Chapter 379: The knot in the heart is easy to knot and not easy to untie
Joan said she wanted to see the kid and went upstairs.
Qiao Mu was taking a nap in their bedroom, the child was on the sofa in the living room upstairs, and the nanny folded a small bed for him with a small quilt, the sofa was big enough, but it couldn't fall down.
Unlike Qiao Mu, who was round and chubby, this child was black and thin, and looked a little smaller than Qiao Mu.
Jo Ann asked, "Hello?" ”
The nanny said, "I've been fed milk powder, madam, this child doesn't seem to be in good health." ”
The nannies who can work in Lai's are very professional, and several of them not only have nutritionist certificates, but also have learned some home nursing.
In addition, there is a healthy Qiao Mu as a reference, the nanny has hugged the child, and then looks at the teeth, eyes and state, you can judge eight or nine times out of ten.
Qiao An sighed: "Lin Tong said that he was brought over in an orphanage, and although the conditions for adopting a child in an orphanage in my country are not harsh, in Lin Tong's situation, there is definitely no way to adopt through the formal procedures." This child was probably sick, so he was handed over to Lin Tong by the orphanage. ”
He said to the nanny: "When the child wakes up later, take it to Li's hospital to see what the situation is, and treat it if it can be treated." ”
The nanny answered and took the child to the hospital in the afternoon.
came back and reported to Joan: "The doctor said that the child's condition is not particularly good, but it is not incurable, it is a disease that costs money and time to recuperate." ”
Joan nodded: "Good work." ”
It's no wonder that the orphanage chose to give the child to Lin Tong, maybe the other party thinks that Lin Tong is a celebrity after all, he is rich after all, and he may be able to give the child a way to live, and the orphanage can't imagine that Lin Tong's person looks like a dog and is so heartbroken.
Qiao An let people wrap a red envelope and secretly gave it to the front desk sister and cleaning aunt of Phoenix International, no matter what, it was their kindness that saved the child, otherwise he was thrown in the room all the time, without eating and drinking and getting sick, this child didn't know if he could live until Li Yunsu's people went to look for him.
There is only one question left.
Joan convened a family meeting.
After dinner, in the living room on the third floor, Li Yunsu sat in a circle with Qiao An, Li Bei, and Qiao Xinning.
Qiao An said: "This child, we can cure him, and we can also pay for his treatment after that, although it is Lin Tong's sin, but after all, it is also related to Xiao Mu, and we are not short of this money, so we should treat it as a virtue for Xiao Mu, okay?" ”
Li Yunsu nodded.
Joan said, "The question now is, what will happen to this child after that? ”
Qiao Xinning said: "Send it back to the orphanage? ”
Qiao An said: "This is a solution, the orphanage has probably also seen Lin Tong's matter, maybe worried about this child." ”
Li Bei said: "It's just that he won't get much care if he is sent back, and he is sick, although we can cure it...... Since we can cure it, can we adopt this child? ”
Qiao An said: "When he was brought out by Lin Tong, he went through the formalities, but presumably Lin Tong did not register him at all, so there is nothing that cannot be done in theory." ”
She paused and said, "It's just...... Who will adopt him? ”
And he said, "I've actually thought about it, and it's not a trivial matter. ”
Li Yunsu said: "Tell me what you think. ”
Joan gritted her teeth: "I can adopt him, but I ...... There is no way to give him and Qiao Mu equal love, I thought about this matter carefully, and the conclusion is that I can't do it, I will definitely be partial to Qiao Mu. ”
Li Bei said: "This is also human nature. ”
Qiao An lowered her eyes: "If you say it, it seems to be making an excuse, but if I adopt him and don't give him the same love as Qiao Mu, I think ...... This is very bad for the child's mental health, after all...... After all, there have already been such things in our family. ”
Qiao Meng honestly grew up in such an environment.
Although there is the unconditional love of Zhang Shuya and Yin Yin, Qiao Huien and Qiao Yenan have never let Qiao Meng go in their eyes, and Qiao's men reject Qiao Meng, and at the same time dote on Qiao An.
Qiao An didn't have any thoughts about Zhang Shuya and Yin Yin, so whether they were partial or not didn't affect Qiao An, but Qiao Meng must have wanted his father and grandfather in his heart, but all he could get was ignorance and indifference, and at the same time, Qiao An had been pressing on Qiao Meng's head all year round.
So Qiao Meng's personality is so distorted, it's not that Qiao An doesn't understand.
This is also the reason why she is not so harsh on Qiao Meng now, as long as Qiao Meng lives well abroad, then he has money to work, to ensure that he has no worries about his life, let him run his own family well, and at the same time isolate Zhang Shuya and Qiao Meng, and give Qiao Meng time to erase the distortion in his heart brought by the plain family.
Of course, on the other hand, Joan can also get a more stable life and Qiao's overall support.
This kid ...... Qiao An naturally took pity on him, and the orphan was sick and used by Lin Tong.
"If it's just for food and clothing, in fact, it's no problem to raise it in our family, it's not bad for such a mouthful of food, it's not bad for one person to study, it's just ......" Joe settled for a moment, "Maybe it's my own heart knot." ”
She really can't raise a child as Qiao Mu's playmate, how can she raise it?
Li Yunsu held her hand: "I understand." ”
Joan had lost her memory, so she forgot about her childhood, but Li Yunsu knew that he had experienced it himself.
There is a nanny to take care of in Lai's, does he lack food, clothing, and education?
No.
But without the company of his family, the harm caused by being alone has not been completely digested by Li Yunsu until now.
Didn't Li Bei take care of him in the middle, didn't Shen Yu take care of him?
Neither is it.
It's just that feeling...... The care given by others is not the same as the wholehearted love from parents.
To put it mildly, he was not the first person in anyone's heart at that time, no one regarded him as the most important person, and he was not the highest priority in anyone's heart.
The most important thing in Shen Yu's heart is Li Yunhan, the most important thing in Li Yunhan's heart is Li Yunxing, and the most important thing in Li Bei's heart is Mrs. Li.
He's just a presence that they come over to care about in their spare time.
There's no way not to think so, Li Yunsu understands it too well, he has really experienced this kind of thing, there is no way not to think like this.
Reason will tell yourself that people are very busy, and it is very sincere to be able to care about your own food and clothing.
But not enough......
If this child lives in Qiao's family as Qiao Mu's playmate and Qiao An's adopted son, he will eventually have such psychological problems.
When the top priority of everyone in this family is always Qiao Mu, it is difficult for him not to have an unbalanced mentality.
Unless the Qiao family told him at the beginning, you are inferior, you will always be superior to Qiao Mu.