973 Outer Room
After eating, Jin Wang took a nap first, Gao Zhao asked his mother to take him to sleep, and Jia Xibei specially prepared a room for the children to rest.
The younger children went to sleep, the older ones continued to play in the other room, and Gao Zhao and the others drank tea and talked in the hall.
Time passed quickly, and I didn't think it was half an afternoon, so I called the children back with their respective babies and told each other.
Gao Zhao and the others came over in their own carriage, Jiang Sankou and they still sent Gao Zhao to send a carriage back, Jiang Sanshan and Liang Meixue's in-laws were in the west of the city, so they sent them back first.
got out of the car, Liang Meixue hugged her daughter Han Youping and led her son Han Zhengxu home, first went to her mother-in-law's courtyard to say something, and when she went in, she saw her sister-in-law Han Lingxiang in the house.
She wondered at this point, how could the sister-in-law go back to her parents' house, seeing her red eyes and her mother-in-law's face ugly, Liang Meixue only said that she was back and hurriedly took her children out.
Han Lingxiang saw her sister-in-law go out and said, "Mother, I won't go back, I'll stay at my mother's house for a few days." ”
"How about a few days? My mother told you before that being a daughter-in-law is not the same as being a daughter in your mother's family, even if you are right, but people have to pick and choose, who can not find faults? Besides, you gave birth to a girl, if it is a child, you can still refuse, who has a child in all generations, even if you don't let the girl enter the door, the child will always have to be picked up. This has to be replaced by your brother, and my mother will do the same. ”
Han Lingxiang cried again, "I've only been married for two years, who has the first child of a girl and let his son raise an illegitimate child?" Won't I give birth in the future? My mother-in-law's first child was also a daughter, so why did I let me accept the illegitimate child back when it was my turn? ”
Han Yang sighed and took his daughter to wipe her tears. It's not that she doesn't want to give her daughter a head, but what problems can she solve? The most important daughter is impulsive and not calm enough, if she follows her daughter to talk angrily, her daughter feels that she has the support of her mother's family, and she will quarrel with her mother-in-law when she goes back, and in the end it is their mother and daughter who will suffer.
"You go back and tell your mother-in-law that it's okay for the child to come back, but it can't be in your name, the concubine is the concubine, and the woman can't be taken back."
Han Lingxiang raised her face and hesitated: "Put it outside, Sui'er and her father run there all day long......"
Han Yang interrupted her and asked, "Then what do you want?" ”
Han Lingxiang replied for a long time: "I don't know." ”
Han Yang's hatred of iron and steel said: "Think about it, if you don't want their mother and son to come back, I will go to the Cheng family, it's okay to fall out, and tell your father about the mother who left you, but you have to bear this result, are you willing?" ”
Han Lingxiang turned around and cried on the back of the chair, Han Yang took a deep breath, didn't she want to stand up for her daughter? But the result? Women and separation are not just a matter of their mother and daughter, is the Han family willing to have a daughter who is divorced?
For the sake of an outer room and separation, others can only say that the daughter of the Han family is mean and intolerable, so she can't just give a child a bite to eat, and she can't tolerate it.
How will my daughter stay at her in-law's house after she is ruthless? Offend everyone, it is more difficult for the husband to turn back, and the daughter and granddaughter have a foothold?
Han Lingxiang cried whining, crying and saying: "They just bullied my mother's family and no one gave me a head, if my mother's family is willing to help me, how dare their Cheng family?" Didn't my mother see that my sister-in-law and the eldest princess's daughter-in-law were friendly, so she was polite to my sister-in-law, and my brother didn't dare to take a concubine, if I knew the eldest princess's daughter-in-law, where would the Cheng family dare to bully me? ”
Han Yang was so angry that he couldn't speak for a long time, and let his daughter cry for a long time before saying: "If you do half of your sister-in-law, I will also be convinced, your sister-in-law couldn't speak at first, but she did nothing wrong, and later changed her problem." At first, my mother was polite to her for other reasons, but then my mother really liked her, if you have a dependence, your eyes are not on the top of your head? Your sister-in-law never mentions the second grandmother of the princess's mansion, she is considerate to your brother and takes good care of her life, your brother is late for studying, your sister-in-law brings tea and water, and makes supper herself, saying that she used to give her brother at her mother's house, what did you do for your brother at your mother's house? Your sister-in-law gave birth to two, both of which were taken care of by herself, and said that mothers should do it for their children, how did you do it? What if my mother-in-law picks on you? Who does Sui'er sleep with at night? How many times do you wake up at night? Your brother said, "If you have such a daughter-in-law, you will find a husband and a father in vain." Don't you say that the Cheng family has a descendant, doesn't our family have a descendant? Of course, the son-in-law is at fault, even if he is not a person, what you have to do is to make others not make mistakes, you can make a request, now you want to have a good time with Sui'er and his father, you are like your sister-in-law to learn more, if you don't want to, my mother went to find the Cheng family, my daughter is filial to the elders in the Cheng family, and the children are raised, and it is not that she will not give birth, so she is in a hurry to raise the outer room and want to take it home! Your Cheng family simply marries the outer room as the main room, and everyone in Beijing who can shout at your mother knows the ugly things that the Cheng family has done. But you! Don't marry again? If you get married, if someone takes a concubine and then divorces? ”
The daughter she raised knows what her temperament is, Han Yang knows that her daughter can't be so resolute, and when she comes back, she just wants her mother's family to come out and not let the outer room enter the door, but her mother's family has done this, how will her daughter live in the future? The son-in-law will not enter the door in the future, and the daughter will only have one daughter, and it is not a joke to have a reputation for not having a son.
"I know you want your sister-in-law to help you, but you just want to ask for help, and you don't say a word. Your sister-in-law said something unpleasant to you at the beginning, she was unintentional, do you see what your sister-in-law did later? Apologize to you, apologize to your mother, and ask your brother for warmth, which one of the family members has never confiscated the snacks she made? The golden cake is difficult to buy, your sister-in-law sends two copies to her mother every month, and when you come back, you open your mouth to ask your sister-in-law to help buy a few, and you also say that you know the Gao family, just say it. Your sister-in-law knows the Gao family, but she sent her dowry to line up to buy it, and she went to open her mouth for a snack? Are you worthless as a Gao family, or do you think your sister-in-law can walk sideways in the Gao family? Your sister-in-law is smarter than you, and people have to use it for big things, saying that she will ask Wu Grandma for something to happen in the future, where are you? For a few pieces of snacks, let your sister-in-law use up her affection, saying that you are still not convinced, you just want to beg your sister-in-law and mother and don't agree, is your brother's future important or your son-in-law's outer room important? ”
Han Lingxiang was even more uncomfortable and unconvinced when she heard her mother say this, Han Yang's looked at her face and sighed, no wonder people said that her daughter was harmed by her ignorance in her mother's family, whose daughter didn't bow down and be small after getting married, and some of them married their husbands to win over their husbands, what can they do when they meet an unreasonable mother-in-law? An unfilial hat is buttoned down, and it is not clear if there is a mouth.
Some have been married for more than ten years and have children, and they are still doing things with their tails between their tails in front of their mother-in-law, and their daughter-in-law has become a mother-in-law for many years, either empty words, or she herself is still coaxing her mother-in-law to talk.