"Hehe," Li Yitian couldn't say anything, "What Qiao Dong said is quite reasonable, now that I think about it, Shu'er is also in her late twenties, maybe it's time to consider her marriage." ”

Qiao An smiled and said: "Yes, I said this because I have a good relationship with Li Lao, don't bother me, Li Lao has such a family background, Li Shu wants to get married, how can he be a good person, right?" ”

He also said: "I know that Li Lao does not rely on his background, but only on his own, so he has no special views on the family, but I have to say a word of experience from people who have come over, Li Lao is not as good as before, and it is very important to be in charge." ”

Her expression was sincere, and Li Yitian also erased the embarrassment in his heart, and asked her seriously: "Yes...... Is that the case? ”

Li Yitian's family is just an ordinary working class, he can get to this day, mainly by his own hard work, although his wife Dong Jiatong is from an intellectual family, but the family can only be regarded as the middle class, not the rich class.

One of their sons and daughters, the daughter married the Zhou family, naturally she is married, and she is currently living in the Zhou family, but they can't see whether she is happy or not, just see that her daughter is in a good mental state, and she can talk about Zhou's big and small things.

The son married his classmate, which can be regarded as a free love marriage, and the daughter-in-law's family is in business, and now the two of them are busy and living a very happy life.

With these good examples, Li Yitian's family naturally doesn't care about what is right.

Joan actually thinks that free love is the best, but people like them have more to consider.

She was lucky enough to bump into ...... No, it was Li Yunsu who bumped into her.

Qiao's and Lai's are of course a good match.

It saves a lot of trouble.

Qiao An said: "The door to these four words, it seems to be feudal prejudice, in fact, it contains a lot of life philosophy, two people grow up in a similar family, then there will be a similar world view, consumption view, and many things tend to be similar." Especially when they are married, the so-called two people have to run in, and many times it is to run in each other's living habits. ”

"This is true," Li Yitian nodded, and said with some nostalgia, "When I first got married to Uchiko, I always quarreled over trivial matters at home. ”

Qiao An said: "Between you and your wife, there is not a gap in living habits, let me give you an example, if Li Shu marries a boy from a simple family, and the two people's views on money are not together, then do you know what the result is?" ”

Li Yitian said: "This ......"

Qiao An said: "Li Shu is now working hard in the political circles, and at the same time she has to take care of Li Jie's company, it would be good if she met a husband who was willing to support her silently behind her back, but how many boys like this, Li Lao probably knows in his heart." ”

Li Yitian nodded, housewives are easy to find, but househusbands are difficult to be.

"If you follow a boy from an ordinary family, maybe Li Shu will have to worry about family affairs, to find a nanny, in case people think that hiring a nanny is a waste of money, it's not that this situation has not happened, a friend of mine is in free love, and a boy whose family conditions are not very good is married, after marriage, not only to live with his in-laws, but also have to serve his in-laws, please a servant, people's in-laws still think that their daughter-in-law pretends to be big in front of them, not filial enough, and uses money to send people, but also a waste of money, They feel that the money is all for their grandchildren. ”

“……”

Qiao An said: "If the family is right and the concept of life is similar, then the in-laws will not come to live together at all, because most of them are abroad, and there is no need for Li Shu to say, the family has also hired a good nanny, so that she can work hard outside without any worries." ”

Li Yitian thought about it, and the more he thought about it, the more he felt that what Qiao An said was very reasonable.

He couldn't see things from the perspective of his own time.

At that time, he was only a civil servant from a working class, and he didn't leave all the family affairs to his wife, so he hired a nanny to take care of him.

Li Shu has hardly done anything by herself since she was a child, and wants to let his granddaughter, who does big things, take care of the housework, let alone Li Shu, Li Yitian himself does not agree.

Qiao An looked at Li Yitian's expression and continued: "Li Shu is twenty-six this year? Or twenty-seven? From the perspective of social people, they are still young, but from the perspective of marriage and love, they are not small, Li Lao, don't blame me for not reminding you, most of the boys from the right people who are capable of the Li family have been married to the eldest ladies of each family early. ”

"This ......" Li Yitian looked at Qiao An, "There is still such a thing as a marriage this year?" ”

Qiao An said: "Naturally, let's just say that in this city, who is the right family and whose family, have you considered it, Mr. Li, in addition, now there are many boys of marriageable age in a family that is similar to the Li family, and the conditions are better than the Li family, Mr. Li, have you considered it?" ”

Li Yitian was blushed by what she said: "It's my negligence, I really didn't think about it so much, I only thought about the affairs of the children's family and let them make their own decisions." ”

Qiao An said: "Your idea is naturally very correct, but it also has to be divided into situations, divided into people, you look at Li Jie, you let him get married by himself, it doesn't matter what, as long as the wife chooses a bad personality, but Li Shu is not only the successor you focus on cultivating, but also a daughter, marriage can not be negligent, besides, even if it is her own decision, Li Shu can now contact men of the same age as her, basically have a family and a job, how many more can she choose?" ”

If she really had a choice, would she run to Li's side all day long?

Li Yitian also understood the meaning of having a family and a business.

Doesn't it mean that Li Shu wants to dig into other people's corners now, if he is in charge of his own and the free pursuit of happiness is used by Li Shu as an excuse to be a junior and meddle in other people's couples, then Li Yitian must take care of it no matter what.

"After listening to Qiao Dong's words today, I suddenly woke up, alas, I almost delayed Shu'er's lifelong event."

Joan smiled and said, "It's all in a hurry now." ”

Li Yitian said: "I'll go back and let Neiko arrange it." ”

Joan said, "But Madame's words...... Don't listen to the Dong family. ”

Although she wants to erase Li Shu, a hidden rival in love, Li Shu hasn't done anything yet, and she won't go too far with Li Yitian's granddaughter: "The Dong family's side is not a good person, especially when it comes to women. ”

"Yes, yes, I know that." Li Yitian also knows what Dong Jiatong's biological parents' house looks like.

Qiao An thought for a while and said, "I know some young talents who are about the same age and are not married, I will compile a list for you when I go back, if you have a match, I can ask." ”