Chapter 99: Self-Affirmation

Looking at Tang Xiaoxiao, who was full of grievances, Xu Yu suddenly felt like he couldn't cry or laugh.

Isn't this girl too cute? I just wanted to tease her just now, but I didn't expect her to take it seriously.

Xu Yu raised his eyebrows slightly: "Once, like you, I also wanted to be affirmed by others, but then I changed my mind. ”

Thoughts drifted to the previous life, in the previous life, she has always been a very strong person because of family reasons, even if she has not been affirmed by Luo Huihui and Xu Yongnian, but she also hopes that she can do things better, and since she left home, she has high requirements for herself.

As I grew older, I slowly discovered that instead of wanting to be affirmed by others, it is better to affirm myself first. After learning to accept herself, she felt that her life had changed qualitatively.

So after being reborn, her mentality is the same as before, and it no longer matters to her whether others will recognize her.

After Tang Xiaoxiao heard the words of the promise, he looked at her in surprise: "What did I say just now?" ”

"I said I used to think the same thing as you, but then it changed." Xu Promise took a deep breath and said to her slowly: "You are the only person in this world, your head grows on someone else's body, you don't have to care too much about what others think of you and what they say, as long as you think it's the right thing, then you should stick to it." ”

"Just like I did before, if I cared about what other people thought in everything, I guess I wouldn't be able to live. You remember what I said on stage at that time, what did everyone think of me? But do you think I care? Promise shrugged his shoulders and said with a nonchalant face.

Tang Xiaoxiao was slightly intimidated, she naturally heard the words that Xu Promise said on stage, and she felt enthusiastic at that moment, but there were also many people around her who regarded Xu Promise as a neurotic.

It's really a very strange girl to think about Promise, and it's like there's a kind of magic in her body, which can turn decay into magic.

Sensing Tang Xiaoxiao's admiring gaze, Xu Yu was surprised in his heart: "Uh, what are you looking at me like this?" Did I say it wrong? Or is there something dirty on my face? ”

As he spoke, he reached out and touched his face, and wiped it carefully, as if there was nothing dirty.

Tang Xiaoxiao was amused by the action of the promise, and said to her with a smile: "I feel very lucky to make the promise!" ”

Hey? What's going on? Why did you suddenly talk about this matter in a good way? Are you getting old? Can't keep up with her thinking? Or is her thinking jumping too far?

"I think I really don't know you anymore." Xu Promise felt that he had a headache, and he really didn't know what to say about her at this time.

Tang Xiaoxiao held the arm of the promise and said happily: "I was really glad that I stopped you at the beginning, otherwise the two of us would not have had the opportunity to become friends." And I found out that you are really a very good girl, everyone else is waiting to see your jokes, but you live a myth. ”

"Speaking of which, I really envy you! If you say counterattack, you counterattack, but what about me? Saying that, Tang Xiaoxiao sighed heavily, if only he could be as promised, then he would be able to live an easy life.

As soon as he saw Tang Xiaoxiao's expression, Xu Promise probably guessed what she was thinking, and said to her with a smile: "Don't envy me, I really should envy you!" ”

When Tang Xiaoxiao heard the words of the promise and remembered the affairs of her family, she couldn't help but nodded, sighed and said, "So sometimes I'm quite lucky, my parents only have one daughter, so they love me so much." But don't think too much about it, anyway, don't you still have a good friend of mine, what do you say? ”

"That's right! Just because you are my good friend, I hope that no matter what time you are, you will keep your original intention and not be affected by other people's words. ”

"Even if we are good friends, but I can't always be by your side, everyone needs to face some things independently, so you have to learn to be self-affirming."

"Do you know why I succeeded in my counterattack?" Xu Promise raised his eyebrows slightly, and an incomparably bright smile appeared on his delicate face.

Tang Xiaoxiao shook his head honestly, he really didn't know about this.

Xu Promise patted her lightly on the shoulder, and said to her with a smile: "In the eyes of others, I have succeeded in counterattacking, but in my opinion, it is something I can do; I'm not trying to prove to others how good I am, I'm just trying to prove to myself that I can. ”

"At that time, no one was really optimistic about me, but so what? I don't let other people's opinions and ideas affect myself. I know what I want, but what does it matter to me what others will think of me? ”

"The world is simple and simple, and complex and complex; A lot of people think how humiliating it would be if I said something and I didn't do it, but in my opinion, this matter is far less complicated than I thought, and even a very simple thing. ”

"Because everyone is the protagonist of their own life, how can there be so much energy and time to waste and care about some unworthy people?" Speaking of this, Xu Promise suddenly laughed and cleared his throat: "Do you know a joke at school at that time? ”

"What?" Tang Xiaoxiao didn't react for a while.

"Some people say that I am the life of a scumbag, not to mention the counterattack into the top ten, it is impossible to even count the top ten, and say that if I succeed in the counterattack, I might as well believe that pigs can also go up the tree!"

Tang Xiaoxiao's eyes widened, and he looked at Xu Promise with a shocked expression.

"There are also people who say that if I can get rid of the penultimate one, I will go to Guoben, there are many people who say these similar things, I didn't care about anything at that time, and now even if I become a myth in their mouths, do I have to go to them to fulfill their original words one by one?"

"So don't think too much, you will encounter more and more complicated things in the future, don't think about other people's thoughts and statements, you have to think about your own feelings."

"And to be angry is to punish yourself for other people's mistakes, you are so smart, I don't want you to be stupid."

Xu Promise took a deep breath and said again: "Finally, I would like to emphasize the most important sentence, that is, it is better to be angry than to be angry!" It doesn't matter what others say, what matters is what kind of results you want to get and what kind of results you will get. ”

"As a good friend of yours, I hope that you will always keep your original intention, not to compare yourself with others, but to compare yourself now with your original self. There are still a few subjects to be examined, so don't relax too much now, and it's not too late to relax when you're done with all the exams. ”

Tang Xiaoxiao nodded: "Listening to your words is better than reading for ten years." ”

"Promise, why are you so smart? I'm really getting more and more fond of you. Tang Xiaoxiao said happily, she felt that her mood had changed a lot to have such a friend.

Xu promised a bright smile at her: "Who called me smart." ”

After Tang Xiaoxiao heard her words, he suddenly felt the urge to beat her violently, but after knowing the gap between himself and the promise, he had to let out a long sigh.

"Promise you're still human? How can you be so powerful? It's okay if I can't catch up with you in learning, but why can you even be better than me in kung fu. Tang Xiaoxiao had a frustrated expression on his face.

Thinking that when she stopped the promise, she thought she would win, but she didn't expect that not only did she not win, but she was also taught a lesson by the promise, and now I think about it, the two of them really belong to the kind of people who don't fight and don't know each other.

Xu Yu looked at Tang Xiaoxiao, who was full of depression, and said to her with a smile: "There was once a great man who said that when you seriously want to do a good job, then the whole world will make way for you." ”

"Don't tell me you're the great man." Tang Xiaoxiao threw her a big white eye, and her heart was very congested.

Xu Promise shook his head with a smile: "No, if I really want to be so powerful, I won't be so miserable." ”

Tang Xiaoxiao's heart was sour, at this moment she suddenly didn't know what she should say, she reached out and hugged the promise, and said softly in her ear: "No matter what, no matter what happens in the future, I will be your best friend." ”

"Really?" Xu Promise raised his eyebrows slightly, pretending to ask seriously.

Tang Xiaoxiao nodded and said very seriously: "Of course, when did I lie to you." ”

"You're wrong, it's not that you don't want to lie to me, it's that you can't fool me at all. Still, I'm glad to hear you say that. However, I felt it was time to repeat it. Xu Promise cleared his throat and replied with great seriousness.

"What?"

The corners of Xu Promise's mouth hooked up a smile of unknown meaning, and he slowly spoke: "I'm more competitive, and I'm also more picky about friends, I don't like friends who have been dragging their feet, so do you understand what I mean?" ”

Tang Xiaoxiao grinds her teeth, how can this girl be so horizontal? Is it okay to ignore people just because you study well? I'm really at her!

But no matter how angry you are, what does it do? Who told that guy to tell the truth? I really can't compare to her.

Tang Xiaoxiao let out a long sigh: "You said so, what else can I say except work hard?" Although you seem to be very good, but you don't speak as well as me, so I forgive you for showing my generosity. ”