If you don't happen to be able to sleep, take a moment to think about your future.

Inadvertently, we are no longer proud. Now we have become pioneers of life. Work hard, live better. By the way, marrying a daughter-in-law, having a child, being filial to our parents or something, these are all things we can do. But if you can't, will your life be closed? Definitely. It's just that the trajectory of your life transforms the function. It has changed from a proportional function to an inversely proportional function. It's not that you can't survive, and since you're alive, there's hope that you can survive.

I feel like a lot of things have happened in the village recently, and I have to think about why these things are happening.

1: Family conflicts

Cause: Grandma's legacy

Initiators: Two uncles

Specifically: In order to compete for a little money, he gave away brotherhood and family affection.

Solution: It is impossible to enlighten them. Their ideas are too old to enlighten them for a while. Let them be.

Feelings: The two uncles are so strange to me

2: Neighborhood disputes

Cause: A photograph

Initiators: Auntie (not pro), my mother

Specifically: Three years ago, my mother knew that my mother had returned to her mother's house in Shanxi. I want to have a photo of one of my children. (Raised by someone else.) Unfortunately, the child fell ill and was hospitalized. I can't give my mom a picture of her for a while. Due to time constraints, my mom hurried back. Tell the aunt everything. But she didn't believe it, so the relationship deteriorated completely. Said that my mother didn't take her words at ease. Dear, what do you think?

The result: a situation of non-speech. At the same time, my younger siblings (my eldest mother's own nephews and nieces) are not allowed to come to my house for a meal or sleep, otherwise they will scold my mother. In fact, she wasn't nice to my younger siblings, while my mom was nice to them.

Feelings: treat you as a treasure when you need it, and be a grass when you don't need it.

3: Stress

from someone else's marriage

Cause: Almost all of my childhood partners married daughters-in-law. Time is so fast. Now when you go back to the village, the adults no longer ask you where you go to school, but ask you if you are married. Really speechless. Although I envy them for getting married, I understand that my current self is not strong enough to give happiness to future people. The partners choose the path of marriage, and they have their lives. In fact, we are not people of the same road for a long time. In any case, I wish them a happy newlywed and an early birth of a precious son.