Chapter 477: Successful Persuasion
Hey, don't cry......" Wen Ying was a little panicked, and no one had ever cried in front of Wen Ying.
For a while, Wen Ying could only sit helplessly, looking at Bian Yunli sobbing, after thinking about it, she took out the silk handkerchief from her arms, and handed it out before she could see that Bian Yunli had already restrained her tears, and said with a wry smile, "It's the people's girl who has lost her temper, and I ask the county lord to forgive me." ”
Wen Ying didn't know why Bian Yunli was crying, so she silently took the silk handkerchief back.
Bian Yunli took a deep breath, and when he raised his eyes, the previous irritability had completely calmed down, "Is this thing that the county lord said true?" ”
But Fan Wenying was really a little arrogant, and replied with cold eyebrows, "Could it be that the county lord still lied to you?" "It's quite imposing.
It's a pity that Wen Ying's temperament is always sincere, and she said in a panic, "I never lie!" "A pair of clear eyes are very serious.
Bian Yunli is one year younger than Wen Ying, but he looks two points more mature and stable than Wen Ying.
The main reason is that Wen Ying's skin is too white, and her eyes are really clean, so she can't help but feel more childish, and because of these two points of childishness, she looks soft and looks like she is easy to be bullied, so Wen Ying will occasionally go out with her face as tight as possible, and put on the posture of the county lord, at least let her not look very easy to bully.
But now with Bian Yunli, the gossip has also been picked up, and I have seen the other party cry.
Wen Ying can't afford that kind of style in her heart, a rabbit is a rabbit after all, and it is impossible to become a big bad wolf as soon as he turns into a big bad wolf.
Bian Yunli was silent for a moment, "The county lord and Yunli think differently, and they don't say the same. ”
Plus this time, Bian Yunli has seen Wen Ying a total of four times.
The first time was in Zhuang Cai's marriage, because of the large number of nobles present at the time, Wen Ying said very little, but Wen Ling said more, but unfortunately Wen Ling opened his mouth to make Bian Yunli cold for a while, so in Bian Yunli's eyes at that time, the princess was young and not very good-tempered, and the county lord was slightly older, but she had a cold temperament.
The second time was when Wen Ying and Gu Xun met.
In a hurry, it was a coincidence.
At that time, Bian Yunli had already heard from the nobles of various families that the county lord was noble and profound, and he disdained to befriend these women, and his impression of Wen Ying was even more deep-rooted, and then he heard all kinds of things.
The third time they met was a few days ago, and now today, what Bian Yunli saw was a different kind of county lord.
Wen Ying blinked, "False rumors are all untrue." ”
"It's the clouds that are stupid." Bian Yunli was stunned for a moment, but was awakened by this light sentence.
It's her magic barrier.
was overwhelmed by the wealth of this high-ranking gate in Linzi, and forgot his original intention.
Yunli was affected by Wen Ying's words, but not because he was afraid.
But because she remembered that she was only twelve years old—
My brother has always been in poor health, but he has to study hard.
At that time, her brother smiled and said to her, "The eldest brother is like a father, my brother wants to give it a try and earn a future, if you marry in the future, you can also have some confidence, the other party will not deceive you My brother and sister have no father and mother, treat you well......"
My brother dragged his seriously ill body, but he still had to work so hard, so she accompanied his brother.
Maybe it's because it's been a long time, so Bian Yunli's memory is a little vague, but when Wen Ying told this story today, she suddenly realized that she was expecting something she shouldn't have.
The prince relieved her of her predicament, but she thought of taking this opportunity to get close to the prince and help the prince, and the prince would like her and marry the prince.
Then she was doing well.
But when you think about it, is that really good?
Even if the prince can favor her, but she has no family background, the Linzi noble girl can easily isolate her with her mouth, can she keep it?
At least now she can't.
"County Lord, aren't you angry?" Bian Yunli took a deep breath and mustered up the courage to ask.
Wen Ying reacted and said after a while, "Why are you angry? ”
Bian Yunli said, "The folk girl has no self-knowledge, and she rashly had thoughts that the prince should not have, and she also provoked the county lord, Yunli was confused for a while, but today the county lord is here, which makes Yunli a little confused." ”
What woman would not be so calm when she encounters such a thing.
Wen Ying thought for a while and said, "You mean I should be angry, do you like the matter of the imperial brother?" ”
Bian Yunli smiled bitterly, "The folk girl remembers that there was once a young lady in the hometown of the folk girl, who married a wealthy scholar. The scholar is handsome, and the young lady's maid also secretly likes her uncle, and the young lady gets angry and beats the maid out of the house, which shows that liking will make the woman jealous. ”
At least that's what she is.
She was jealous too much.
The departure of her parents, the departure of her brother, the neglect and ridicule she had suffered, all made her heart unsightly little by little, and the short-term vanity after arriving here made her forget her original self, enjoy false praise, and envy what she was not qualified to be jealous of.
Wen Ying tilted her head and thought for a while, "I don't think so." ”
"Huh?" Bian Yunli was puzzled.
"That young lady will get angry and beat the maid out and drive her out, probably because the maid did ......something wrong," Wen Ying blinked.
Bian Yunli was stunned.
"If you just drive it out because you like it, then this young lady's temperament must be arrogant and arrogant, and this is only a possibility. But if so, it can only be said that it is because the scholar does not like his wife enough, and you also said that the scholar is rich, and he has chosen to be rich, so the man's integrity is a little less, and such a man can have some sincerity in marrying? I'm afraid that the scholar is not at ease after having an ulterior purpose, so he may have seen the maid's thoughts, or maybe he also saved so much teasing. Then the lady can't send her husband, so she suffers from the maid. I don't know how, Wen Ying guessed it casually.
This is also a blessing that dragged Chang'an.
Chang'an likes to listen to stories, and he chats with Wen Ying every once in a while, and hears a lot of insiders, which is really not necessarily the truth of the matter.
What outsiders say is what outsiders say, and outsiders are always more willing to believe what they want to believe, so it doesn't matter what the facts are, what matters is which version is exciting enough to become their after-dinner chat, so Wen Ying often just listens to Chang'an finish a story, and the next moment she will hear another version, and over time, Wen Ying herself subconsciously guesses that this may not be as others say.
"Of course, the truth is not necessarily like this, I don't know the other party, let alone the truth of the matter, but according to my opinion, I prefer to believe that there is nothing groundless in the world, so there must be a reason for the so-called punishment and then drove away." Wen Ying spoke, Bian Yunli listened attentively, his face was a little sluggish, and it was not the same as Wen Ying's appearance when he saw Bian Yunli before.
"What the county lord said makes a lot of sense." Bian Yunli came back to his senses, and felt that he had no power to refute.
If this is a polemic, then by this time she has already lost.
After a while, Wen Ying smiled and said, "So, the imperial brother is different from the scholar, you like the imperial brother and can you make the imperial brother like you That's your business, I and the imperial brother are not married yet, I also like the imperial brother and I know that the imperial brother likes me, then I am enough...... I'm not as jealous as you say, and I'm not thinking about how to make the royal brother dislike you, but how to make the imperial brother like me all the time......"
But it was this last sentence that made Bian Yunli stunned.
"The county lord is according to what is said in "Female Virtue", if a woman does not like her husband, she should reflect on why she does not like her husband, so she should please her husband?"
Wen Ying frowned, and said softly for a while, "It's not to flatter." ”
She didn't like those two words.
Clenched her wrists, Wen Ying's eyes also had some complicated emotions, but she couldn't say it.
She thinks it's good that the royal brother is happy, if the royal brother really likes someone else, she will bless the royal brother, but she doesn't want to make herself sad, and her mother also hopes that she can live a happy life. So she won't choose the idea that will make her uncomfortable, she will take back her liking, and quietly be a virtuous queen to take care of the harem for her royal brother, and stabilize her life, but she won't give this feeling she likes.
"I don't know how to tell you, I also have ...... The ...... of the bottom line"
Yes, the bottom line.
Wen Ying thought about it and felt that this word was the most suitable.
The bottom line......
Bian Yunli bit these two words, and his eyes lit up.
got up and knelt down towards Wen Ying, and knocked heavily, "Thank you Yun Li for the county lord's guidance." ”
Wen Ying was stunned, what did she point?
Bian Yunli was completely clear, how could he not know that Wen Ying's purpose of coming today was to appease her and let her participate in the examination, so at that moment Bian Yunli promised that he would definitely exert his ability in the examination.
Wen Ying walked out of Hanjiang Garden with a confused face, still a little dazed.
She's a success, isn't she?
But how did it succeed?
After Wen Ying left, Bian Yunli turned his head and sorted out his thoughts.
There is a cloud in the "Analects": I am three times a day and I am not loyal to others?
Is this just thinking about whether you have made mistakes and whether you have considered others?
No, not only.
As the county lord said, thinking is not about mistakes, but about the bottom line, and it is the degree.
This sentence also has a meaning, that is, to think about your own bottom line and your own bottom line of forbearance with others.
Everyone has a ruler in their hearts to measure others and themselves.
This kind of bottom line is her own requirements for herself, just as she has never had a requirement for herself, after completing her brother's wish, she was fortunate to enter Linzi, she did not give herself a degree, and she was easily shaken by others.
After having this bottom line, you can carefully measure your own mistakes on the bottom line.
It is said that the county lord is stupid, but today's words of the county lord are like an empowerment, awakening her.
This is not only between men and women, above the court, there should be a measure of being an official, one is to measure oneself, and the other is to measure others.
Be strict with yourself, but you can't treat others as if you were yourself.
If it is subdivided, it can be divided into various types, which is simply too much......
There is another one, which is Wen Ying's story......
Bian Yunli felt that there was too much inspiration for a while, and he couldn't wait to take a note on a piece of paper, afraid that he would never find the inspiration again.
After finishing writing, Bian Yunli looked at the pages full of paper, his hands suddenly trembled, and tears fell again excitedly.
This, it's her own thing.
Without her brother, she can also speak of her own things, although not mature enough, but it is enough to prove that she can do it......