Chapter 412: I Raise You as a Daughter
Han Jin's habit of shaving morning and night was maintained until many years later, whenever he saw him shaving, Xiangxiang still blushed.
Now they are still newly married, and the small courtyard of the two of them is constantly covered with pink bubbles.
Before Han Jin moved in, he asked the three hands to find a way to get two old plum trees, and the black clay jar in the corner of the wall was now full of buds, and two or three of them had quietly bloomed, spitting out dark incense and waiting for Xiangxiang to find it, so as to surprise her as Han Jin thought.
It's a pity that Xiangxiang definitely hasn't had a chance to discover them these days, until the plum blossoms are in full bloom, and Han Jin hasn't given her a chance to explore in the yard.
Until the daffodils that Han Jin found also budded, a row of six pots and six colors were placed on the windowsill, ready to bloom on the windowsill sprinkled with sunlight, reflecting the white snow outside the window, and reflecting the fragrant fragrance of sitting in the warm room with a gentle smile.
Tang Juan came to the door again, it has been more than half a month since the last time they entertained their mother and son, she didn't bring Xiaobao today, but she came with her mother-in-law.
These days, Han Jin has asked Tang Juan's family situation clearly, her mother's family is an ordinary worker, her mother-in-law's family is a small cadre, and her father-in-law is the section chief of the county water conservancy bureau.
Mother-in-law is a housewife, her lover is an ordinary clerk of the Water Conservancy Bureau, it is said that her health is not very good, and she has been on sick leave at home for several years to recuperate, Tang Juan is a teacher in the third elementary school in the county, and there are two younger daughters in addition to Xiaobao at home.
Such a family situation is not bad in the county, but it cannot be said that the living conditions are superior, and their lovers and children are sick, and they may be worse than ordinary workers' families.
When Han Jin said this, he told Xiangxiang, "I heard that Xiaobao's illness is not simple, and we will have less contact with this child in the future." As for how Xiaobao's illness was not simple, Han Jin didn't say much.
He didn't say Xiangxiang and didn't ask carefully, she knew what Han Jin meant, he didn't want to get involved in this kind of child, he was afraid that she would be too attentive to him if he had too much contact, he was not a person with friendships, he couldn't help too much, and if he didn't help, he was worried, so it was better not to contact him from the beginning.
They have already discussed that if they don't have children in the future, then the two of them will live together for the rest of their lives, and they won't adopt, and no one's children will be adopted back to raise. Even if they are as close as a hill, they can hurt his children, but if they don't raise them, they will only live two people in this life, and there are only two of them in the family.
Han Jin had already thought about it, and in the dead of night, he held Xiangxiang and planned their future clearly:
"I know you like children, you will be a teacher in the future, we will teach as many children as you like, and you will teach the children in your class to love them, and you will have no regrets if you give birth to yourself. I will raise you as a daughter, and the two of us will live like this for the rest of our lives, and I will take care of you when I am old, and I will not let you suffer at any time. ”
Han Jin really thought it through and planned their future carefully. Whether it is physical or age, he will definitely live longer than Xiangxiang, Xiangxiang is old, he can take care of her, and when she is gone, he will definitely not want to live alone anymore, just follow her, and there is no need to think about any pension problems at all.
Therefore, they don't plan to have too much contact with irrelevant children, let alone those like Xiaobao who are inexplicably close to Xiangxiang and may bring hidden dangers to their lives.
After all, people's hearts are unpredictable, and no one knows if everyone knows that they will not have children in the future, and whether they will have other speculations or plans.
So they didn't plan to have a deep friendship with Tang Juan and Xiaobao, although Han Jin didn't find anything wrong, but he always felt that Xiaobao's closeness to Xiangxiang made him a little awkward, and he couldn't explain the reason for his rejection.
So this time Tang Juan and her mother-in-law came to the door again, and Xiangxiang was not very enthusiastic.
But Tang Juan's mother-in-law was very enthusiastic, not only took Xiangxiang's hand and watched it for a long time, kept praising her for her beauty and kindness, but also brought home-made rice cakes, and warmly invited her to queue up to buy New Year's goods.
When she arrived in the city, Xiangxiang found that the friendship of women in the city was completely different from that in the countryside.
The way for rural women to quickly get close to each other is to make needlework with shoe soles, and to make soybean beans and soybeans together in winter to make sauce cubes, and the way to quickly get urban women closer is to go to the queue to buy together.
People in the city have to queue up to buy grain, vegetables, oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, today the grain store supplies cornmeal, tomorrow the non-staple food store comes to the eggs, the supply of the month is counted, the day of the supply is missed, the whole family has to eat less this month, well-informed, know a few more people to rush to buy it together, it is very necessary.
Especially into the wax moon, the New Year is about to begin, the unit and the street will have additional benefits sent down, today with the household registration book for one person to supply two catties of flour without food stamps, tomorrow the vegetable shop will come to the green onions, the non-staple food store next door has a new five-spice powder if you don't hurry up to buy it will be gone, and there is an additional supply of two hundred catties of honeycomb coal for the New Year.
News one after another, there are no three or five housewives who get along well with each other to line up and can't buy all at all, and missing one may affect the dishes of the Chinese New Year's Eve dinner, which is a very big deal!
So Tang Juan's mother-in-law warmly invited Xiangxiang to go to the queue with them, which actually helped her a lot.
Han Jin's food relationship has also been transferred to the county, and now the family's non-staple food, grain, coal and various coupons have also been issued, and she really needs to find someone to take her to purchase.
In her previous life, when she went to the city as a nanny, although the people in the city were still using food stamps in the early stage, there were no restrictions on the purchase of other things, she really didn't know the doorway here, and it really took a lot of effort to let her explore it herself.
And it seems that Tang Juan's family is not a family without eyes, and they not only brought affordable and unacceptable gifts when they came to visit today, but also did not bring Xiaobao again.
Since they are sincere friends and have a good degree of advance and retreat, Xiangxiang hopes to make friends.
And Xiaobao is not a nasty child, and within a certain range, Xiangxiang does not reject contact with him.
So when Tang Juan's mother-in-law Aunt Fan was always with Xiangxiang at the end of the year, Aunt Fan was very popular, with her, Xiangxiang quickly met a lot of people, and there were several women who Ma Dadao instructed to take it, and she didn't take a month to become familiar with this piece.
Occasionally, when Han Jin came home, he could see a woman chatting with Xiangxiang at home, and sometimes Xiangxiang would tell him about his life in the city with great interest.
"The small potatoes left over after the vegetable store sells potatoes, some of them have big fingernails, and many old ladies rush to collect them, no one wants them in our countryside, and no one wants to feed the pigs to delay the autumn harvest."
"Aunt Zhao taught me to save oil, take a piece of pork skin and rub it on the pot, make a dish and wipe it a few times, and a piece of pork skin can be eaten for a month. It is no wonder that many of the meat in the grocery store has no skin, and it is said that the workers of the grocery store cut it down and sold it to their relatives and friends. ”
"Sister-in-law Zhang gave us two rag cushion covers that she put together, I gave them two catties of leeks, Sister-in-law Zhang doesn't know how to eat, I'll help her mix the stuffing in the afternoon, and we will eat leeks in the evening, right?"
Han Jin especially likes to hear Xiangxiang say what she is doing at home and who she knows, but he feels a little embarrassed by this proposal, "Will you let me kiss you after eating leeks?" If you don't let us, don't eat it first, the leeks are old and sold to Uncle Zhao, and he is short of this during the New Year. ”
Xiangxiang blushed, she really didn't cook leeks for dinner, Han Jin understood it, and Xiangxiang blushed before the meal was finished.
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