[Essay] 25: Talking about success

Introduction: The incident originated from a report in the British "Daily Mail", which said that the 2-and-a-half-year-old kitten "Boomer" in Oregon, USA, has been living an adventurous life "on the road" with his owner Stephen Simmons for more than 2 years.

From California on the West Coast to New York on the East Coast, Boomer has traveled to almost every famous attraction in the United States.

Simmons recorded the scene of "Boomer" on the road with his camera and uploaded it to social networking sites, and "Boomer's" adventurous career was sought after by a large number of netizens.

After reading this news, I have the urge to drop my mobile phone every minute, damn it, this day is not as good as a cat!

Even a cat can become the "Xu Xiake" of the meow world, let alone people? The world is so big, I really want to go to the waves, but the fetters of this life have made many men bend their waists, so shameless!

So, what does it mean to have a successful life? Success, either conform to the times and hold the thighs of the times, or go the other way and will

The "inconspicuous" is done thoroughly to achieve the master level. The first man in Fuyang insisted on playing with slingshots for 20 years, and finally set Guinness World Records in 5-meter and 10-meter moving targets, and then founded the Slingshot Club in Beijing, becoming a pioneer of domestic competitive slingshots, and apprentices from all over the country.

For every rural boy, playing slingshot is a compulsory course, so there are many people who have a good time, but who insists on going on?

Therefore, sometimes, it is not the direction that is greater than the effort, but the hard work to have a new beginning, after all

"Direction" is, to a certain extent, the result of hard work, so as long as you do it well, you can always have unexpected gains and unexpected surprises.

For a long time, I didn't talk about how to make people successful, I just talked about how I felt about everything, and I used it to introspect and use it to improve my stream of consciousness form.

In fact, success is very inscrutable, because it is sometimes like electrons, which can only be estimated by the probability of electron clouds, so some people inadvertently touch the crown of success, so they win; But sometimes, success is always linked to external resources such as money and power, whether it is the early stage of entrepreneurship or the successful demeanor in the prime of life, with funds it is half the success.

What about the other half, where did it go, in fact, this refers to the original heart of people. It's not that successful people never give up, it's that they will

The balanced pattern of "give up and persevere": once they give up, they will not give up, and once they choose, they will not give up casually.

As for ordinary people, they love to give up, they give up when they encounter some difficulties, and they always want to plant and harvest in the spring, so they are in a hurry.

But is that really the case, maybe yes, maybe not, because I'm not a big guy, I'm just talking about my opinions.

In fact, many people love to talk about it, which is fine, but the most dangerous thing is to teach others how to succeed, as if they have succeeded.

Although the prince and the prince will have a kind of Xiangning, this is only the historical situation at that time, so there are so many heroes, and history can always be concrete under certain conditions, so it cannot be copied or repeated.

It seems to be a mistake, but in fact it is not, because some things are indeed inevitable: it is not the successful ones who create the situation first, but they know how to use the situation and then create a new situation, and they all have what they need to win, and the rest is only calculation.

But it's always too empty, too complicated and too nerve-wracking to talk about all this, and it seems a bit inappropriate for me to only talk about feelings, let alone those who swear that they will make people successful!

In fact, success is not impossible to talk about, it must be convincing, but where does it come from? Strength speaks, big data is reflected, it is not that success can educate others, but that successful people can succeed according to their own methods, so that they can be convincing, on the one hand, no one can have

"Yourself" understands

"Yourself", on the other hand, does prove

"Myself" is a cow man. But if you don't succeed yourself, how can you become someone else's life coach?

You yourself are ignorant of this, let alone deeply understood? Your own ability is prevaricating, let alone dedicating yourself to it?

This is ridiculous! Maybe there is really a saying that there is destined, who is famous for a hundred years, who is ordinary, there is a saying, but no matter who it is, in the final analysis, they are just doing themselves!

Don't transgress your own line to do things that don't match, because you haven't thought about whether this state is what you want, the road to "fame and sanctification" is like a poisonous lily of the valley, which seems beautiful, but in fact it will poison you, maybe you are just expecting praise from others, you must think about what you want, what you want!

In fact, the most important thing for people is the "person" itself, such as friends, such as family, such as lovers, like friends, and even more like brothers - it is still a familiar formula, or an authentic method, and the taste is still so sour and tender, mouth-watering.

Time is really fast, more than a year has passed in the blink of an eye, and the years are unforgiving, but you and I are who is who, we have already surpassed our friends, we are good brothers for life, this is because you and I have no conflicts of interest, and we are both people who value love and righteousness, I only make friends with people who value love and righteousness, so even if time passes, I will not forget you.

Many people are saying that people are separated unconsciously, but sometimes it is not because of conflicts of interest that they are separated, the reason for this is that people are greedy too much, and their motives are not pure in making friends.

In fact, people always have to find the meaning of their own life, although people are interest creatures, but some things really can not be measured by interests, because I don't want to keep the cold money and cry, spend the rest of my life, I just want to live well with like-minded people and my family, money is enough, but it is difficult to do, because people always have endless desires, desires are difficult to fill, but some people do not want to be so, so they have been striving for balance, until one day they understand that money is used well, that is, happiness; Money is used badly, destroying the world!

If you and I don't change our original intentions, is it okay for me to grow old with you?