Introduction: When you see your child's final exam results, no matter how good or bad the grades are, please think: every child is a seed of a flower, but everyone's flowering period is different. Some flowers will bloom brilliantly at the beginning, and some flowers will require a long wait. Don't look at others blooming, your own one is not moving and is in a hurry, I believe that it is a flower, and it has its own flowering period. Carefully, take care of your flowers, slowly watch them grow up, and accompany him (her) to bathe in the sun and wind and rain, which is not a kind of happiness. Believe in the child and wait for the flowers to bloom. Maybe your seed will never bloom, because he may be a towering tree!

Everyone is in a hurry now, and our parents are even more so: when we go to school, they start to worry about grades, worry about high school, and rush to college; When we graduated, they moved on to our jobs; We worked for a year or two, and we thought about our marriage day and night. Actually, it's a quick success, not an effort. Think about it, if a task that took three years to complete was not completed in a year, was it possible? Going with the flow is the last word! Another example is that the development is very good at the beginning, but in the end it is getting worse and worse, is this a successful life? In fact, life doesn't care about the beginning, only who can laugh the best at the end, isn't this one of the reasons why we insist on living?

At the same time, we don't look at the problem from the perspective of others, in fact, there are many things that we know are half-understood, which can also be said to be half-witted. But we get used to it, so we get used to thinking that the "wrong" knowledge in our minds is right, and even complacent, which is irrational. For example, hehe and hoho, the former originally refers to laughter or smile and happy laughter, which also means that you are happy, which is the onomatopoeia of laughter. But nowadays, in terms of language, sometimes it means perfunctory, sometimes it means approval, sometimes it means funny, sometimes it means helplessness, sometimes it expresses sympathy, sometimes it means that you don't want to talk anymore, sometimes it is a sense of self-deprecation and sadness, and even a personal attack, which is equivalent to some abusive words. The latter, on the other hand, expresses the opposite emotion of the former, meaning to be happy and happy, to laugh happily. How many people misunderstand these two words?

There is a good sentence in Han Yu's "Teacher Said": "Confucius said: If you are a threesome, you must have my teacher. Therefore, the disciple does not have to be inferior to the teacher, the teacher does not have to be better than the disciple, there is a precedence in hearing the Tao, there is a specialization in the arts, and this is the case", the meaning of this sentence is: "Confucius said: 'If three people go together, then there must be someone who can be my teacher.' Therefore, the student is not necessarily inferior to the teacher, and the teacher is not necessarily better than the student. I know that there is a first and a second, and each has its own study and expertise in the skill business, but that's it." And how many people can put what others have in perspective? Sometimes it's clear that we are wrong, but we still hurt others, is it really better to hurt others than to lose face ourselves! Such a person may seem mighty, but in fact he is vulnerable.

There is a well-known saying: "Thirty and stand, forty and not confused, fifty and know the destiny of heaven, sixty and obedient, seventy and do what the heart wants." How many people really understand this sentence are always half-understood. The translation of this sentence is: "At the age of 30 you can stand on your own, at the age of 40 you can not be confused by external things, at the age of 50 you can understand the destiny of heaven, at the age of 60 you can correctly deal with all kinds of speech and not feel uncomfortable, and at the age of 70 you can do what you want without going out of the way." So, hurry, are you in a hurry? Can you make chrysanthemums bloom in winter? When it's raining, can you make it stop immediately? In nature, there are many irresistible forces. And what we can do is to keep ourselves in a stable state of mind and compare ourselves with our previous selves! There are many people who are unhappy and unhappy because they love to compare with others, others are good, they are jealous, others are poor, and they regain their self-confidence. In fact, comparing yourself with others is the most wrong, if your neighbors are all unknown multi-millionaires, can you still afford to compare? Comparing yourself with your previous self is the right choice! So instead of comparing yourself with others, you can learn from the strengths of others and learn the qualities that you lack!

There are always many people who see others poor and then avoid them like a plague god, and then when they meet them again many years later, they will mix up, and we will never be able to enter their circle of friends again, which is our biggest shortcoming, and even look away! The air can't be seen or touched, can you say that the air is not heavy? There are some radiation rays that the human body normally needs in the external environment (radon in nature can emit radiation), but without these invisible and intangible normal radiation, can human genetic gene expression still diversify? The importance of these things that cannot be seen or touched is self-evident and is super useful. In fact, the fate of the earth is in the hands of the sun, as long as the sun's star orbit changes a little, it will bring a devastating blow to the earth, so don't be too much, because fate is not in your hands, it is by your side.

No one can predict anyone's future, let alone control the future of others. Maybe life is at a low point now, and the future is getting better and better, maybe the present is booming, but the future is plummeting, so until the end, no one can determine everything, and it is better to laugh at the end than to start laughing! Therefore, everything is viewed with a rational attitude, the so-called back road, in view of this! Unfortunately, how many people can do it? Most of them are sarcastic and ridicule others, what kind of cause there is, what kind of fruit will be produced, the end has already been decided!

[Note: Written on the night of March 26, 2015, I accidentally saw an interview program with a terminally ill child on Shandong Satellite TV, and I was deeply touched after watching it. As expected, the child's parents regretted not being at the beginning! How many parents pin their ideals on their children, and the children become the burden of realizing their parents' ideals, and every step is arranged by the parents. What about the child's ideals, let the grandchildren realize them? Finally know why the same story works differently in different media, because there are voice-overs, tear-jerking voice-overs. Sure enough, people only know how to cherish after loss, or love, or family affection, or everything! Regret is inevitable, pity or pity? All this is left for these families to reflect on! 】