings in Xi'an and went to Huashan during the summer vacation of my junior year; In short, my university is, in Yue'er's words, two words: toss. But it is precisely because of this tossing that Yue'er and I have more time to get along.

Usually, the school does not allow electrical appliances in the dormitory, but the canteen is closed during the holidays, and it happens that we live in a West End apartment, and there is no annoying dormitory manager, so everyone often takes out the electric pot hidden at the bottom of the cabinet.

Usually, the school does not allow electrical appliances in the dormitory, but the canteen is closed during the holidays, and it happens that we live in a West End apartment, and there is no annoying dormitory manager, so everyone often takes out the electric pot hidden at the bottom of the cabinet.

In the morning, I would get up early to cook porridge and fried eggs, and before she got up before going to work, I would put her breakfast on her table and leave a message: lazy worms wake up and remember to eat breakfast, as well as brush pots and dishes! In the evening, we would cook dinner together, cook noodles or make rice and stir-fry a side dish, and to this day she still complains that the scrambled eggs with tomatoes turned into tomato and egg soup...... After dinner, we would go out for a walk to the supermarket to buy groceries, walk hand in hand on the empty campus, talk about our dreams and interesting things that happened today, and occasionally complain about the unhappiness we encountered today; On weekends, they would go to the vegetable market together to buy vegetables and shabu-shabu, and then smell the strong smell of hot pot on their clothes and swear that there would be no next time, but how could this kind of vow be taken seriously. Isn't this kind of life a sweet couple day after marriage?

Yue'er often says, "Let's get married in the future, and I'll be happy to respond, so I have to elope with you to the United States."

Life will not always be as stable as ever, and the conflict between us is when we are on a graduation trip in Dunhuang. The day before in the crescent spring sand skiing, Yue'er accidentally sprained her foot, the next day from the Mogao Grottoes when Yue'er said that she missed the barbecue at the Shazhou Night Market, she had never eaten a roast leg of mutton, to eat it before going to Jiayuguan, Xiao Beizi and I felt tired and wanted to go back to rest, so we did not respond to her proposal, so after returning to the hotel, I saw her third hysteria. The exhaustion of the body and the tiredness of the heart caused us to have our first quarrel, Yue'er said that I didn't care about her because she hurt her foot, and I said that I was fed up with your naivety and vexatiousness......

I am a little stubborn, even paranoid people, so later until the eve of graduation, between me and Yue'er, did not sit together and talk well, after returning from Jiayuguan I soaked in the study room every day to prepare for the civil service interview, due to the conflict with the school examination time, and finally under the adjustment of the school I also experienced Yue'er once tired, the night before getting off the plane to prepare for the interview in Yinchuan, in the afternoon to catch the train back to Tianjin, to prepare for the next afternoon exam, and then half an hour in advance to catch the plane back to Yinchuan to prepare for the physical examination......

On the eve of graduation, Yue'er got her wish and applied for the admission notice of the American school, and I also got my wish, returned to my hometown and returned to my mother to be admitted to the civil service. Our hard work paid off, and once again we sat down in the school café and talked about the past.

Sophomore, holiday, and her birthday, we went to Times Aocheng, which is a pedestrian street full of romance, we walked on the street with milk tea, looking at the neon lights and violin statues on the side of the street, Yue'er said: Baa baa give me your hand. I was stunned for a moment, nervous and blushing, and I could clearly feel that my heart was moving for a moment. Yue'er said that in fact, at that moment, she also had a spring of warmth in her heart.

In my junior year, I was injured, and I was afraid that my mother would not dare to tell my family, so when I called Yue'er, Yue'er just stopped for a moment and asked me, which hospital are you in, how are you now, wait for me to come. After that, Yue'er accompanied me to register, check, operate, and take medicine, looking at her running before and after, I cried silently, it is enough to have such a friend in this life.

Chatting and chatting, all the previous unpleasantness turned into smoke, we are still us, after tomorrow, I will return to my hometown to work, and she should also prepare to go through various study abroad procedures, not long, we will be on opposite sides of the world, her night I am embracing the sun.

Now we are busy with work, the other is busy with school, occasionally want to make a video, and have to calculate the time difference of the other party. At noon on Saturday, we had a video, she was still stupid, I was still stupid, I told her: now you have to get up on time, you can no longer walk into the classroom calmly with high heels after the teacher has spoken for ten minutes after the teacher has spoken for ten minutes, you represent the image of Chinese; She was also happy: You still laugh at me, we are 50 steps and 100 steps of laughter! She would get up and go to the classroom even if there were ten minutes left to get out of class; And I'll take a look at the class WeChat group, okay, I didn't name it, so I put on the quilt, and I'm late anyway, so I just skip a section......

This year is the first Spring Festival for me that is not during the winter vacation, and she is the first Spring Festival that does not have a holiday. But the same thing is that we all think about each other on the same days.

The wind and the sun are warm, we stay in different countries and have our own new lives, but what is certain is that I want to always be good friends with her.

postscript

This is the first New Year that can not give you holiday gifts, I can only send you New Year's blessings by writing an article, I have always felt that two people can become friends, fate is very important, that day you sent me a long WeChat, saying that you watched "July and Ansheng", very emotional, suddenly missed me, and the moment I received your WeChat, I was watching the movie "July and Ansheng" in the cinema, and my mind kept flooding with our days together. I have to say that fate is really wonderful, and we still have a soul.

Wishing you all the best in the new year, my beloved Yue'er.

----- yours