Gao Zhao found the feeling of being on the podium in her previous life, there was a year when she did sanitation for the venue, a part-time job in the university, and the salary was not high, but she figured that she could listen to the lecture for free, it was an educational institution, there were all courses, what how to be a modern woman, how to be a competent parent, marketing courses, administrator courses, she listened at the same time, she admired those who gave lectures, they could always mobilize the emotions of the students, and then there was a course on how to speak, expressions, tone, body language, etc. It is how to look at the eyes, and all the students in the audience have systematic lectures.

"This is just for my family, I have few family members, each family is different, to be specific to their own situation, but what I want to talk about is, no matter what kind of situation, even if you are familiar with what you want to say, how do you say these words to make others convinced, but also have respect for you, not fear, this is another science, there is a good saying, that is, the same sentence, can make people laugh and also make people jump, nothing more than the speaker's demeanor and tone, make people happy or angry, so, the look in your eyes when you speak, expression, tone, all have to be in the town's place, that is to control the field, you have to control this aura, that is, the atmosphere, in your hands, then you have to do it through the majesty you exude. ”

Jia Xibei took the lead in applauding, "Aunt Zhao, what you said is so good, I want to learn from you, and when the time comes, I will ensure that my grandmother will be impressed with me,"

"So, don't underestimate talking, this is also an art, some people are born with it, have you found it at the gathering of little ladies, some little ladies can make everyone listen to her, willing to be close to her, that is, the elders like her, I think it makes sense to see people talk about people and talk nonsense, of course, flattery gives people goosebumps that can't speak, anyway, don't take willfulness as your nature, you don't like to deal with a person who always says you're wrong, although she is right."

Looking at Jia Xibei's eyes, Gao Zhao said for her, "You want to say that I am such a person, this can only show that I am a real person, innocent in my mind, I don't treat you as an outsider, I am an elder, I must teach you." ”

Mr. Jia outside the house covered his mouth, and let her speak by herself, touching her mouth up and down, all of which were her ability to reason.

"Small dishes, tea, talk too much to be thirsty, you see, how hard I work for you, you have to keep in mind."

When Mr. Jia heard this, he felt that Gao Zhao must have some plans, so he didn't know what her idea was.

The side dishes at the door pushed the door out, and Mr. Jia quickly hid to the side, turned around and left, very tacitly, and the side dishes also had a tacit understanding and pretended not to see it.

Gao Zhao drank tea, said a few key points, and then said, "First figure out the affairs of the house, make a list yourself, familiarize yourself with the people, arrange the candidates, remember, don't completely deny the opinions of the housekeeper, especially when you just took over, otherwise the following will be twisted into a rope, which will still make you unable to show everywhere, what you have to do is to learn to use people, not to press people." ”

Qian Yulan admired Gao Zhao too much, she has been learning to manage family affairs recently, only to find out that it is not so easy, why did her mother manage the mess before, shouting that she would sell it if she made a mistake, and she was not afraid of the next person, and she disobeyed her mother, and her uncle and grandmother said that although the next person can be sold and then bought, but a family keeps buying and selling people, it can only be said that this housewife has no ability.

Jia Xibei, who was aroused emotionally, was the first to start, and used Gao Zhao's words, but she couldn't help laughing without saying a word, she giggled when she laughed herself, Yu Qingwa didn't say whether she was alive or dead, Qian Yulan did the best, but when she was halfway through, her eyes didn't know where to look, and she always had to see Gao Zhao.

Gao Zhao changed Qian Yulan down, she sat up, and said, "You stand separately, Xibei Station last, Sister Qian stands in the middle, and Yuqingwa Station is in front, representing a room of people, if you only look at the people in front, one is that your majesty and attention to the people behind can't see, they will feel neglected, just like you hold a flower party, there are people in different positions, you can't always look at a person, you have to take care of all the little ladies with your eyes." I'm going to demonstrate. ”

Gao Zhao glanced at the audience first, then smiled and kept looking at Yuqingwa and said, "The weather is so good today, can you roast venison and eat a few sisters together, and I will post to my sisters tomorrow." ”

In the same way, she slid from back to front with a soft gaze, taking care of both the front and the back.

Then he said, "Do you feel the difference?"

Jia Xibei said, "Yes, my aunt said it the first time, and she only told Xiao Maruko that she didn't look at me here at all, didn't take me seriously, and didn't really invite me to go." ”

"That's right, the details are very important, don't underestimate this look, and the tone, the speed of speech, and the pause, you have to pause, let others chuckle in their hearts, or their hearts tighten, not that others want to choke"

Jasibe laughed, remembering the last time his cousin choked.

After that, Gao Zhao started training for them, in which the jokes continued, Jia Xibei always laughed, stomped his feet with laughter while talking, Yuqingwa rote memorization, just can't show the tone, Qian Yulan is the most serious, better than the first time, which inspired Jia Xibei's spirit to not admit defeat, and went to Wang Jingzhou's courtyard at night, and had to drag her grandfather and cousin to give her the role of a person, and she practiced on the main seat.

Mr. Jia asked all the words that Gao Zhao said, and he was jealous in his heart, jealous of the high master who drooped his eyebrows and pretended to be stupid, the little lady would be more popular, but there was no such thing.

When Wang Jingzhou recovered from his illness, Jia Xibei had difficulty walking, his thighs hurt, he jumped, he had trouble talking, and his throat hurt, not only to practice, but mainly to laugh.

"It'll be fine in a few days, it won't hurt in the future, your legs are also strong, you have to have such a process, you see Qiaoyun will be fine, but if you are lazy for a few days, then it will start hurting again in a few days."

Jia Xibei sat on the kang and asked the side dishes to rub his legs, and said, "Why doesn't the little balls hurt?"

Gao Zhao looked at Yu Qingwa, saw her blink, and said, "I've been in pain for three days, and I'll be fine later." ”

"Everyone's physique is different, Xiao Maruko has not been picky since he was a child, loves meat, and has a good physique."

Hearing this, Yu Qingwa grinned, very proud.

Jia Xibei is a little frustrated, she can't memorize Xiao Maruki, and she can't compare to jumping, train Liwei, she can't compare to Qian Yulan, I'm really not convinced

"So, you still have time, as long as you don't be lazy and persevere, the hardest thing in the world is to persevere, and repeating simple things is success."

Jasibe looked firm, "Well, I'll stick with it." ”

Gao Zhao looked at the five people here, Jia Xibei belonged to the most delicate, Yuqingwa was cute but not squeamish, Qian Yulan didn't say it, and her sister Qiaoyun had her own account in her heart, and she was the most lazy, except for chattering blindly.

"It's as simple as that, you have to practice if you don't know what you are born with, practice makes perfect, and everything is like this."

"Aunt Zhao, in the future, after we finish dancing the little pill jump, we will start practicing, I will learn to practice Wing Chun in the afternoon, I must surprise my grandmother, I am not out to play, I want to be reborn, no longer the previous Jasibe"

Gao Zhao joked, "What were you like before?"

"My grandmother was worried when she saw me, worried for the Wang family, and said that if the Wang family returned me, my grandmother would give my grandfather to the Wang family."

This will be haha, it is Gao Zhao.

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