Chapter 170: Arranged Marriage in the Republic of China (8)
"Teacher An, have you really become Major General Zhan's girlfriend?" A female student named Qi Le asked An Nan, who had just finished class, with a worried expression.
"For now." An Nan nodded, and did not mean to hide it.
Qi Le frowned, feeling that An Nan's answer was strange, but it was also a positive answer, so she looked at An Nan for a while, hesitated for a while, and finally said: "Teacher An, although Major General Zhan is a young talent with both civil and military skills and a great future, he is not a good boyfriend. ”
When An Nan heard Qi Le's words, she immediately became a little interested, and asked her with a smile: "Why do you say that he is not a good boyfriend?" ”
Qi Le struggled for a while, and saw that the classmates around him had left, and the remaining few were also far away from them, so he didn't notice them, so he lowered his voice and said, "My sister also fell in love with Major General Zhan, and they also had a very sweet and happy period of time, but Major General Zhan quickly empathized and broke up with my sister. My sister was sad for a long time and almost couldn't get out. ”
Qi Le is the young lady of the Qi family, a grain merchant in the east of the city, although the Qi family is not a wealthy family, and does not have the power of the Zhan family, but it is also a wealthy family in the upper echelons of the city, so it is not surprising that Qi Le's sister can intersect with Zhan Zhizhou.
An Nan was very moved by Qi Le's frank confession, after all, not everyone is willing to use their family's painful lessons to persuade others, Qi Le told herself this kind of privacy that is equivalent to a family secret, which shows that she cares about her teacher very much.
"Thank you, Qi Le, I know that Major General Zhan is not a long-term lover, but I only plan to fall in love with him, and I don't plan to marry him, so you don't have to worry that I will be hurt by him like your sister." An Nan said with a smile.
Qi Le's eyes widened in surprise suddenly, and he stammered: "No, I don't want to marry him, so why do you want to fall in love with him?" ”
In the heart of a simple young girl like her, as long as she falls in love with a man, it must be based on the premise of marrying him, so she can't understand An Nan's shocking trendy concept of "only falling in love and not getting married".
Although the current society is much more open, girls can only pursue love before they get married, but in the end, they all want to get married, but An Nan subverted her concept.
"Falling in love is because we want to experience the sweet love between men and women, but if it is involved in getting married, then we can't simply enjoy the beauty of love, and we will be disturbed by many external things, such as family background, identity, interests and other complex things." An Nan said to Qi Le very patiently.
"It's nice to be in love, but it's troublesome to get married, so I just want to enjoy it, I don't want to be responsible. There's nothing wrong with falling in love with Major General Zhan like this, after all, he and I are all here for pleasure, and we don't plan to be responsible...... That is to say, the so-called 'I don't care about the eternity, I only care about what I once had', just enjoy the process, and don't seek the result.
When we are together, we will be together, and if we are not together, we will be divided, and when we are together, we will be wholehearted, and we will be peaceful and rational when we are separated, so that we can gather and disperse, and naturally there will be no one to hurt whom. An Nan blinked and added.
And Qi Le has been shocked by An Nan's words, she has never heard of such words, can a girl be so chic? Is it okay to just enjoy and not be responsible?
Her thoughts had turned into a mess, and for a moment she didn't know if what An Nan said was right, she just felt shocked.
An Nan said this shocking thing with a mouthful of joy, and then finally remembered that he was still a teacher, but he couldn't use this kind of advanced remarks to teach the little girl.
So he hurriedly added: "Of course, if you want to play the game of falling in love with a man, you must be a woman with a strong heart, indifferent emotions, and independent reason, just like me, who has the ability to bear any consequences, so that she can be like a fish in water in a relationship, and after the end, she can quickly cut through the mess and leave freely."
A well-behaved little girl like you can't learn from me, you have to listen to your family well, and use the premise of marriage to test the character of your future husband, and you must not choose a prodigal man...... So, my experience only applies to me, you can't apply it, you know? ”
An Nan said a lot bitterly, but she was afraid that Qi Le would be accidentally taught crooked by her own theory, then she would really be a heinous bad person.
Alas, it was really cool for a while, but after the crematorium, he couldn't live because of his own sin.
Qi Le nodded with a serious expression, and finally understood that An Nan's love experience was not universal and not suitable for a simple and innocent little girl like her, so she thought in her heart that she would only treat An Nan as a powerful idolatro, and she didn't plan to learn from her.
An Nan breathed a sigh of relief, feeling that he hadn't taught a bad boy after all.
But what she didn't expect was that Qi Le repeated what An Nan said to her sister, and her sister listened to it, sat in a daze for a long time, and then suddenly realized, and finally thought about it completely and put Zhan Zhizhou down.
Since then, she seems to have been reborn, from a sentimental and weak girl, to a free and easy woman, and later met a man who truly appreciated her and lived a very happy life.
Zhan Zhizhou met the direct and reckless An Nan, both of them are amorous men and women who are knowledgeable and interesting, and they are not worth their lives, so when they meet their opponents in chess, sparks splash when they get along, and they are tacitly matched, and the two of them are even more glue-like and very sweet.
Soon after, even General Zhan and Mrs. Zhan knew that their son was in love with An Nan.
"Son, there will be a drinking party in a few days, you can let Miss An come too." Mrs. Zhan said to Zhan Zhizhou, who finally returned home once.
Zhan Zhizhou raised his eyebrows and said in surprise: "I have also made a lot of girl friends in the past, and you have never ordered me to bring them to the banquet, why did you actually let me bring An Nan here this time?" ”
Mrs. Zhan glared at her son angrily and said, "Can An Nan compare with those girlfriends of yours?" An Nan is at least your savior, and now she has become your girlfriend, so she should give her some face; But none of the girlfriends you've had before are serious, so why should I treat them differently? ”
Zhan Zhizhou was immediately happy, hugged Mrs. Zhan, and said, "Sure enough, I know my son Mo Ruo's mother, and my mother still understands me." ”
When Mrs. Zhan saw her son coquettish with her, she couldn't help but smile, but she still patted her son's hand and admonished:
"An Nan is a good girl, and she saved your life, you should be good to her, you can fall in love with her, or you can marry her. There's just one thing, you must not let her be a wife! Your wife should be the daughter of a wealthy family who can help you, and An Nan should be a second room, so she will not be wronged. ”
Zhan Zhizhou listened, but he was a little irritable, he and An Nan were in love recently, and they didn't want to think about these things, what will happen in the future, who knows?