The river cannot allow its own energy to explode, it cannot go forward because there are human dams.

It can't roar, it can't, that's a fact.

It's like a human trajectory.

People can't do certain things, even if they're right, they can't be done, it becomes a theorem.

Slander in the backs of others, nonsense in others, speculation in others, it is really not easy for a person.

It's hard to love someone, but it's even harder to give to someone you love.

Falling in love is a matter of two people, but marriage is a matter of many people.

Excluding non-biological factors (money, house, car), marriage is still an unsolved mystery.

Why is it hard to get married?

I would like to express my humble opinion below, hoping to achieve something in the eternal puzzle of the difficulty of getting married, and I hope to make a contribution.

1: Superstitious factors.

Such as attributes, eight characters, birthdays, etc.

When we are planning to get married, our parents will help us with fortune telling.

It will help us see if our attributes, eight characters, and birth date are suitable.

If it is suitable, it may be possible to get married.

Attention, yes, it is possible to get married!

Let's not talk about whether superstition is true or not, that is, parents believe this.

We can't stand up to them, we know they love us.

But you can't ignore their feelings.

It's okay if we can explain it, but if they believe it, it's hard for us to make a decision.

(Note: Attributes are what each person belongs to, such as chickens and dogs.) Superstitution says that the tiger cannot be with the rabbit. Because the attributes are mutually restrictive. I don't know if you believe it, anyway, there are many people who don't believe in these marriages, and there are many diseases, disasters, divorces, and deaths. )

2: Feudal thinking.

If two people are from the same village, it is possible that they will not be able to get married.

If it's one, even if it's not related by blood, even if it's out of the five generations, it's not okay to get married!

Even if the love is deeper, it is two little guesses and childhood sweethearts, not good!

You can get married, but your fellow villagers will scold your parents, slander your parents behind your back, poke your parents in the back, look down on your parents, and laugh at your parents.

Our parents love face, and they would rather sacrifice to save face, and if you are a filial person, you will not get married. Of course, if you're not a filial son, that's another matter!

3: Background factors.

Some parents love face and like to be the right person. If not, it may be difficult to get married. In particular, the background should be clean and good.

Is this marrying or something else?

4: Public opinion.

When you want to marry someone,

Some elders will say that this woman is not beautiful and can't have a façade;

This man has no money, and he can't live a good life.

This woman has a small ass and cannot bear children;

This man has no house, and he can't settle down.

Anyway, there are a lot of ugly things to say. If you don't care, your parents will care about face, they won't care.

The so-called three people become tigers, and they are inherited here.

Note: The above is for rural areas, especially those who no longer go to school, do not have a girlfriend, and want to get married. Maybe it's a rural person who goes to school and can get married. These babies, you have to work hard. If it is a college classmate or a marriage from another province, what house, car, and money are indispensable, of course, this is the guarantee that the woman can rest assured that her daughter will marry. But without these are generally blown, so work hard. Of course, other people's words are also very, very... (N are omitted here) very important, they are villains, they gossip, they are cheap. Many of the marriages are caused by them. Some people say that if you can't get married, you have no part in your life. There are almost no small people in reality. That's the reality. It is difficult for one person to fight the sky, it is difficult to fight reality, and it is difficult to fight all villains.