Introduction: Don't look down on others, and don't think others are weird, stupid, or even sick because others do something they don't understand, in fact, everyone is so strange and incredible in the eyes of others.

Sometimes we criticize others for their low quality, sometimes we use hitting others to reflect how good and superior we are, sometimes when we are used to not changing, the opportunity for change comes to us, we will not see it, we will laugh at those who have dreams how naïve and unrealistic they are, and they are still dreamers, the dreams are gone, only homesickness is left.

We who don't have any dreams, how can we decide on other people's choices, and even sneer at us, and when people better than us come to attack and ridicule us, we will fight and satirize people who are not as good as us to regain some self-confidence.

The "kick-in cat effect" is used at this time

"Pure fire", in fact, we are bald and laughing monks - not good goods. At this age, you can play with whoever you like, be with whoever you are comfortable with, you won't be reluctant if you don't like it, you won't be wronged if you're uncomfortable, and even your speech has become direct, and you don't care if it hurts others, whether it's friendship or love, it's no longer compromised.

In fact, everyone has his own greatest, there are the most incredible places, there will be places we have to learn, no matter what kind of people, no matter what kind of things, we can learn things, but not many people will admit that they are very inadequate, most of them love to perform, love to show how good they are, love to package themselves, a lot of vanity, engage in some so-called face-saving things, so, that's it, in fact, this is a waste of your own time, because flashy things are the easiest to break, the most easy to be bored.

Some people only show the brightest side of themselves to the crowd, and the dark side is left to their lovers, their parents, and even their children, which is more important?

When you really encounter something, you run faster than anyone else, and you usually boast of being a good person, a good man, or even a decent gentleman, where is it, are you tired!

often say that they are very bold, maybe even cockroaches are afraid; often says that he is very rich, maybe he often saves money behind his back, and eats one meal a day; I often say that I am a dick.,Maybe I don't understand anything.。

In order to show the so-called superiority, in order to force the qualifications, do everything to fight for face, to sarcastically attack others, maybe they usually look bad, they are very kind in their hearts, maybe they usually look honest, and they do bad things behind their backs.

You can't look at people with your eyes, but you have to look with your heart. But the people of this era are very anxious for quick success, and they can do very little, and it can be said that most of them are the same virtue.

You can despise what others do, but you have no right to look down on other people's choices. Dumbledore said that it is not our ability to determine who we become, but our choice.

Respect other people's choices, because other people's choices are things that you have never experienced, and if you have not experienced this choice, you are not qualified to evaluate other people's lives, because you feel different bodies and are not affected.

Maybe you will be a little wiser and better than such a person, but when you choose to look down on the lifestyle of others, no matter how good you are, you will lose and lose your heart.

In fact, I personally think that no matter what kind of life it is, whether it is noble or vulgar, it is a very good choice, because it is a very good life experience.

Every day passes, there are thousands of days that we have never lived, so we don't need to envy others, because our happiness is in the eyes of others, and we never take the initiative to discover our own happiness, which is really a pity.

We envy others with a monthly salary of tens of thousands, but we don't know how hard he works overtime every day until late at night, and we envy the freedom of others to go and play wherever they say, but we don't know what he gives up for this freedom.

Everything has a price, whether it is wealth, career, love, or freedom, others will always be others, elsewhere will always be elsewhere, and when you walk past, the place you are now will become your other place, so there is no need to envy, life is not elsewhere, here!

Note: The "kicking cat effect" is said in psychology: a father was criticized by the boss in the company, and when he came home, he scolded the child who jumped around on the sofa, and the child was angry in his heart, and kicked the cat rolling around him, and the cat fled to the street just as a truck drove over, and the driver quickly avoided it, but injured the child on the side of the road, which is famous in psychology

The "kick-effect" depicts a typical contagion of bad moods. People's dissatisfaction and bad mood are generally passed on in turn along the chain of social relations, from the high status to the low status, from the strong to the weak, and the weakest who have nowhere to vent become the ultimate victims.

Actually, it's a contagion of mental illness, which involves one

The question of "demeanor".