In the blink of an eye, I graduated 5 years ago. Looking back on the past 5 years, it is really full of self-slots. It is often said that the predecessors planted trees, and the later generations enjoyed the shade. In fact, in the final analysis, this sentence is expressed as the experience of the ancestors and the good guiding role played by later generations. Maybe I've been in the society for a long time, maybe I've been depressed, or maybe I've been at the bottom of the society in the past few years, and I feel more and more that the people at the bottom are fighting alone is far worse than fighting together. So, I decided to write something, not only to record my life experience, but also to remind future generations that future generations will not make mistakes like mine, after all, I once had a good hand, but I broke it all.

Five years after graduating, I still have a poor memory for the rest of my life

"Choice" seems to be only two simple words, but it is as important as a thousand pounds, and it can really affect the direction of a person's life. I remember that in the Chinese class, the teacher asked me to write an essay about "choice". At that time, when I was a student, "choice" was just two Chinese characters and two symbols, and I was naïve at that time, and I didn't deeply realize the weight and cruelty represented by these two Chinese characters, and it was actually an alliance with fate, although the idea of "choice" was decided by people and voluntarily implemented.

In fact, people's lives are composed of "choices", so people's lives are interspersed with countless "choices", and people choose well, they will get happiness. And if people choose poorly, it is easy to go around in circles, and finally return to the starting point of life, wasting the years in vain.

Although "choice" is so important, in this society, there is basically no good teacher to teach "how to choose", perhaps no one can not regret their choice; Or more often than not, there are some practical actions in this regard, such as trumpeting the benefits of going to school, warning young people not to worry too much, just need to go to school well, take exams well, and life will be everything. Even teachers always educate students like this, saying that if they don't study hard, they will only be able to move bricks and do manual work in the future, and they will not be productive for the rest of their lives. So at that time, when I was young and frivolous, I always sneered at people who did manual work, thinking that they were not productive because they did not go to school well.

But is life really that simple? Maybe, maybe not.

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Time has passed, and now I realize that there are many people who have no choice at all. I don't know the weight of things on my body, and I don't shed tears in my heart, and I can't understand the pain in my heart. The hardships of life are simply not something that students in ivory towers and greenhouses can experience. At this time, I finally understood why the handsome horsepower in the movie "The Ferryman" was decadent, because life is always bumpy, marriage, work, children, there is always one that will make people feel uncomfortable.

Perhaps it was the education I had received over the years, or it might be more accurate to call it "social brainwashing", which caused me to fail to see myself clearly and have unrealistic ambitions, which made my heart arrogant and arrogant, and finally I found that going to school is nothing at all, and after graduation, I just started over, I have to learn experience, technology, and even character and integrity - just like when I was a child, society taught people to be honest and trustworthy, but when I grew up, I just needed its opposite. Many people can't change their minds, they don't adapt to society, the more they mix, the more miserable they become, and even squatting at home because they are afraid of the future.

In fact, after graduation, I just started a new beginning, but I gradually became the most hated person I used to be, such as being labeled as a "loser, a squatting patient at home".

In fact, I also found that people don't want to work after squatting for a long time. Perhaps, as most ordinary people say, no matter what you do, it is better than being idle, after all, you will have more time to use money in the future.

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Although I am a failure now, I basically did it.

In fact, when I think back to the school recruitment in the past, I easily gave up the school recruitment unit because I was too arrogant, and now I think about it at that time, I was really stupid. In fact, for poor families, school recruitment is really a choice that can turn their fate, and if they miss it, they will be a little bitter in the future. But don't be afraid, some seniors said that a person has several opportunities to change his fate before the age of 35: one is to cast a good tire, the second is to study well, the third is to find a good unit, the fourth is to have a good father-in-law, and the fifth is probably hard-working, probably so.

I won't mention the medical major I studied here, in fact, I was still in the top 10 in my school class, just because I wanted to engage in a job of interest, and then I ran away from the school recruitment unit... Then, the curtain of tragedy began.

It's a pity that time can't be reversed, if it can. Or if I have a friend like Doraemon, I will definitely get into the drawer with a time tunnel, ride the time machine, go back to the day of the school recruitment a few years ago, and tell me at that time, be honest in my profession, don't think about it. It's a pity that I was young and frivolous, I didn't know how to choose, and the school didn't teach me how to choose, and of course I didn't have much of a friend like Aimeng. The past is like smoke, and it is unbearable to look back.

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The past is like smoke, and it is unbearable to look back. Time has gone round and round for several years, and the only thing that has changed me a little is my appearance and age. My experience hasn't improved much, my skills haven't improved much, and my background hasn't improved much. I used to laugh at those older young people, why don't they realize their ambitions and don't do these positive things, but later I found out that everything is because of poverty, poor words are remembered for life, and poor words are also mistaken for a lifetime. Now I understand that everyone is actually the same, life is unsatisfactory, work is not smooth, marriage is blank and bleak, and all living beings are suffering.

In fact, if I think about the past, I don't know if I am unwilling to lower my arrogant head, or because I have the support of my parents' money, or because of other reasons, I have a strange disease that is widely spread in society: low eyes. In fact, sometimes it can't be regarded as a master, after all, there are a lot of jobs, and people will be skilled after one or two jobs, if you do this kind of work for a long time, not only can you not bring yourself impressive results on your resume, but also will lead to yourself falling into a psychological comfort zone, unwilling to start anything else. A job, not only to consider the remuneration, but also to consider the career ceiling, if the career ceiling is very low, even low to the dust, then there may be no hope of promotion, a lifetime of doing low-level work. Therefore, talents should continue to learn, learn to deal with others, learn from the experience of others, and rise their personal heritage... However, maybe it's nice to say, many people, including me, how many of them can get a promotion and a salary increase after many years, and reach the peak of life. Sometimes, fate plays tricks on people.

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Hey, the overall economy has been a bit down this year, and you can hear news of salary cuts and layoffs everywhere. Some people say that 19 years may be the best year for the economy in the next 5-10 years, and there may be some truth, after all, 97, 08, 19, the economic crisis is a ten-year cycle. However, whether the economy is in crisis or not, people's lives always have to live, and the only thing that can be done is to try to improve their self-worth and create their own core competitiveness.

Here I will briefly mention that several industries in the society can also be called "garbage posts", and I hope that future generations can avoid entering the pit as much as possible.

1. Insurance. If you don't have connections and become a novice in insurance, it is very likely that your relatives and friends will buy insurance once, and in the end there will be no one to buy and be forced to dismiss. It can be said that many jobs recruited by insurance companies, including management trainees, reserve cadres, computer clerks (male), logistics, and almost all actual jobs are sold insurance.

2. Telemarketing. I feel that this job is very powerful to make achievements, but most people are fired on the day they don't get results. Then it may be because there are too many calls, even if you don't do telemarketing in the future, it is easy to be frightened when you hear the ringtone.

3. Website editing. Especially for medical website editors, it's basically ctrl+c, ctrl+v. Because of the pursuit of the number of articles, the quality of the article is basically ignored, so it can be said that the technical content is not much, and it is suitable for overdoing it when there is no work.

4. Information auditor, that is, the legendary "yellow examiner". The content of daily work is to review bad information, basically you need to read thousands of pieces every day, including articles, user avatars, short video content, etc., which is only suitable for overdoing it when you are not working.

5. Positions with performance requirements, such as "Baidu bidders, new media consulting, business passes" in Putian hospitals, etc., don't engage in them if you can't do them, because they basically change positions several times a year in half a year, and the performance pressure is particularly high. Although the industries done by Putian people are relatively pitiful, they give me the feeling that they Putian people are very united, and they have good fruits to eat together, and there is rarely a tragic phenomenon of "the villagers see the villagers, and a shot comes from behind". This is one of the reasons why Putian people are so rich.

6. Salesman who sells houses or cars. The polarization of these two industries is particularly serious, some people do well and earn millions a year, while those who do not do well only eat the basic salary. Many, many people, can only get a guarantee. Personally, I feel that a profession of this nature is more suitable for women with a bit of beauty.

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Here, I have to mention whether the resume is better for online investment or actual investment. In today's era, there are many young people who are greedy for convenience and like to submit resumes online, such as Boss Direct Recruitment, 58, and Worry-free Future. But in many cases, some units on these software either ignore them and give no good feedback, or they just hang up on the Internet, playing the suspicion of promoting the company or advertising, and there is no shortage of people at all, wasting the hopes of job seekers. Looking for a job, I personally feel that I need to go to the job fair or the urban talent market in person, maybe there will be a different scenery.

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In the past few years, I have been mixed up in society, and the only ones I feel more stable are civil servants and factories. Civil servants are the hottest and most popular profession in the past thousand years, but people with no background at home, even if they are admitted, they feel that they have no hope of promotion, and they are only doing the lowest petty civil servants. And the factory, although mechanized and streamlined is serious, is to exchange health or life for money, but many people can work in it for a decade or two, but also can maintain a family, provide for the children to go to school, it can be said that sacrificing one person, to complete the family, is also a kind of inferior but practical solution, can also be done occasionally.

Although in this society, everyone is busy with this and that, but most of them are busy all day long. Maybe it's a kind of thing called "face", including me, many people are obviously not mixing well and living badly, but they pretend to be glamorous and worry-free. Actually, it's useless at all, what's the point of being beautiful on the surface but actually absurd. For example, if I carefully look back on my career in the past few years, I will find that I basically have no substantive work experience, I have wasted precious time, I have no hard skills that I can master, that is, I have no core competitiveness. In this way, once I encounter some ups and downs, I will "look at autumn first".

In fact, people have a comfort zone, if people do not have external forces to force change, in the long run, they will become lazy and vulgar. If people are not old and have not started a family, then most of the external forces that can change people come from the pull and help of friends, such as looking for a job together, starting a business together, and fighting the world together. And if a person is old and has a family child, then the external force that can change people is the child who is waiting to be fed, and the delicate and affectionate mother-in-law of his own family. Of course, there are also their own second or fourth elders. People may be motivated when they are under pressure.

Although the burden of life is very heavy and heavy, although the level of life is very difficult and difficult, although the standard of living is very poor and poor, but since you are born as a human being, you should live well, even if you are living in the world. Usually those frustrating words don't say much, your own life path, just open up by yourself or with your heart or kneeling, don't be afraid, because it's useless to be afraid.