Qian County Lieutenant saw his aunt come back, arranged a table to entertain, Qian Yunying to the elders after the ceremony, has been honest, recently without the protection of his mother, there is an uncle and grandmother at home who makes him afraid, plus his sister slowly elaborated, he also behaved, no longer a little unsatisfactory and rolled around the scoundrel.

During the meal, Mrs. Qian Wugu asked about her nephew's studies, and the words were introduced to Mr. Jia, and the county lieutenant Qian joked about some interesting things about Mr. Jia, and said that he must have made mistakes and was demoted, unlike Mr. Serious in the school, but there is a set of teaching.

After the meal, while Mrs. Qian was taking a nap, Mrs. Fifth and Mrs. Six continued to talk in a whisper.

"Let me say, it's okay to retire from this family affair, Yulan can still find a good one, it's not about the family background, at least the healthy person is a whole person, no matter what happens to the Jia family and the Gao family, just rely on the friendship between Yulan and the eldest lady of the Gao family, the Gao family is good, and Yulan can also be stained, I don't agree with taking the little lady in the family to seek a future for the Qian family, but people will always want to take a step forward, or say that the high family marries a woman, and the low family marries a woman."

Hearing what the sixth sister-in-law said, Mrs. Qian Wugu's face flushed, although this family affair was asked by the second sister-in-law to her, but she also had selfish intentions, and Yulan was married to the Tong family, and she was married to a side branch, not to mention, the husband did not have a serious position, although the cousin of the branch was a loose lawsuit official who did not enter the stream, but he was also from the criminal department.

"Sixth sister-in-law, I have selfish intentions, and I am also afraid that Yulan's mother will make her mess with her family, but it will hurt her even more, I do this calmly, although my cousin-in-law has changed his hexagram, but her grandson is not a crooked person except for bad legs and feet, otherwise I will not harm my niece and nephew if I am selfish, but if it is given to Yulan Dingjing, it is difficult to find it except for businessmen, so ......"

The sixth old lady interrupted her: "You don't need to explain this, I understand, I pity Yulan, I don't blame you, I still don't understand this?" I just think it's okay to quit my family, don't tell my second sister-in-law in advance, you go back to Beijing to answer your cousin-in-law, and then return the marriage ceremony, and my Qian family will not stay at all. ”

Mrs. Fifth Aunt nodded, she had an idea in her head, but she didn't say it, and she would mention it to the sixth sister-in-law after returning to Beijing to inquire.

The sister-in-law whispered a few more words, and the fifth aunt waited for the second sister-in-law to wake up, and said that she went back to the old house, but actually rushed back to Beijing by car.

The sixth old lady called Qian Yulan, said something casually, and turned to Jia's house.

"Yulan, your aunt and grandmother have a headache because of your cousin's study, I heard that Mr. Jia is teaching well, and I want him to go back to the county to study, so I came to ask specifically, this is the matter of the Qian family, you just know it, you don't need to tell Sister Zhao'er."

Qian Yulan, who was originally puzzled by this today, understood, and nodded in response.

"Yulan, you remember, no matter whether the future is good or bad, don't complain, keep your heart, don't let your heart be crooked, you just work hard, don't compare with anyone, don't say outsiders, it's a family of sisters, there are differences after a few decades, some are wives in rich families, and some work hard in the fields all their lives."

Qian Yulan thought that she was talking about the fifth aunt and grandmother, the aunt and grandmother had two siblings, the third aunt and grandmother and the seventh aunt and grandmother were married in the township, and the third aunt and grandmother were very close, and now they are living a day when the children and grandchildren of the farmer family are around the knees, and the seventh aunt and grandmother are a mess in the family, complaining that the elders did not choose a good family for her to marry, complaining that the nephew of a county lieutenant did not support her, and complaining that the fifth aunt and grandmother did not help her, otherwise she could marry into Beijing as a rich wife.

"When we were little sisters together, some entered the palace as palace maids, and some married in love, I have been in the Qian family for decades, whether it is good or not, outsiders don't know, but they see my current scenery, and some are not happy What do they think in their hearts, I also know, I will think that she married her and gave birth to children, honored her elders, and pulled a large family, why is it not as decent as me in the end? But she didn't think about it, how have I done it for decades? How did I get here? Magnolia, you have to remember that what your heart is like will determine how you do things, and what you do is not one or two things that show how you are, but it takes years of precipitation to make you who you are, and you are also in the eyes of outsiders. ”

Qian Yulan listened attentively and silently remembered it in her heart.

"Uncle and grandmother said this not to let you do something for outsiders, to do something for what outsiders think of you, it is to do it from your heart, to do anything, you must first be worthy of yourself, what kind of person you want you to be, you have to think about it."

Qian Yulan replied sincerely: "Yulan wants to be like an uncle and grandmother." ”

The sixth old lady smiled and asked rhetorically, "Why don't you want to be like your fifth aunt and grandmother?" ”

Qian Yulan smiled embarrassedly and said: "Yulan also admires the fifth aunt and grandmother, but Yulan is self-aware, Yulan doesn't have the brain, and she doesn't have the ability, Yulan wants to live her life uprightly, but she also wants to be like the fifth aunt and grandmother, going out is the second aunt and grandmother of the Qian family, and she can also make her grandmother's parents happy." ”

"You can think like this, others are better than you, and there is a limit to what can help you, don't let yourself feel unhappy and unwilling, with such thoughts, people will be unrecognizable in the long run, others are still others, but they hurt themselves because of this thought, and when you are old, you will not only hurt yourself, because it is impossible not to show this kind of thought in life, how much will affect your family, your emotions not only affect yourself, but also affect your family, crooked people are cultivated by themselves."

"Uncle and grandmother, I understand that when I marry in Beijing in the future, I will not look down on the little sisters in my childhood hometown, nor will I compare with my husband's concubine, I know my position."

Qian Yulan thought that her uncle and grandmother were worried that she would marry in Beijing in the future, and her appearance was beautiful, but because of her husband's legs and feet, she was definitely not as high as other concubines in her husband's family.

Maybe the fifth aunt and grandmother came this time to ask her uncle and grandmother to explain this to her.

The sixth old lady didn't say anything, only nodded.

"It's good if you know, whether it's because your status has changed in the future, or because of someone else's status has changed, don't let your mind be crooked, other people's jealousy has no effect on you, you still live your life, you hate others, in addition to making you unrecognizable, but it can't affect others."

Qian Yulan remembered the three ladies of the Wang family, and she once said to herself, Sister Zhao'er is not because her father is the master bookkeeper, otherwise she is nothing, her mother is a countryman, and she is ugly, but the other little ladies in the yamen are all holding her.

Let Sister Zhao say that Wang Sanniang's heart is crooked, if she continues like this, she will become hateful, and her family will not accept it.

"I used to wonder why your seventh aunt and grandmother have bitten the fifth aunt and grandmother all her life, it stands to reason that your grandmother is blessed, her mother's family is not obvious, and she has never suffered except for being aggrieved in your mother, but why does your seventh aunt and grandmother stare at the fifth aunt and grandmother? They are still sisters, and later I understood, it is because they are sisters and they grew up together, and there is no difference when they are daughters, but the fifth aunt and grandmother are married well, which makes your seventh aunt and grandmother feel unhappy, and your grandmother and she didn't know each other before, and there is no difference, so the seventh aunt and grandmother with a crooked heart have become like this, and the third aunt and grandmother are content and happy, and they are grateful to their sister for taking care of her, so now these two sisters are in such a different state. ”

As soon as the uncle and grandmother said this, Qian Yulan understood, the situation of the seventh aunt and grandmother of the Qian family was surprised by everyone, it stands to reason that there is no contradiction between the two sisters when they are in the boudoir, and they get along well, after Mrs. Qian Wugu got married, she didn't say that she would not help her mother's family, and there was no distinction between sisters, but later Mrs. Qigu's chewing tongue inside and outside was aimed at Mrs. Wugu, and she took out the things that pushed her when she was a few years old and talked about it for decades, to prove that Mrs. Wugu has been black-hearted since she was a child.

Qian Yulan was very grateful to her uncle and grandmother for saying these words to her many years later, so that she could keep her heart and sister Zhao'er until she grew old.

It is impossible for people to have no grievances and no greed, but it depends on how they correct themselves, but fortunately, thanks to what her uncle and grandmother said, she understood what was right and what was wrong, and did not let the injustice in her heart swell and make herself hateful. ()

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