Chapter 10: Debaters

I carefully read the text she wrote, and suddenly felt a little childlike and replied to her directly: "The comments are superficial." "What?! She waited for a long time, thinking that I applauded her comment, and then asked me where I was superficial? As soon as I saw that it was bad, she was about to get angry, and hurriedly comforted: "Most people are superficial, and your superficiality is below them." "It's rare to see your way of complimenting people, but if you don't comment on them deep and original, you'll regret what you just said." Her response was full of naked threats. Alas, am I not looking for trouble? If you are not careful in dealing with women, you can only swallow the bitter fruit yourself. I cheered up 120,000 points, carefully recalled the "Gone with the Wind" I watched, made a systematic reflection on the characters in it, and then came up with "insightful opinions".

"You don't like Scarlett, the reason is obvious, she is willful, selfish, and even snatches her sister's boyfriend, feeling that there is no bottom line in being a person. But from another point of view, Scarlett is not a vase, she dares to love and hate, not pretentious, not only flirtatious, but also can save the whole family from fire and water, the little baby in the eyes of her father has become the spiritual and economic pillar of the whole family at a critical moment. In the face of adversity, she showed amazing strength and courage, and she could turn into a peasant woman who desperately captured a cow in the wilderness. Yes, she snatched her sister's boyfriend, but that was for the sake of the family's better survival in the hard years, I thought she had sacrificed herself for the sake of the family, obviously she didn't love Frank, just as she didn't love Melanie's brother. In fact, Scarlett is the kind of person who adapts to the environment, and can be a farmer's lady in the old era and a broad wife in the new era. "I typed very quickly, and it took her five minutes to get through, and I didn't want her to be angry because she was waiting too long.

"There is some truth to your point of view, although I don't agree with it very much, but it is understandable, so what do you think of Ashley? You don't have a crush on that person, do you? Ha ha. She let out a rare "laugh" twice. "I really sympathize with Ashley, because he is gentle and handsome, he is a master at dancing, he is the first in hunting, he is the bravest in battle, and he should be a hero in the hearts of girls. But as he himself said, he was adapted to live in the old times, in his paradise, he was free to eat and drink, and he was free to sway, but his world was gone, and he also tried to adapt to the new era, but he seemed clumsy and helpless. His tragedy is that he sees all this clearly, and he is powerless, and his spirit can only live in the old times. So even though Scarlett thinks Ashley is still her Ashley after the war, the world is no longer Ashley's world. "My response came so quickly.

"Look at how sad you say, do you still like Ashley a little?" "It's not that I like Ashley, it's that you women like Ashley." "I've said I don't like Ashley, am I not a woman?!" "I don't mean that, don't get excited, yes, you read the book and compare Ashley to Rhett, you don't like Ashley, Scarlett is the last to find out that she loves Ashley wrongly." I patiently explained to her. "Gee, how did I find out you have a soft spot for Ashley?" She doesn't give up. "Don't talk nonsense, think about it, is there some kind of resemblance between Ashley and our Jia Baoyu?" She paused for a while before sending another message: "Your thinking changed too quickly, I didn't keep up, Ashley and Jia Baoyu are two types of people, from which aspect do you think they are similar?" ”

I typed proudly: "Jia Baoyu was born with the appearance of Song Yu Pan'an, and he travels among the sisters all day long, reciting poems against each other, how chic he is. But at the critical moment, even women can't be protected, and the person he loves the most dies miserably, and then marries a wife and has children, which is a lot. But where is Jia Baoyu's paradise? In Gia. still remembers that in the end, Jia Baoyu came out of prison and fell into Jiang's mansion, and the attacker put him back on his old clothes, wanting to see Jia Baoyu in her heart again, but he quietly took it off and left. Heaven is gone, and so is Jia Baoyu. But we all sympathize with Jia Baoyu, who says they don't like him anymore? If you can like Jia Baoyu, why can't you like Ashley? ”

She replied: "Oh, you're new from this point of view, and although it's not emotionally acceptable, I think you have a point. So what do you think of Melanie? I think you'll be on the same page as me this time. I shook my head and continued typing: "Mei Lan should be the perfect woman portrayed by the author, she is gentle and kind, empathetic, considerate of others, and kind to others, but that doesn't mean I necessarily like it." "It seems that men are all the same, you are also a person, I think you just like Scarlett, isn't she just beautiful?" She robbed me white. I felt embarrassed, and I argued: "I didn't say I liked her, and even if I liked her, it wasn't just because she was beautiful, but because she was full of wildness, had a distinct personality, dared to love and hate, and was like a modern strong woman." "What about Rhett, what do you think?" She put Scarlett aside and asked the next one. "Rhett, my idol, I definitely like him, I think he is a wise man, he was literally born for that era, he is at ease in the North and South of the United States, full of controversy and full of charm, he has his own unique thinking in dealing with people and things, he is kind by nature, sympathetic to others, dares to challenge tradition, love is always the same, he loves Scarlett, whether she is a girl or a young woman or a widow, but he does not take advantage of people's dangers. If the original meaning of Piao refers to the survival of the fittest, it must be tailor-made for him. ”

Is it that I praise Brad too much, she said: "It's useless for you to worship Brad again, you can't be him, I think you are like Ashley." I immediately retorted, "You're obviously not Mei Lan either!" "She didn't respond for a long time, and I found out that she was off the net. She's off the net!

When I came back, I realized that it was bad, so why did I have to prevail in words? Do men and women have to go to war? I'm reminded of a book I once read, The Gender Wars, written by evolutionary biologist Olivia Judson, a PhD at the University of Oxford. The book "Gender Wars" is full of scandals and secrets about the biological kingdom, and the author incarnates as a curious voyeur, peeling back the layers of the joy of living creatures under their beds, and describing them with a rigorous scientific attitude. This book shows the most secret lives of hundreds of creatures, and their arduous evolutionary warfare on the road to reproduction. The author of "The Gender War" believes that all male and female creatures, including us humans, are always engaged in a game around sexuality, with males doing so to pass on their genes, and females being more concerned with raising their offspring while keeping themselves safe. This difference eventually led to a game and confrontation between the two parties around sexuality. It turns out that the whole biota is at war on the gender itself, and perhaps the daily contradiction between men and women is the continuation of the war. I can't help but laugh when I think of this.