[Essay] 40: People are the same every year, but people are different
If the "horoscope says" is true, then I can only be considered the harlequin of Gemini, which is quite strange at times, but this word is far from accurate to describe me, because I am so crazy.
Maybe Gemini itself is colorful and versatile, or maybe literature is my destined marriage, I am used to its existence every day, it has become an important part of my life, adding joy to me and relieving my worries.
In this every day and every minute of the encounter and separation, it is me, but I am not me, every day I am changing, I am dying in the past, I am just every second of this moment, every joy, anger and sorrow, the past two years, more sad than I ever be, but let me encounter many people and many scenes, is the "painful happiness" that I will never forget. Youth, hello —— order
(Dreams are like life)——
The inchworm bends in order to seek faith; The sting of the dragon and snake to survive also; The province of the widow is thought to be Ying.
Tonight, the soul is on the moon, and the lewd and obscene wind is down, and the old scenery of the Champs is elegant, and there are few people who are panicked.
Besides, since Zhu Zi came, they were all staying, so why hurry, fortunately, he was drowned.
But the years go by, hurry, hurry this warm bleakness,
Parting unexpectedly, parting unexpectedly, parting partially, parting frequently hurting people.
In a trance, people wake up from their dreams, and the words and words come out.
Why do people have to meet and separate each other in life, why do they want life to be like a dream, and a bottle is still a river and a moon?
I used to take this as the main color of life, and naively thought that these people who came and left were to teach me a lesson and teach me something, but in fact, I was wrong, many people come and go in my world, in fact, the most urgent goal is just to make my life more colorful, to survive more courageously, they are actually the unique scenery in my life.
Every fate, every separation, is doomed and over! I know it's time to say goodbye: goodbye, big brother in the lower bunk! Thank you for listening to me, for taking me on a tour, and for always squeezing me. In fact, some "scenery" is not meant to make people reflect on something, on the contrary, it is actually just a mood basket that can listen to people talk about their troubles and sorrows, and that is enough!
But I still found that my EQ should be charged with 300 yuan, not that the storage of EQ is not enough to spend, but that I am too serious and too serious about the truth! In fact, many people are not chattering in search of real answers, they just want to be able to call friends and ignite this cold water, just want to say more and talk more.
In fact, it's not wrong to know too much, it's just that people are too frivolous, don't understand the mechanism, my emotional intelligence is a little low, but I've always been right in front of these truths, not to run in more about my own way of life, because few like these fields......
(What is love)——
A hundred times of the Jin human drama, the female idiot is always not true. In this bustling and noisy rolling red dust, I have met and heard of love, but more people turn around and are strangers, and the affection of the past is scattered. Love, what it looks like, no one can say, but they all know what it's like not to love.
There is a good saying: "Seemingly complex things are often the simplest, and seemingly simple things are often the most complicated", so to some extent, if two people can't stay together for the rest of their lives, then "I love you" is just the most hurtful ridicule in these hurried years. It's not that the death and life of love in the youth is "love", and the one who can stay with each other until old age is called true love!
If these sweet words spit out at will, if they can't stand the test of time, then "I am willing to grow old with you" is just an empty language that is happy for a while. The capital is full of love and empty hatred since ancient times, and good dreams are the easiest to wake up, in fact, waiting itself is wrong, the more people wait, the more the love fades, love is together, if you can be together!
But in today's reality, many people are not married to a man, but to his RV, and they are saying that love is worth a few dollars, but in fact, it is not that love is worthless, but that such people do not deserve to have valuable love!
If you love him very much, you will tolerate his temporary poverty,
If he loves you very much, he will give you a lot of money;
If you love him deeply, you will give him a lot of support,
If he loves you very deeply, he will give you a lot of time,
Love has always been mutual, but now it has evolved into one-sided taking and giving, what kind of wonderful world is this?
I can't say it, I'm exhausted in words, but I can't describe it。。。。。
(Suva's Journey) –
The flowers are similar every year, and the people are the same and different every year.
The night gave me a pair of black eyes, and I used them to see the light and desolation, which was so unsightly, but I wishfully thought that good things needed to be grinded.
are saying that life is just a hurry for more than a hundred years, why not really love it vigorously, but sometimes some people are wishful and let go, sometimes let go only to find that this is the most wishful person, sometimes, sometimes, people are in the loss after getting to wake up, but it has really been lost.
The Buddha said: "If it hurts, it will naturally let go." But I don't even want to ask for it, how can I put it down?
I seem to know my origins, and I seem to understand my destiny, and of course I also know where to go on the road ahead, but I am still deeply, I don't know how many years a year or two.
In this rolling red dust, we are desperate to pursue, seek wealth, fame, fortune and fate...... I can't ask for it, I regret it; If you ask for it, it may be even more regrettable.
Sometimes, the most regrettable thing in life is not not not to get, but to find out that you are not happy after getting it, in fact, the most regrettable thing in life is to be unhappy after getting and not letting go of what has been lost.
After experiencing the baptism of feelings, I found that loving someone is reflected in the details, and the details are out of the ordinary.
For example, he usually remembers your unintentional words.
For example, they will take the initiative to chat with you, this chat is communication, whether it is a husband and wife or a boyfriend or a girlfriend, communication is very important, to know whether there is any misunderstanding between each other, whether there is something that is not enough!
If he loves you very much, he will give you a lot of money.
If he loves you deeply, he will give you a lot of time.
In fact, love is not vigorous to applaud, the more ordinary the love, the more sincere, the simpler, happier and longer the love.
The true meaning of what you seek with your youth will not become peaceful with the passage of time, companionship is the most affectionate confession, but the longest love is together, never abandoned!
Postscript: Synthesizing what I feel and see now, I write a poem to comfort my deepest feelings. In fact, in this splendid red dust, whether it is such as "white clouds and dogs in the dust" or "falling flowers and flowing water", it is worth ordinary people to experience a few times, and it is even more worthy of ordinary people to find the most important and precious things for themselves.
However, it is a pity that people always know how to cherish after losing, and then cherish it for a period of time and then become cold, and then lose again, over and over again, this may be human nature! Finally, let me scribble a poem to end this wandering feeling in the red dust.
——"Remembering the Beginning* Handa Palace's Ruthless People"——
At the end of the world, the letter is scarce, and it is difficult to find the southern swallow.
Left and right volts flow out, and it is easy to hesitate.
The years are long, and the lovesickness is long, and the love is uninhibited.
I think of it, yesterday's Xiuxiu was charming.
I remembered again that Tong Tian couldn't do it in the Ming Dynasty.
The truth is always learned, and people only know when they go.
Mo Dao was stunned at that time, and now he is gone, and he is sorry for him.