There is one of the most difficult things in the world, which is to be yourself, to be yourself, to have your own characteristics, to have your own style, instead of blindly envying others, to deliberately imitate others, with the shadow of others, and even live for others all your life, do something against your will, and be "yourself" in the eyes of others, in fact, the most beautiful in the world includes "yourself", whether it is yourself, myself, or himself, it is a magical and unique scenery, but this is very easy to be ignored by "yourself", It is also easy to be misled by other people's revelations, so that they only see the good of others and do not see that they are also good, in the final analysis, this is a manifestation of discontentment and unhappiness.

We all like to envy, envy other people's happiness, envy other people's happiness, envy other people's lives, envy other people's everything, just like other people's happiness is really happy, other people's happiness is true happiness, other people's lives are the best life, but we forget that our smile is also sweet, forget that our life is also happy, forget that we are actually happy, but we pretend or really can't see everything we have, can't see our ordinary but real happiness, maybe we love and desire, Love longs for everything that others have, even its own; We all like to imitate, is to imitate deliberately, imitate the gesture of others, imitate the success model of others, as long as others are successful and rich, they can't wait to become the roundworm in their stomach, but forget one thing, in fact, they just do their best, from no one cares about each step to the flowers and applause; We all like to elevate others, belittle ourselves, seem to be humble, in fact, we have no confidence in ourselves, we all want to be extraordinary, but we are doing "ourselves" in the eyes of others, we forget, forget that we are so unique and beautiful, when we marvel at the incredibleness of others, but forget ourselves, forget that we ourselves are also very peculiar outstanding, just because we are blinded by our own ignorance and humility, we magnify the uniqueness and all of others, we can't see our own unique possession, We ignore our own "merits", and even ignore ourselves entirely, so we sink into the glory of others, as if we are just a doppelganger of others.

As the saying goes, people in the rivers and lakes can't help themselves, which shows that it is difficult to be yourself, and it is even more difficult to be yourself.

In the world we live in, there are always countless fetters, there are always inexplicable upsets, there are always uncontrollable tiredness and awakenings, there is always someone who has no reason, only relying on his personal likes and dislikes to teach that this is not right, that is not right, and even "Hey, this is not what I think of you", but in fact it has done well enough, but it will still be slandered, disdained, and even excluded by many people, but this is the real taste of life!

In fact, to be oneself is not to be oneself without love, without kindness, without sincerity, and only knowing selfishness, nor is it to be this kind of self that "everyone in the world is drunk and I am awake, and everyone in the world is turbid and I am alone", but to be quiet as a virgin, moving like a crazy rabbit, can be static and moving, can move and be quiet, find peace in the noise, and find the subtle balance of vitality in the cold, which is the most commendable.

When I envy others better than my writing, more likable than my articles, but I don't find that my writing has always been abundant, I can control the text with love, and most of the others lack a little bit of emotion, just a bunch of gorgeous words, this is my style, my own characteristics, in fact, the person who can do a good job of himself is the real admirable hero, because doing a good job of yourself is really an incredible thing, doing yourself is not to do a good job in the eyes of others "yourself", It's really good to be the healthy and free "self" that you want to do in your heart!